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Jemima

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Breast forms and Malettes
« on: November 08, 2022, 12:19:37 pm »
Today I'd like to ask the forum some advice...

Should Malettes wear breast forms?

LadyC and I have been debating this as from the start of our FLR she has not been sure which way to go with this. I've been cross-dressing since before I met LadyC and in those days I was doing the gender fluid thing and socialising as either a boy or a girl. My dressing then focused on female emulation and dressing with a view to being able to pass as female.

When I married LadyC I stopped going out but continued dressing with LadyC. An occasional treat, I do the full femme thing and have an evening dressed as Jemima. Later on, when LadyC moved to FLR she took charge of my feminisation and that's where the problems started. Being a Malette/Sissy is not about female emulation. Malettes do not wear female attire to pretend to be female. They dress that way as they have no masculinity, want to appear cute, and want to show superior women that they are ready to serve them.

LadyC says then that I should no longer wear my breast forms. I am no longer pretending to be a girl; I am a feminized man and should be recognizable as male. But then, why wear a bra at all? The point of a bra is to hold two biological entities I don't have! When I stopped wearing my forms, she then felt I looked odd. She was used to seeing me as Jemima with boobs! The compromise was that I continue to wear forms on the grounds that my outfits fit better.

LadyC can't really decide on this one. Should she just get used to Jemima not having boobs because I am really a boy. Or, do my forms allow me to wear a wider range of outfits?

I quite like my breast forms. I made mine some years ago and I am quite comfy and content wearing them. Now, however, it's not my choice but LadyC is not sure.

We welcome opinions on this one.

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Re: Breast forms and Malettes
« Reply #1 on: November 08, 2022, 12:42:57 pm »
My thought would be go with what feels right within your dynamic as to how Lady C wants your feminization to proceed. But if She desires You to still be a recognizable malette I think there are still ways to do that even wearing the forms such as no wig, less makeup to not hide all male features in the face and leaving Adamís apple uncovered.

Just a thought but again my biggest advice is go with what feels right within your dynamic that still achieves your Dominantís goals for you
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Re: Breast forms and Malettes
« Reply #2 on: November 08, 2022, 04:45:44 pm »
Today I'd like to ask the forum some advice...

Should Malettes wear breast forms?

LadyC and I have been debating this as from the start of our FLR she has not been sure which way to go with this. I've been cross-dressing since before I met LadyC and in those days I was doing the gender fluid thing and socialising as either a boy or a girl. My dressing then focused on female emulation and dressing with a view to being able to pass as female.

When I married LadyC I stopped going out but continued dressing with LadyC. An occasional treat, I do the full femme thing and have an evening dressed as Jemima. Later on, when LadyC moved to FLR she took charge of my feminisation and that's where the problems started. Being a Malette/Sissy is not about female emulation. Malettes do not wear female attire to pretend to be female. They dress that way as they have no masculinity, want to appear cute, and want to show superior women that they are ready to serve them.

LadyC says then that I should no longer wear my breast forms. I am no longer pretending to be a girl; I am a feminized man and should be recognizable as male. But then, why wear a bra at all? The point of a bra is to hold two biological entities I don't have! When I stopped wearing my forms, she then felt I looked odd. She was used to seeing me as Jemima with boobs! The compromise was that I continue to wear forms on the grounds that my outfits fit better.

LadyC can't really decide on this one. Should she just get used to Jemima not having boobs because I am really a boy. Or, do my forms allow me to wear a wider range of outfits?

I quite like my breast forms. I made mine some years ago and I am quite comfy and content wearing them. Now, however, it's not my choice but LadyC is not sure.

We welcome opinions on this one.
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Hello Jemima!

      This is a Great Question and I will give you the Perspective in Terms of what the New Age Lifestyle would Encourage, but as SissyDreaming pointed out, it is what LadyC wants from her Pretty Sissy...ie; You!!!!

     The new Age Lifestyle Emphasizes that the Feminized and Emasculated Creatures be recognized as males, and to your point, males do not usually have breasts.  However, their are bras for men and it is Essential for the Woman to Emphasize a man's Feminization by having him wear a bra, without inserts!   Women will especially be aware that you are ,male, and that helps to Empower those Women and as you know, also helps in the male's emasculation!   Very similar to Mistresses insisting that their Sissies have monthly periods, which we know are impossible for males, but in creating a Sissy Period, Drives home his Emasculation AND the Female's Control over him!

     I hope this answer is helpful!   Please ask Lady C to join us here and Give Guidance as a Strong and Empowered Superior Woman!

Patti
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Re: Breast forms and Malettes
« Reply #3 on: November 08, 2022, 09:26:53 pm »
It is the lady's choice for her sissy of course!  My feeling and policy are breasts are for women to have and sissies to adore!
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« Reply #4 on: November 09, 2022, 01:07:42 am »
Of course it's totally your supioeriors choice my hubby love's my bras with my girls in the cup's she likes to come behind me especially if I'm doing my ironing or washing up a play with my stocking leg a squeeze of my bottom her other hand inside my dress or blouse I might treat you to real ones lambkins leave your chores I've got a itch that needs scratching
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Re: Breast forms and Malettes
« Reply #5 on: November 09, 2022, 08:19:31 am »
Jemima,

I celebrate that you and LadyC are talking with each other.  Communication is important.  I am happy to hear that you are able to share your desires and needs and she is able to share her desires and needs.  Then come to an approach to move forward.  Please keep in mind that desires change over time and an agreement that is made now can be discussed and changed in the future.

