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General Discussion / Re: Submissive men - The Vast untapped resource
« on: January 02, 2024, 09:39:48 am »
I can’t agree more. That’s excellent. I always advise submissive men who look for dominant women to keep in mind that both the male and female should be enjoy this kind of relationship and I am sure that once more women know what benefits they get from this type of relationships we will see more and more of it

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Success Stories of The New Age Lifestyle / Re: I'M OFFICIALLY WIFE NOW.
« on: January 02, 2024, 03:27:10 am »
Congrats Aysar, that’s a great news I would never imagine that you can do such a thing where you live. So, on your new marriage you are the wife and what about Bisma did they refer to her as the husband

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New & Existing Member Introductions / Re: Gen Z Domme introducing Bella
« on: January 02, 2024, 02:05:31 am »
Hello AD!

Welcome another Gen Z new age woman. I really hope that our generation will make the change and make Dom women with Sub men the new norm in relationships.

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New & Existing Member Introductions / Re: New Member
« on: December 19, 2023, 06:14:01 am »
Hello and welcome Suzanne,

My name is Sue, I’m sure that you can find very useful information here and many people who can support you during your journey.
I can totally understand your feeling about enjoying playing the dominant role. When my bf told me about submissive fetish and I started taking control I was so excited and I knew that this’s exactly what I am looking for and the type of relationship I want to be in. Always remember that FLR is two way road you need to control and weaken him but at the same time free and strength yourself.

If you have any questions I am here to offer my support.

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General Discussion / Re: My neighbour transformation- Maria
« on: December 01, 2023, 06:06:20 am »
Thanks Patti. Doing this was the most fulfilling thing I’ve ever done in my life. Knowing that I am participating directly in empowering other women and making the world better place.
Yes, he looks adorable and now he knows that this is how he was from the beginning despite all the resistance he showed towards the end of the process

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General Discussion / Re: My neighbour transformation- Maria
« on: November 30, 2023, 09:40:30 am »
As some of you know about 5 months ago my neighbour told me about her boyfriend desire to live in a Female Lead Relationship. I managed to convince her to give it a try despite her hesitation and reluctantly to the idea.
In the past few months I worked with her intensively to make this work. So, now I am happy to share with you that my neighbour Maria has officially become a new lifestyle woman alongside her new lifestyle sissy boyfriend. Last week she took out to dinner dressed as a woman. They no longer keep it secret in their private life. So, their families and all their friends know now that Maria is the head of the house and she lives with her sissy boyfriend. She has achieved so much, she’s stronger more confident, she is taking care of the finances now, she’s the main provider, she became physically more active and build big muscles and continue on doing so. While her boyfriend is dressing as a lady and act like a nice lady living in the 50s asking for her permission, cook and clean for her. Although, he resisted slightly towards the end of the process, but she managed to put him on his place. Now he understands that he’s here to serve her and pleasure in the way she sees fit.
So, in short we are one more couple in this lifestyle now.

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Male Feminization Discussions / Re: Couples
« on: November 30, 2023, 03:36:44 am »
Hi Joshua,

Previously on this Form. I shared with few men who wish to be sissies for women some tips. I’m doing this because me myself wasn’t into FLR much until I met my current my boyfriend. So, hopefully this can help you.

I always think it should be a process especially for woman and not to be introduced all in one go. I think most males in this form do it wrong. They wait for a woman to come and suggest this, but to be honest I think you should look for a woman who has the potential to become dominant and introduce this to her.

I’m saying this as a woman who was introduced to FLR slowly by my submissive boyfriend. My boyfriend was always a submissive man and he is the one who slowly introduced this lifestyle in actions rather words.

So, he focused on me at the beginning instead of focusing on himself. He started encouraging me to build bigger muscles, he encouraged me to become more liberated person, he encouraged me to get rid of my feminine look. All of these things I was always willing to do but my bf encouraged me to do it. Also, our lifestyle helped us as I work for long hours outside the house while he was working full time from the house so he always prepared meals and cleaned the house did the laundry etc. Then he suggested FLR and here when I started encouraging him to have feminine look and attitude.

Anyway I have few suggestions that might help you to find the right partner.

You have to be aware that there’re different stages to be in FLR.

First- find the right woman. In more details look into women who have potentials of course the first one physically, tall, heavy and muscular. Then socially you need to look into certain characteristics for your woman someone who’s successful and dominant in her career, someone who’s not working on herself to look very feminine or attractive in the traditional way then someone who likes to give orders for people around her.

