New Age Lifestyle

Hello Everyone!

       First of all, I would like to take this Time to THANK all of you that have joined the Forum.  As many of you know, I have been Advocating for Gender Role Reversal and the Empowerment of Women with the Feminization of men for well over 30 years!   It has been such a Delightful experience to converse with all the people that I have corresponded with over the years.  I think at times about PennySue, and the Great Wisdom she brought to the subject of male feminization.  I often wonder how her hubbette, and her three darling sissy boys have made out since her passing in the car accident back in 2007.....I have had no contact with them  I wonder if the boys are now Pretty male wives to some Strong Feminist Women?   I wonder about John/Joan, whose letter to me from 1997 I had just posted to the Blog.  The Delightful Community of those Role Reversed relationships....those Strong Women and their dainty male wives!!!  Then I think about the people that contact me through the Blog, and at times the people I assist with feminizing their son or husband, I really realize just what a Wonderful thing this has been for me.
       I guess what has me thinking about all this is the Posting from whyguys today.  I really would hate to see him go, but I also understand where he is.  He Posted a Comment on that latest Posting on the Blog, and I responded to it, this is what I wrote:

 Thank You Whyguys!    I really try to get the Points across as vividly as possible.   At times it is frustrating when it seems that we are not getting the Traffic that I would like to see, but the whole Purpose of the Blog has been to Educate and then Motivate Women to Taking Charge, and reversing the Wrongs that have been done to them,  Men and boys are better when they are "In Touch" with their Femininity, but Women Must Want that to happen, or it will not happen.  Hopefully, the Progress we have made will continue to Build!
      As with you, I am getting older as well.  I have been Fighting this Fight for well over 30 years, and I am encouraged by the Progress that we are making, but I also wish it was going Faster!
     Thank you for the nice Comment!

       Here is the "Controversial" part of this Posting:

     Some of you and I have had this discussion, but I am putting it "Out there", because maybe I just don't understand.  And this is Not to anyone in particular, like I said, it could just be that I am so "Thick headed"!

      As I have been in discussions with some over the last few weeks, I am always intrigued when someone Feminizes a husband or son, in the Goal of Empowering Women, but after they would Totally "Prissify" them, then they refer to them as "She".  I guess because I am so Adamant that Women should be exalted, and held up as Strong and Powerful Leaders, it just "troubles" me to see when a person is then Feminized, and are now the '50's style of Femininity, which was "weak" and "helpless", "in need of a man for support and protection" that we use that Superior Term on the "prissy person"...male!  I guess in my perception, I want the Strong and Powerful ones to be Women, and the weak and prissy ones to be the males.  To me, and I could be "Way Out there" on this, the "Prissiness" in the New Age NEEDS to be associated with the males!  and the Strength and Dominance NEEDS to be associated with the FEMALES!

       I would so much appreciate if we could get others thoughts on this, especially from the Strong Women we have here at the Forum.  My Goal for this Forum and Blog, and the Blog that was before this, and the Yahoo Groups that were before that, and all the Forums I had established over the last 30 years has been to EMPOWER Women and Girls, and to Feminize men and boys, putting them in their "Proper Place", which is to Serve Women!   I Want to see Women be the Leaders, God knows just how badly men have messed things up!   In the meantime, I want to see males being Accepted as Pretty and Prissy, Well Behaved "helpers" to the Women!

     I really hope that many of you will Chime in and share your thoughts.  And in that "Light", let me know what we can do to make the Forum Better, so that people realize this is NOT a "Fetish" Site, but a place to Educate and Encourage people on what the New Age Lifestyle is. 

     Thanks for Listening!

Hope to hear from you!

Patti


Patti

Thanks RF...That helps in my Outlook!

I know you and I are on the Same Page as far as knowing that Women Need to Lead and men need to be Feminized.  My Biggest concern is in Changing the perception that "Prissiness" is associated with being Female.  And we all know the basic 1950'2 perception of boys and Girls, men and Women.....that has to be Reversed!!!

I also understand that to get to the "End Game" sometimes you need to do things that you would rather not do, but if we get to the end and have a Gender Reversed Society, then I guess the means justify the Ends!

  I know all of us here want to see Women Taking the Lead and keeping their males feminine and submissive.  I also know that there are a lot of other Sites that just want to talk about Crossdressing or Feminine men.  I want to believe what makes us Different is that although we do Focus on Feminizing males, we also point out and Educate people on Female Empowerment, and that is what really Drives me in this pursuit, and therefore, anything that Takes away from Female Empowerment really Concerns me!

    I hope to hear other thoughts on this subject!

Thanks,
Patti

To RF's point, we are seeing more male femininity and girls/women not being placed in traditional gender roles. We are also seeing more acceptance for transgender and non-binary and effeminate men. Do the pronouns really matter? Not really, just use the pronouns people prefer you use. What matters is society becoming more accepting of others and that is a result of it becoming more feminine.

