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future relationships and flr
« on: February 25, 2024, 05:24:34 am »
Hello all. I am wondering how to approach/ask a woman about her feelings, beliefs and so on about being in charged of a male? How soon to bring this up? Any tips?

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Re: future relationships and flr
« Reply #1 on: February 25, 2024, 08:53:25 am »
Need to be in a relationship first!  Unless the woman is and Always will be just a friend…

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« Reply #2 on: February 25, 2024, 09:13:10 am »
It kind of goes hand in hand with sharing other aspects of your life - intimate details……….if the relationship has reached a stage where you can share your feelings about sex, kink and variations then there is a world to explore.If you reveal yourself to be a Crossdresser and your partner is not shocked or put off at all then you might just have the opportunity to say “but wait, there’s more”!
You have to read the signs though. If your relationship is not going to last if your partner does not react well it probably doesn’t matter although it could make life difficult if you have mutual friends etc.
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« Reply #3 on: February 25, 2024, 09:20:32 am »
Agreed!

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« Reply #4 on: February 26, 2024, 06:59:33 am »
I knew from when I first started dating that I'd have to honest with any potential partner about my cross-dressing. It's a big part of who I am and I had to accept that if a lady I was dating wasn't comfortable with that then the relationship would not work out in the long term. I had been dating LadyC for around two to three months when the opportunity came up to tell her about it.

For us, the FLR side came later. It was LadyC who introduced FLR into our relationship after around nine years of marriage. I wasn't surprised by what she asked for but I was hesitant. She had been honest with me about what she wanted and I didn't think I could go through with it. But, we talked about it for a few months before trying it. I knew what her goals were in FLR and she understood my reluctance in some aspects. She took her time and slowly lead me into the lifestyle.
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« Reply #5 on: February 26, 2024, 08:26:23 am »
Congratulations!  You are a fine example of how a relationship can be!
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