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Re: How to proceed
« Reply #45 on: June 21, 2024, 02:51:07 pm »
    Rachel looks adorable. She is perfection that we can't typically come close to.

Kirsty became Very determined to turn her once macho husband into a Total Sissy Pansie.  He was once a man that was very "proud of his manliness'.  Today he is the Perfect Sissy, and a Role Model for the other Sissies that the Group of Women have Feminized.  He is kept in Chastity and has a monthly Period.  At the Direction of his Mistresses he must Always make All the Women that he meets aware that he is indeed a man, a Sissy, but a man!  She does this as Part of her Goal and the Group's Goal to Create a Better, Female Led Society.  These Women are Very Determined, and they are Wonderful Role Models for Women to see what is possible!
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Re: How to proceed
« Reply #46 on: June 21, 2024, 03:05:57 pm »
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Re: How to proceed
« Reply #47 on: June 22, 2024, 09:43:48 pm »
In many ways the life that Kirsty and Katharine have created is the perfect template for the New Age. After all, Kirsty initially started out believing that she wanted some masculinity in her life, but now has realized a much deeper connection and greater satisfaction with Katharine. Rachel is now living the way that all males will in the future - his former unpleasant masculinity eradicated, and devoting his life and work to his superior Women owners.

What is also encouraging about this story is the way the other Women in their orbit have come to appreciate the benefits of this lifestyle and are enthusiastically embracing it.

Itís a long time since we heard from Ms Kirsty or Ms Katharine. I wonder if they could be persuaded to give us all an update here, now the blog has come to its sad and untimely end.
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Re: How to proceed
« Reply #48 on: June 24, 2024, 06:35:50 am »
Amanda- You seem to have a great track record of progress you've made in two years and congratulations on your work so far. You should be both proud and happy with the results.
But may I suggest two areas that you might work on to help here. These are areas that you sort of touch on, but might use more focus if you think they might help.
You mention you have work on Physical, Financial, Sexual, and Social. These are all quite important, but might I add two more, namely emotional and mental.
These are areas we all have in our lives, whether we are sissies or dommes. We all have strengths and weaknesses, needs and wants with them, and if you can figure these out, both of you will be much better off and happier in your relationship. 
These can prove to be difficult to work on, they're not like just punching someone out, but when you solve for these things really improve between you.
I won't bore you with more, but I urge you to consider these for a much happier relationship.


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I think you are so right. I totally agree. But I am not sure how to achieve this.
On the emotional side I am encouraging him to be in touch with his feminine feelings, expressing his inner softness. I give him comfort and let him lean on my shoulder to feel safe and protected. I also, get him to read romantic novels and watch romantic movies. Not sure if this will help.
On the mental side I always take care of anything physical or financial without letting him be involved.

Any other suggestions on the mental side?
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Re: How to proceed
« Reply #49 on: June 24, 2024, 06:39:56 am »
hi Miss Amanda
i thought i would add something to the excellent comments made so far - this one about sexuality
sissie sexuality is an odd thing - its clear that there's no physicality with a strong confident Woman in the usual way that you might imagine between a man and a woman
the problem is that a Woman may still have needs of her own and in having a sissie at home it can lead to resentment on her part
the usual lines here are redrawn and whilst ALL Women always have the right to take a lover, of any sex, if they choose - it is more common place in our situations
sissies stay chaste loving and loyal - that's a given , but if a Woman wants some masculinity or likes to date outside the marriage, well that is her right to do so and it's really of no concern to the sissie 
the communication of this is pretty straightforward and must never result in sulking or guilt trips, but a sissie has to understand that his weakness and meekness will have consequences such as this and he must be prepared for "the talk" to come at some stage
In sum, a Woman's sex life is her and hers alone
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Thank you Nikki thatís so reassuring. Now I know that itís pretty common and I wasnít going so far. I donít miss masculine men at all, but I want to be satisfied in other ways. I informed him and I am taking this path.
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Re: How to proceed
« Reply #50 on: June 24, 2024, 06:42:47 am »
Thank you Patti very much for sharing this. Very useful information

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Re: How to proceed
« Reply #51 on: June 24, 2024, 08:20:55 am »
Hi Amanda have you any pictures of you're hubby ,it would be so nice to see his progress with his pierced ears and femme tattoos
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Re: How to proceed
« Reply #52 on: June 24, 2024, 01:26:58 pm »

Hello Amanda!

     When I saw this Posting about you wanting your husband to lose weight, I needed to go back into my Files from Katharine and Kirsty, the UK Women that have been Feminizing men with their Group of New Age Women.  Rachel was Kirsty's macho Rugby Playing husband.  He was at one time 210 Pounds and doing Strength Training.  I am attaching some photos so you can see how they have Changed him for the Better.


