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Jan C

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Accepting
« on: February 17, 2024, 02:39:44 pm »
I have learned to accept that Mistress Linda has her special friends. I have never liked it and have from time to time been openly rebellious about it. Mistress Linda often just laughs at my expression of jealousy. Mistress Linda has a overnight date planned with a gentleman she met at a seminar. This morning she ask me to assist her in selecting her attire for this overnighter. I was to say the least pouty and sullen. Mistress Linda sat me down on the side of her bed and released me from chastity. She told me to get one of the dildos I carry with me and to compare it to my own. There is no comparison. She then put hand lotion on her hands and began to manipulate me. She said go ahead and get hard. She worked diligently for several minutes and I was unable to get hard at all. Mistress cleaned her hands, put me back in chastity and with my head between her legs she asked if I understood why she sees real men. Mistress Linda, my ED, and her needs all come together with my hear between her legs.

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Re: Accepting
« Reply #1 on: February 17, 2024, 05:01:26 pm »
Jan, most of us Im fairly confident can empathize  and sympathize with your plight but we have to accept that it goes with the territory or the lifestyle you have chosen. For my part, my wife does not seek satisfaction elsewhere and is happy for me to service her orally but she laughs at the fact that I can perform for some considerable time without any obvious reaction on my part. Whereas, when she bought me a new pair of very frilly old style panties recently, I pulled them up and there was an instant reaction. I guess it is all part of the humiliation/domination that many of us crave and receive a great deal of enjoyment from although sometimes it might be difficult to gauge that from facial expressions or the way we react. Being cuckolded is often part of a broad fantasy for sissies and those in an FLR but the reality can be quite different and very hard to accept. It really depends on the type of relationship you are in. I am thankful that whatever happens between my wife and I is discussed  first and it is totally consensual whether it is a physical punishment, or her going out somewhere leaving me to complete household chores and prepare for her return etc. We have never reached the actual stage of being revealed or serving her friends and although she dances with numerous partners, she does not appear to be seeking any kind of sexual relationship with them although she loves to tease me with suggestions about things that might happen. Ultimately, my wife (who doesnt like to be referred to as mistress as such  but has me call her Miss T when in service) is a kind and nurturing person who caters for my needs and enjoys the fruits of having a sissy maid to serve, pamper and complete tedious household tasks and treat her as the lady of the house. There again, she often tells me that she just doesnt understand what I get out of it he whole scene of dressing, being in service and yet not appearing to get any physical enjoyment from the scene. She knows I dont as chastity became part of the deal and as in many cases, it was initially my idea, which she grudgingly went along with.  She was thoroughly bemused the first time I appeared before her suitably attired and handed over the keys to put in her purse and take with her to dancing. I tried to explain that I gained a great deal of satisfaction from the scenario but that it is inside my head and a general feeling of well being and calmness that came over me. I guess we are all built differently and the mind is something that scientists and mankind in general will continue to explore and be fascinated by as long as humans walk the earth.
Meanwhile, try and share the enjoyment mistress Linda is receiving from her partners. Sometimes there can be a bit of reverse psychology - if she believes you are enjoying the situation , it might actually lessen her enjoyment as she may have been taking enjoyment partly out of seeing you squirm, showing jealousy or tantrums and if you dont do any of those things, perhaps (just perhaps) she may ease off and ultimately not indulge herself. However, your role really is to support and encourage her which leaves you facing quite a challenge - good luck on many fronts.
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Re: Accepting
« Reply #2 on: February 17, 2024, 11:28:41 pm »
Well stated sweet sissy!
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Re: Accepting
« Reply #3 on: February 18, 2024, 02:16:05 am »
Jan/Petula

Lovers is obviously a ladies choice at her discretion its best to accept it and be the best maid you can be.
Might I suggest joking in the pre date excitement
My former mistres and I had a great time pre date with shopping and dressing choosing outfits and Id suggest things on colours accessories and shed always make sure I was busy whilst she was out. If the date became intimate or looked like it could be shed phone or text to ensure her bedroom and things were suitably prepared before Id lock myself away in my bedroom. If our paths did cross I was referred to as her lodger, having previously told her beau I was gay. (Im strictly speaking not)

If Mistress went to her lovers accommodation Id be called upon to pick her up and provide aftercare shed often sleep the large part of the following day and Id busy myself with chores again

Often if she was feeling it Id get to receive the same size that shes previous enjoyed via strap on intmacy which was nice x
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Re: Accepting
« Reply #4 on: February 18, 2024, 06:34:58 am »
Lovely sissy!

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Re: Accepting
« Reply #5 on: February 19, 2024, 07:24:51 am »
What a different perspective, just the idea of her being with a man with a big **** and **** is disgusting for my wife.
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