Secondly- ease into it. Don’t throw the idea of FLR immediately. Most women won’t like it because they don’t understand it. Instead start by doing some actions. Examples:
- She’s a tall woman keep telling her how sexy her height is.
- Encourage her to go to the gym and build muscles tell her how sexy she looks every time she gains weight or build muscles
- Bring her gifts like heels to look even taller or muscle shirt.
- Encourage her to go out more casually tell her that she looks amazing without makeup that she doesn’t need it for example. Or there’s no need to wear bra I am sure most women hate it anyway.
- When she comes back from home, make her dinner and serves her the dinner. Don’t do this occasionally make it a regular thing.
- If she’s going out with her friends don’t bother her, just wait for her when she’s back give her a foot massage and tell her you hope she had fun.
- Always ask for her permission even indirectly. Like honey can I go out? Or can we order food today?
- During your time in bed always let her be in top. Never up and always give her pleasure the priority.
- Transfer some of your money to her account (saying you have an issue with your bank account) and let her pay for stuff or dates or even ask her to give you some of your money.
- Try to spend a lot of time in the house and work from home while you should push her to work and spend a lot of time outside the house.

Third stage-  Share some articles and movies about FLR and tell her about it slowly.

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Male Feminization Discussions / Re: Couples
« on: November 28, 2023, 04:20:00 am »
Nice idea I like it. Unfortunately my sissy boyfriend doesn’t speak English so he doesn’t have an accent but he knows about this website

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General Discussion / Re: Identity and pronouns
« on: November 24, 2023, 08:07:45 pm »
Thank you for your comments I appreciate it. I agree with what you’re saying. I just found it weird when my boyfriend sometimes refers to me as male and wanted to know if anyone else had similar experience

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General Discussion / Re: Identity and pronouns
« on: November 24, 2023, 04:15:48 pm »
Thanks evanguelinaguerrero very useful. Is your wife also much muscular and masculine than you are. Did it happen anytime that you referred to her as a man or any stranger did before?

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ToyForMikayla, I think that’s the natural path in the new lifestyle. My boyfriend used to be like that and now we’re in complete opposite relationship. He’s so submissive and feminine and trying to look pretty as much as possible while I am always in a comfy clothes and only focus on my muscles

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Thanks Joshua & ToyForMilkayla your answers are nice and encouraging at the same time. Although I don’t meet all these characteristics but I think I have many of them.
I am tall, muscular smart and intellectually superior at least comparing to men around me,  I have a short dark hair, Domineering personality with a strong presence and wear none female clothes most of the time. At the end no one can get it all right? But I didn’t understand what did you mean Joshua by ver sexual?

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General Discussion / Re: Identity and pronouns
« on: November 23, 2023, 02:10:09 pm »
Thanks. I know the solution is in my hand. I am on full time FLR so, I’m the full time boss.
I agree with you that I might be sending different signals to my BF but not only only because the strangers situation it is mainly because our role switching to 100%. My BF is very obedient and he will follow any order I give. Mainly I am trying to understand what is going into his mind actually. Additional issue is our local language where some strong and masculine verb can only be used when you speak to a man but the fact in our situation it should be addressed to myself.

In short I don’t know if any male here were feminised and emasculated to the level my BF reached.

Many thanks for your thoughts

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General Discussion / Identity and pronouns
« on: November 23, 2023, 11:26:41 am »
About two years ago I started with my boyfriend our journey into the FLR world. It has been amazing and both of us are significantly happier and better now and we feel like we’ve finally found our true selves and identities.
However, to give a bit of background for the people who don’t know us here my boyfriend is small, slim, thin, weak, hairless body and face kind of feminine by nature even we start our FLR journey. Me on the other hand is the opposite tall, thick, muscular hairy and kind of masculine by nature as well. Of course during these two years I became more masculine and muscular and he became softer and more feminine.
In the last few months my boyfriend made significant improvements and fully accepted himself. So, now he fully thinks of himself as a woman and refers to himself as a woman. Although he didn’t gone through any medical procedures it’s just a mental concept, and few changes of look.

The issue is that now my boyfriend thinks of himself as a woman and refers to himself as a woman, he started think of me and refers to me as a man. In our local language there’re big differences when you talk to a man or a woman. My boyfriend doesn’t do this on purpose it’s just his mentality has changed. Also, it happened with other people as well when they refer to him as a woman and me as a man.
This doesn’t bother me, but I am not sure about and wonder if anyone else in this forum has reached this level of transformation in their relationship. I kind like it when strangers think I am a man but not sure how do I feel when my boyfriend refers to me as a man unintentionally.

Anyone have similar experiences?

Sorry for any mistakes but English isn’t my first language.

Thanks!

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General Discussion / Re: Masculinity Vs Feminility
« on: October 25, 2023, 06:40:56 am »
Thank you all 😊.

I know I love my new self and want to continue growing on this way. Anyway what I meant since women are taking control and gaining power the terms feminine and masculine is going overlap and it’s confusing sometimes how to describe myself from language point, but I definitely know myself and love myself

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