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General Discussion / Re: Relationship Contract
« on: March 18, 2026, 10:07:15 am »
Very nice contract Britany, and i'm sure there are many out there who will be interested in taking you up on your proposal. The way you detailed things is great, and i love the format. It will appeal to many submissives, even though it sounds like you are looking more for an equal.

i follow many of those rules for my Wife. As mentioned, you forgot about heels, which i've learned and feel are important for feminization. Also mentioned, You may have to scale back some of your "in public" rules to keep things realistic and not to make others uncomfortable. From my own experiencce, most of the others are fine and very doable, with the possible exception of required B C cup breast forms. While always wearing a bra, sometimes i'm permitted an unfilled bra. Since you appear require a feminine appearance, you may have to look into chastity or some other way to control things, since i'm not sure tucking will work in all situations. i'm also curious what you have in mind for shared periods.

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Male Feminization Discussions / Re: wearing heels
« on: August 25, 2025, 08:50:45 am »
Quote from: Ownedprior on August 24, 2025, 04:39:44 pm
Hi Missy, when I was owned, my Goddess started me in pantyhose very early in my sissy training as she expected me in hose and heels daily.  She started me in flats and then 2 inch heels and then 3 inches.  Once I became an expert in 3 inches, she purchased a 5 inch pair that actually locked onto my feet.  I then trained all day in these stilettos for a few months.  She added shackles locked on my ankles with a short chain.  The restraints made me concentrate to the utmost!  I will say that is was demanding and difficult.  I am grateful that she required pantyhose on me as barefoot locked and chained feet I feel would have been nearly impossible.

Hello and welcome @Ownedprior. My heel training followed in a similar fashion. Starting simple and easy, but continued to progress and evolve, sometimes to extremes. The same can be said for my feminization, submission and chastity training.

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Male Feminization Discussions / Re: Panty Girdle fittings
« on: August 25, 2025, 07:57:05 am »
Quote from: Missy (Melissa) Power on August 21, 2025, 11:11:05 am
Dear Ms Gina,

As a controlled sissymaid my wife insists that I wear shape wear to aid my figure development and also keep my thing tucked underneath and incapable of any movement. The main shape wear that she makes her sissy wear is a NWT Honeylove Superwear Brief High Waist Slimming Panty Girdle. It has some plastic runners running up the top of the brief to prevent roll down. I am reminded of it constantly when I am wearing it and she says that she would have it no other way. She got me a number of other regular panty girdles from Bali. However this one is her (and my) favorite. I have to be careful of the tops I wear with it as the black could easily show thru. Also if the shirt rides up I would be exposed to severe ridicule, which delighted her when it happened whilst shopping in a mall. I am a chaste and considerate girl when in this girdle. Also it teaches me what some women go thru in presenting their best figure.

Respectfully
Missy

I'd never heard of Honeylove, so I was instructed to check them out. I'm familiar with the other brand mentioned, Bali. Most of mine are from Rago. I have styles including open bottom, panty girdles, high waist/long leg, and even all-in-one body suits. All are extra firm, and some even bought a size smaller. Its always a long, uncomfortable day when Mistress sets out a girdle for me to wear with the rest of my sissy things.

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Male Feminization Discussions / Re: wearing heels
« on: August 25, 2025, 07:38:15 am »
Quote from: Patti59 on August 24, 2025, 07:25:39 pm
Quote from: Ownedprior on August 24, 2025, 04:39:44 pm
Hi Missy, when I was owned, my Goddess started me in pantyhose very early in my sissy training as she expected me in hose and heels daily.  She started me in flats and then 2 inch heels and then 3 inches.  Once I became an expert in 3 inches, she purchased a 5 inch pair that actually locked onto my feet.  I then trained all day in these stilettos for a few months.  She added shackles locked on my ankles with a short chain.  The restraints made me concentrate to the utmost!  I will say that is was demanding and difficult.  I am grateful that she required pantyhose on me as barefoot locked and chained feet I feel would have been nearly impossible.


For ALL Sissies, pantyhose or nylons/tights are a MUST!   The Impact that silky nylons have on a male brain is actually mesmerizing!  It is also such a Delightful Way to keep males more docile as they need to be careful not to get runs or snags, which would then Require that their Mistress punish them!  Keeping males "Pretty & Sweet" is the Goal!

Patti

So true @Patt59. After satin panties, when pantyhose were added to my daily dress code rule, it had a big impact. The all over tightness and silky feel is amazing and hard to ignore. The process of putting them on, rolling them up, sliding them up my legs, tugging and adjusting them to be straight and smooth, then settling the top over my satin panties, then having to check my appearance in the mirror played a huge role in my mental conditioning every morning. Spending my days at work, with my sissy lingerie under my male clothes provided a continual reminder i was Her sissy. Then of course at home, with the addition of my skirts and heels it did effect my attitude and mannerisms. Plus as You mention, there was the constant worry if i ruined them in any way, their effect was frequently on my mind.

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New & Existing Member Introductions / Re: Introductions
« on: August 06, 2025, 08:39:08 am »
So very true @Reticentgirl and @MsGina. It helps keep us in the proper mindset, even when we are away from our Wife/Mistress like at work. Obviously the chastity is a constant reminder and symbol, and refocuses our thoughts toward our owner. Having to spend every workday in your panties, pantyhose, and a firm control girdle under work clothes in public is impossible to ignore, and the discomfort adds to her ongoing training and submission in Your absence.