There are millions of genetic women that are very small breasted.  They do not need a bra.  If they wear one I think it would be an A cup bra.  So embrace the femininity of wishing your breasts were bigger.

Consider different sized forms based on what your are doing.  I have three different sizes of silicon forms.  B cup, D cup and G cup.  There are very realistic looking and feeling breast plates that are a bit expensive but nice that a bra is not needed.  The separate silicon forms are very realistic feeling and moving but mandate a bra.   I have used rice in knee high panty hose for years.  Many different sizes can be made for little money.

In our relationship, my spouse does not like attention when we are outside the house.  She wants us to blend in to the crowd.  She does not like the 'half and half' presentation of a feminized male.  When we are outside of the house, I either present fully female or fully male when we are together.  When I go out by myself I will present as a feminized male with my B sized or D sized breast forms and carry a purse.

When fully female, I wear my breast forms side D or size G.  I love them very much.
When fully male, I wear panties.  I do not typically wear a bra. We recently found these bras that are invisible under a male dress shirt and are starting to experiment with them in public. 

https://www.amazon.com/Hanes-Womens-T-Shirt-Black-Large/dp/B0815LYTJH/ref=sr_1_8?keywords=seamless+bra&qid=1667997075&sr=8-8
https://www.amazon.com/Bali-Revolution-EasyLite-Seamless-Wireless/dp/B07Q1JP136/ref=sr_1_5?keywords=seamless+bra&qid=1667997075&sr=8-5
They help me feel feminine because the bra fits.  The cups are filled with my little male breasts.  There are no creases. 

Some brands have nipple shields that can be removed.  I have a pair of 'chicken cutlets' that I have placed in them.  It give me a little bump that make me feel good and really they are invisible.  They drift to the bottom and can look unnatural.  In one of these bras, I cut the opening in the bra a little bigger and was able to cram the B cup forms in them.  I like the look.  My spouse, not so much. 

There are some men with natural breast growth.  They are typically overweight.  Some pictures can be found here in the 18+ section of reddit.  https://www.reddit.com/r/Moobs/   So this may be a guide for the size and shape of boobs a male can legitimately have. 

I started putting suction cups on my breasts for an hour per day to promote growth.  In the past 6 months I have grown from an AA to A.   My spouse and I can see the difference.  She is enjoying them.  I do not think anybody else can tell.  There are other threads on the board that talk about promoting breast growth that you may want to consider.

I hope this is helpful.

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Jaqi
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Re: Breast forms and Malettes
« Reply #6 on: November 09, 2022, 02:39:04 pm »
I agree that it is the Superiors choice as to whether breast forms should be worn or not.  But, for me, I love the breast forms as it creates bumps on my chest that can't easily be hidden.  I can wear a bra all day long without forms, but unless the cups are rigid, they will flatten out and the appearance of possibly wearing a bra and being noticed by others is almost mute if not filled with forms.   
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« Reply #7 on: November 09, 2022, 05:10:33 pm »
Ooh Jess I so love being properly dressed for hubby with my bra filled and all my shapewear on so I have a hourglass figure for her to use or abuse I'm so love being her eye candy
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« Reply #8 on: November 10, 2022, 11:25:20 am »
Miss Brenda requires me to wear breast forms.  She says that if I am to be properly dressed, the forms help the clothes to fit better, plus if I am to emulate my superiors, then I need to try and feel what a real woman feels when wearing a bra.  She broke me in having me wear water balloons to get the feeling of weight as she, a 36D has to feel.
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« Reply #9 on: November 11, 2022, 07:47:27 am »
This post and all the comments give me the most delicious sense of satisfaction. In our relationship She decides such things.

Desiring to wear forms and to present as female is part of me that my Superior loves but reserves as gifts or as a reward for pleasing her. 

Any conflict between my base desires and my desire to please her in all ways is a vibrant aspect of our relationship.

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« Reply #10 on: November 12, 2022, 07:11:08 am »
Dinny, I couldn't agree with you more regarding a feminine shape.  One that definitely defines your status.  I have some breast forms with the realistic nipples that I wear in an underwire bra.  The projection is unmistakable, and the nipples protrude through whatever top I am wearing, even a sweatshirt.  A statement, for sure.
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« Reply #11 on: November 12, 2022, 11:43:46 am »
Oooh Jessie we're 2 lucky gurls it's gorgeous being her eye candy and I love how my shapewear feels when I'm wearing it all for hubby
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« Reply #12 on: November 14, 2022, 04:15:57 pm »
This is a tough question, personally I love the look of my forms when I have them in, shirts and dresses just fit and look better. I am naturally a B cup but I like the look of C to D size for me. I understand what she is saying about presenting as a feminine man but I feel you have to do what makes you feel best and most confidant about yourself
Love everything feminine but enjoy being a sissy man
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« Reply #13 on: January 25, 2024, 07:27:39 am »
I am jelaous of you girls that wear forms -lol.
You can take them off!

Hormones  and Implants here have made me a 38D - so no hiding them!
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« Reply #14 on: January 25, 2024, 08:05:29 am »
I am jelaous of you girls that wear forms -lol.
You can take them off!

Hormones  and Implants here have made me a 38D - so no hiding them!

Love my breast forms but would much rather have implantsÖ.Life goals!
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