We have to avoid visits initially, not because it's embarrassing, we don't want to talk about it with others. But then we had to go to mommy's mother - there was my mother-in-law. She was a bit surprised about my clothes and about my Pampers too. Then when mommy introduced her new black husband - i think - ok - we go home. But mommy and mother-in-law and daddy drank coffee and ate cake. The two boys were outside playing - I was sitting on the floor playing with my baby doll. I saw that the mother-in-law started to smile and she nodded her head
So she accepted him as her new son-in-law.
Later she said that she likes it, also that I am now incapacitated and her little daughter - I am baby daughter. Then she said - well, these are your parents, so from now on I'm your granny. It was a little weird when she diapered me later, but that's another topic