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Mistress Linda

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About Chastity
« on: March 12, 2023, 01:16:22 pm »
I have been reading some of the posts about chastity. Some are by my sissy Jan. Males, in my opinion are driven by their **** and as soon as a male has experienced the feel of a **** they want to do it again. That want and need drives them and can be used to control them. Once a male is in chastity he will want to get out and use his ****. A simple conversation with him is often all that is needed to point him hi the right direction. If you explain to him that other males all have a **** and his is locked away he will begin to understand his predicament. A male must learn that oral sex is still sex and that his giving of oral sex is a reward. Now Jan has learned that his days of penetrating me are over and his only hope of ever getting his much desired temporary release is if I am satisfied with his oral work. Several men have told me I give a great blow job. Jan has had a few of them and is just crazy about them. The promise of time out of chastity and the hint of a blow job insures a compliant sissy. Jan would rather not wear a dress when I have guests over but he will and he will be a lovely hostess when the need arises. Jan is able to sit with my women friends and have a feminine conversation like any lady.

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Re: About Chastity
« Reply #1 on: March 21, 2023, 09:47:07 am »
I am a firm believer that chastity is a MUST for sissies. There is no doubt that males are driven by their ****. But their strength can be used against them. As you may have read on the forum, sissy annie has been regressed to a little girl. She lives the lifestyle of a 5 year old child. Sex is inappropriate for her. She is in permanent chastity and on female hormones for years now. She still has those urges but that energy is channeled into seeking the approval of her mommy. Being the best little princess.

She does have a monthly milking for prostate health but that is not release. Her morning bath gives me the opportunity to clean the device as needed. She has begged me for SRS but I prefer her as a sissy. I am impressed with how you are managing Jan, your sissy. Allowing him to give oral sex to females is delightful
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Re: About Chastity
« Reply #2 on: March 22, 2023, 11:37:06 am »
I have been reading some of the posts about chastity. Some are by my sissy Jan. Males, in my opinion are driven by their **** and as soon as a male has experienced the feel of a **** they want to do it again. That want and need drives them and can be used to control them. Once a male is in chastity he will want to get out and use his ****. A simple conversation with him is often all that is needed to point him hi the right direction. If you explain to him that other males all have a **** and his is locked away he will begin to understand his predicament. A male must learn that oral sex is still sex and that his giving of oral sex is a reward. Now Jan has learned that his days of penetrating me are over and his only hope of ever getting his much desired temporary release is if I am satisfied with his oral work. Several men have told me I give a great blow job. Jan has had a few of them and is just crazy about them. The promise of time out of chastity and the hint of a blow job insures a compliant sissy. Jan would rather not wear a dress when I have guests over but he will and he will be a lovely hostess when the need arises. Jan is able to sit with my women friends and have a feminine conversation like any lady.

I have not been allowed in Miss Brenda for several years since she has taken my manhood and looked me into chastity.  She will give me only periodic release with her strap** or perhaps her hand.  The anticipation keeps me totally in her control, and I find that I will do almost anything for the promise of her touch down there.  We malettes are so pathetic to be so easily seduced and controlled, but we cannot help ourselves and you ladies know exactly how to use it against us.  No question that females are the superior sex.
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Re: About Chastity
« Reply #3 on: March 29, 2023, 05:09:55 pm »
YES.... ultimately when we malettes learn to see the JOY that Women take in controlling us -- we have finally found the TRUE WORTH WE HAVE TO OFFER OUR SUPERIORS

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Re: About Chastity
« Reply #4 on: March 30, 2023, 01:21:02 am »
I've tried chastity. Probably the wrong cages but a fortnight maximum. Having to wash three times a day. Buying panty pads for the leaks and boy does it leak. So I gave up.

Not that self abuse is high on my agenda anyway. Kudos to those that can be permanently locked and chaste....

Oh Birdcage and my bits kept falling out. Steel is the way to go.

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Re: About Chastity
« Reply #5 on: March 30, 2023, 06:10:09 pm »
My approach to chastity has changed through the four or so years that I have been doing FLR. When I started I considered chastity as a must. In my view chastity was to be permanent and I had bought two devices to allow for cleaning.

It was one of the first things I did when moving to FLR. Containing his manhood seemed an obvious first act of feminization. But, to be honest I did not really think it through and I did little to no research. We had a number of problems right from the start. The devices were a poor fit for him but I could not work out if they were too big or too small. The devices would press into him, ultimately causing busing or sores. Other times they would shift position, trapping skin, stopping him from peeing properly, and in general could cause considerable pain. He also leaked and had to use pads.