Hello Ms Patti <curtsy>.
Thank You for the post and the reminders about Ms Katharine and Ms Kirsty. i truly loved reading Her blog with my Mistress/Wife, and hearing about the accounts, rules and continuing feminization of all the sissies in their orbit. Its too bad they were shut down, and haven't resurfaced anywhere yet.

It made me smile when i read You have files from them, and i eagerly looked forward to the rest of Your message. Even more so when You said You were attaching photos. Are You still in touch? Any chance You could get Them to continue to post Their blog here? Or You posting more of the files You have from them? So many can learn from their experiences.

i have been reduced to 150 pounds by diet and aerobic exercising, and also corset use for a more feminine shape, so my clothes fit better. my dress code is also similar to hers, always in complete set of very feminine lingerie, and restricted to skirts, dresses, pantyhose or stockings, and heels.

Also thank You for sharing those wonderful pictures.

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Re: How to proceed
« Reply #53 on: June 24, 2024, 06:05:41 pm »
well done sissy!
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Re: How to proceed
« Reply #54 on: June 26, 2024, 07:07:55 am »
Thank you @SissysWife. As You know this is all part of the training and control of my wonderful Wife, Mistress Karen. As i recall things are very similar with You and Your sissy Kaydee.
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Re: How to proceed
« Reply #55 on: June 26, 2024, 09:00:49 pm »
Patti, I agree with others that Rachel has turned out as such a pretty femme sissy, and clearly loves h.er new status if her smile is any indication. I would love to have h.er post on here, with Kirstenís permission of course, to describe h.er feelings and emotions as s.he has metamorphosed from a r gritty rugby player to such a sweet sissy, and I think it would be beneficial to us all to hear her words of encouragement especially to reluctant males who are just starting the journey but still have doubts about entering into a FLR relationship.

BTW, I was also a keen hirsute rugby player with all the macho characteristics that go with the sport, but am now a dedicated sissy. Even the most macho can change!
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Re: How to proceed
« Reply #56 on: June 27, 2024, 03:05:39 pm »
Patti, I agree with others that Rachel has turned out as such a pretty femme sissy, and clearly loves h.er new status if her smile is any indication. I would love to have h.er post on here, with Kirstenís permission of course, to describe h.er feelings and emotions as s.he has metamorphosed from a r gritty rugby player to such a sweet sissy, and I think it would be beneficial to us all to hear her words of encouragement especially to reluctant males who are just starting the journey but still have doubts about entering into a FLR relationship.

BTW, I was also a keen hirsute rugby player with all the macho characteristics that go with the sport, but am now a dedicated sissy. Even the most macho can change!

Hi Priscilla!

     I Love that you were once a macho Rugby Player and are now a Sissy, that is what The New Age Lifestyle is all about!

Keep in mind, Kirsty, Katharine and the rest of the Women in that Group are quite Adamant in making everyone aware that these Sissies are men!   This is only part of what they are doing.  They are also vigorously getting mums to feminize their sons through the salons and Sissy nights, but once again Stressing that these Feminine Sissies are boys, while sponsoring Girl's Soccer teams and getting Girls to be Competitive and Strong!

This is what The New Age Lifestyle is all about!

Patti
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Re: How to proceed
« Reply #57 on: June 28, 2024, 01:22:36 pm »
Miss Amanda,
You stated that you do not want him locked in chastity.
Every Superior Female that I have had the honor of interacting with in my time within the lifestyle have all agreed that to control his princess is necessary to control the man. If he cheats, (masturbates), and he will, all men cheat, your plans for him will be harder and take more time to accomplish. His orgasms should be sparingly granted when and if he performs as you require.
May I suggest that you pierce his princess and use cap device that is inescapable?
It is not as bulky and complicated as a full chastity device to put on and take off and is more pleasing to look at. Because he will not be able to play with himself your control and dominance will be enhanced and because of that he will be much more submissive, something you want from him. Your just seeing him pierced and locked and tattooed, (maybe even plugged?) when he stands for inspection, something he should do regularly, will instill a sense of pride in you and all you have done to transform him into the man you want him, every day, to be and at the same time remind him of his place in the relationship. Furthermore, I believe it will give you even more confidence to take the further steps you want in pursuit of your own personal happiness and satisfaction that you alluded to in an earlier reply to Ms. Patti.
I wish you all the success in the world in your achieving the relationship and ultimately the life you want for yourself and your husband.
May happiness be ever yours.
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Re: How to proceed
« Reply #58 on: June 28, 2024, 05:20:17 pm »
So many options in the management of a sissy!