This is a great point. My personal focus is still on female empowerment and the benefits of feminization. The acceptance of the LGBTQ community is an off-shot of true feminism. Women helped open the door for all of society to be accepted. The goals of both communities are the destruction of the patriarchal system and the enforced rules males have imposed on all of us.

There is no doubt that the women's liberation movement also know as the "ban the bra era" opened the door for the LBGTQ community to become what is is today. We obviously still have a long way to go but we owe women and especially women like you Chris a great debt of gratitude for helping us reach our true potential and encouraging other women to do the same.

For Women like Caty Stanton to accomplish what she accomplished at a time when Women were the "property" of their husbands or fathers is Amazing. 

I can't stress this enough. There are still plenty of males and far too many women who are actively working against our cause. They would be happy to have women once again be "property" of their husbands or fathers. Too many take for granted the freedom women have earned and how easily we could lose it to the bunch of alpha males.

Here's an idea that struck me as to how to solve the controversial part of Patti's question, which perhaps may also be considered controversial.

How about role reversing the gender pronouns?

So men are she/her
And women are he/him.

Perhaps this way it would be easier for people to accept a gender role reversed society en large more easily.

If men are she/her then it would be logical, to the mass public consciousness, that men should therefore be feminine - and the women she therefore naturally be leaders, strong, bold and fierce.

Most Sissies like myself prefer to be called be a feminine name like Brenda, than my actual name Brendan.

Also, many Women these days go by names previously that were male - for example, Sam, Bobbi, Daryl, Tracey, Morgan, Charlie, Alex and of course the Radical Feminist herself is Chris.

So if the gender names are already changing, then perhaps to achieve a world where men accept femininity and sissiness and submissiveness to women, this could be more easily facilitated by being referred to as she/her.

If women take men's trousers and men's power and men's names away and take control of them, maybe it is also correct that women take away men's gender pronouns as well, and adopt what is seen as the more powerful and stronger he/him for themselves.

I do fefer to my sissy as she, but never capitalized and same with her name. My sissy knows it is not  a term for someone strong as she is a male and it grinds on her to be referred to as a female in any way, and the sissy is ddressed in feminine attire so should be addressed as such. Just my opinion and it works in my situation.

Hello Everyone!
       
      As I have been in discussions with some over the last few weeks, I am always intrigued when someone Feminizes a husband or son, in the Goal of Empowering Women, but after they would Totally "Prissify" them, then they refer to them as "She".  I guess because I am so Adamant that Women should be exalted, and held up as Strong and Powerful Leaders, it just "troubles" me to see when a person is then Feminized, and are now the '50's style of Femininity, which was "weak" and "helpless", "in need of a man for support and protection" that we use that Superior Term on the "prissy person"...male!  I guess in my perception, I want the Strong and Powerful ones to be Women, and the weak and prissy ones to be the males.  To me, and I could be "Way Out there" on this, the "Prissiness" in the New Age NEEDS to be associated with the males!  and the Strength and Dominance NEEDS to be associated with the FEMALES!

Patti

Quote from: Patti59 on January 10, 2021, 12:49:58 pm

For Women like Caty Stanton to accomplish what she accomplished at a time when Women were the "property" of their husbands or fathers is Amazing. 

I can't stress this enough. There are still plenty of males and far too many women who are actively working against our cause. They would be happy to have women once again be "property" of their husbands or fathers. Too many take for granted the freedom women have earned and how easily we could lose it to the bunch of alpha males.

I see where Patti is coming from but I don't think that pronouns are actually that important. My path is a little different in that I was started along this path by a partner who recognised the inner conflict that I've fought since i was 8yo if not earlier. Now I present as a female 24/7 and plan to 'go all the way' something unthinkable not so long ago. When I go out with a group of girl friends I'm expected to be that bit more extreme in my clothing. If they wear jeans I either wear a skirt or dress, when in dresses or skirts mine are always a little shorter than theirs, often in 'fetish' materials leather, black PVC, and often chains and other details.
The logic would probably be familiar to Radical Feminist in that I'm seen as a detoxing 'male' and are welcomed as an ally and a sign to other males that change is possible and rewarding. My ex-partner is fully inline with this outlook and she is still a very good friend. I have been involved in several conversations and it's clear that my current dress code will be expected to continue after surgery, because I have been guided well I have absolutely no problem with this.
Possibly the dynamic of aggressive alpha males at the top of the system in their eyes will be eroded as some join in my journey, stop lying and fighting the obvious, and are happier as a result. I've come to like what's happening and I think most other males would too. The more aggressive and hateful may well be acting to cover their own issues - jealous of a freer lifestyle they hate those who endure or embrace it.