I started to wonder about the use of chastity devices in our relationship. I can't use them as a form of behavior control as I am intimate with my sissy. If he were denied intimacy or release for poor behavior then I am denied as well. Besides, going into FLR I had already decided that I would use other forms of discipline and control. For us, the use of the chastity device was for the symbolic removal of his manhood. With that gone he had little choice but to accept sissy-hood - a thought that appealed to both of us.

The end of their regular use came when I learned that frequent use of the devices causes the male member to shrink and causes performance issues. That's not acceptable to me. Trust me, if there is a World Record for the fastest time to take a chastity device off a sissy, I think I have it.

In some ways the idea of the device appeals. That idea of controlling him at his most basic male part. The problem is that guys like Jemima, or sissies in general who simply submit to the devices use, aren't the ones who need it. It's all the other over masculine idiots.

I had toyed with the idea of having a little routine for it's use. Say, for a few days each month? He'd not be able to experience any intimacy, he'd have pain in his sensitive areas, He'd need to wear a pad, and I am pretty sure he'd be grumpy about it all. But, I have not acted on this.   

I do use the device from time to time. It's use is pretty standard with sissies and so I want him to have the full sissy experience. For me it's not used as a form of control. It's just a part sissy-hood to be endured. I'll put him in it for short periods of time simply on my whim. I know he dislikes it, but it's not his choice.

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Re: About Chastity
« Reply #6 on: March 30, 2023, 06:30:57 pm »
Ooh I'm in a minority I think hubby wants me a pure and a virgin until she deflowers me on our renewal night my coming out as her bride and then wife is our goal

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Re: About Chastity
« Reply #7 on: March 31, 2023, 10:36:39 am »
As we started with cuckolding, it was no question that the time come, that i am chast. She reducing intercourse with me more and more and after a time i was complete **** free. I was very proud of that, because i was now a very little girl and also her little daughter. I had to wear also **** cages, but my wee wee was not so big and the cages fit me not really good. As mommy met black men and as she fall in love with one - and he moved in the house and they start to living like a married couple - i had a talk with my granny (daddys mom) about intercourse without protection. She made me clear - as my parents and as married couple they have the right of bareback intercourse and also of pregnancy. Now is the time to make sure mommy only has black babies and a **** cage is not a safe bet - a **** cage could be removed with some technical assistance and mommy could be having a weak hour too.
Surgical castration is expensive and also dangerous. So we decided to do chemical castration. A doctor friend of mine gave us prescriptions for chemical castration and since Mommy no longer needed the contraceptive pill, I take it too. You don't notice much at first, sometimes a little fever, mood swings, tiredness. It was only after about half a year that I noticed that I hardly had any sex drive, there were no erections and after a year I noticed a strong shrinkage of the genitals. It's been almost three years - my genitals are smaller than a baby's - my wee wee is only 0.32 inches - always limp - only good to wet myself. I am very grateful to be a real little girl now - mommy now have two black babies and is pregnant again
 
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Re: About Chastity
« Reply #8 on: April 19, 2023, 03:52:56 am »
If you will forgive me for saying so but most posters appear to have missed the fact that a chastity cage has a much greater effect on the male mind than his body , at least in my personal experience .With out my cage I find myself so easily and unintentionally slipping into the  " dom male " role with all that entails including ( at least in my case ) depression.I have now worn a cage for so long that with out it I feel incomplete. Yes it does prevent me getting hard but that is a minor effect. With it I am much happier and more attentive to my Mistress's needs and content with life in general. I am lucky that my Mistress has purchased several cages in different  colours which allows me to ensure that they match to my undies and yes they are all progresivly smaller but time has I suppose caused me to shrink " down there"  but  I was never that big to start with and , as I have discoverd a small " package " is also attractive to a lot of women ( and men!).  we , as males , I think are conditioned from very early on that a males mind revolves around his **** and that it carries far much more importance than it should , once locked away and removed from his control a males mind will reasert itself and allow him to become his true self . I now consider my chastity cage as a badge of honour and on the occaisons that it has been noticed and commented on my Mistress simply explains that as her sissy it is hers to control not me , the embarresment this causes is i must admit a guilty pleasure for me . I find that most women who comment think it a very good idea and on several occaisions my mistress has instructed me to display my cage properly when commented on, although this is usually only when wearing shorts as she insists that my shorts should be feminne and made of such a material that they  fit snuggly and tight so as to in her words " show off my best feature ".
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Re: About Chastity
« Reply #9 on: April 19, 2023, 08:20:35 pm »
I have been experimenting with chastity on my sissy for nearly a year now.  I have found I love it and loves the effects it has on him.  I am very conscious of the fact that the power can go to my head and over use the device.  It definitely has an immediate and fairly long lasting impact on him and his ego!  I highly recommend for any mistress to use on her sissy!  Any questions you have i will attempt to answer! 
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