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Male Feminization Discussions / Re: Once you remove that useless body hair
« on: August 05, 2025, 10:47:45 am »
Quote from: shemyezza on August 05, 2025, 09:06:38 am
Quote from: shemyezza on August 03, 2025, 10:34:26 am
Quote from: SissyPriscilla on August 02, 2025, 03:38:56 am
I have heard girls express fear that their hairless legs and arms will be noticed. Honeys, unless you have king Kong fur, I suspect noone either than your nearest and dearest will notice let alone comment on smooth shaven limbs. And anyway, who cares when you can feel so good

I spent most of my life being and doing what was expected of me by Familly ,work and other commitments ,It did not make me happy!
I now realize that most people barely notice you especially in this day and age . I am now always shaved ,wear stockings or pantihose when I have to go out endrab and always wear a pale pink nail varnish . Nobody has ever noticed , apart from I think a girl who saw me tweaking a bra strap when out shopping with My Mistress or if they have ,no one has ever commented . To be honest I think there are times when I am almost invisible .
So take it from the voice of experience ,Don't leave it too late  live your life for what makes you happy and not for what others expect of you

I now have a follow up to my last comment ,I guess thats what happens when you tempt fate !

My usual working attire due to the current warm weather ,consists of a pair of strappy 3 inch wedges which show off my baby pink pedicure , a VERY short t shirt dress (one of three) which just covers my panties ,a bra of course and an apron when cooking .A couple of days ago I was in the kitchen cooking , with a pan of milk on the stove ( making a cheese sauce ) when there was a knock on the front door, of course I,  rushed to open it and found a lady UPS ( or such) delivery driver with a large parcel for Mistress, with out thinking I took the parcel ,turned and bent to put it on the floor behind me ( mindfull of that milk pan about to boil over ), OF course I bent as Mistress has trained me ,from the waist with straight legs  if possible when I heard the delivery lady say " nice panties"   I had inadvertently given her a close up view of my frilly pink satin panties in all their glory! I turned back to her with my face as pink as my panties staggering an apology but she merely smiled and walked away .
NO public outcry, no shriek of rage or offence just " nice panties "

I'm not sure now if I should  be more  or less careful when answering the door in future !

LOL but somehow we sissies usualy end up tempting fate, don't we?

i'm also only allowed women's things at home. Eventually it was decided that i should have to answer the door for deliveries. OMG the first time i was so terrified. Over time it gets easier, or you learn to deal with it. i've gotten looks of surprise, disgust, and also smiles but never had a conversation like that. Maybe it was your cute outfit, or the way you handled yourself. Not sure how i would have reacted if a conversation ensued like that with a female delivery person.


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Male Feminization Discussions / Re: Questions for Mistresses
« on: August 05, 2025, 10:38:41 am »
Quote from: Ms Gina on August 02, 2025, 11:06:39 pm
After reading your post I find it quite interesting. My sissy husband has been on the receiving end over my knee quite often through the years.
First it's becoming quite apparent that your wife is feeling more confident in her head of Household position. Also the fact that she gave you a spanking is a proof of that fact.Giving a first spanking is a game changer. When I gave my boyfriend now husband his first spanking it was empowering and our relationship was never the same . I became the strict Mommy and he became like a naughty son.
Secondly Your wife girlfriend obviously showed her a few techniques leg locks ect. My girlfriends like to ask questions and be involved in my husband immature behavior. Girl talk as I call it involves some interesting conversations about "Mommy little Sissy.
Thirdly by the way Billy I am sure you earned the spanking you received. And no you are not to old to be spanked. If you act like a child then you should be treated like one.Your wife has warned you by saying to obey her or you will fear her wrath.So you can expect more discipline in the future as your wife becomes more confident as your disciplinarian.
I recommend you buy her a nice implement to use on you and thank her for trying to make you a better husband/sissy.

Ms. Gina

my Wife and i both agree. After the first spanking Mistress gave me, it felt like things changed in our relationship. Like a milestone was reached and the dynamic became even more defined and real. Mistress is also more confident, and more strict and forthcoming with Her discipline.

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Male Feminization Discussions / Re: Once you remove that useless body hair
« on: August 04, 2025, 11:54:06 am »
Quote from: Jan C on August 04, 2025, 11:07:09 am
I was gagged for the Brazilian as my screams could be heard a block away. Mistress Linda and three attendants did the procedure. My small size was noted and discussed. I now touch up with a razor on a regular basis.

Oh wow. They were ok with having you gagged? Is the salon sissy friendly or have you been there before so they know all about you? How were you dressed?

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Male Feminization Discussions / Re: Christian Dior
« on: August 02, 2025, 09:57:01 am »
While not a basic requirement of my everyday rules or dress code, i am very familiar with corsets and firm control girdles, having had to wear them at home and under male clothes when I used to go into the office for work. Yes the discomfort and suffering provide training and a constant reminder of my feminization.

@Patti59, i was instructed to follow up on Your comment that "Corsets are a Requirement for ALL New Age men!   The UK Group has ALL of their Sissies in Corsets, and they are all onmonthly Periods as well." Mistress Karen was curious about this UK group and how She might get access. Is it here or another link? She was also amused and curious about Your mention of their sissy period routine.

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New & Existing Member Introductions / Re: Introductions
« on: August 02, 2025, 09:23:13 am »
Hello and a belated welcome Ms Gina.

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Male Feminization Discussions / Re: Once you remove that useless body hair
« on: August 02, 2025, 09:20:34 am »
Yes the routine of shaving adds to my feminization, and i also know how great it feels with stockings or pantyhose sliding over smooth legs.

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General Discussion / Re: Sissy Periods
« on: July 28, 2025, 04:45:43 pm »
Quote from: inhershoes on July 28, 2025, 03:05:07 pm
I have a monthly period, but I love it. I like to go to my local Target and pickup 2 sets of pads on a monthly basis. I won't buy large packs, but just enough for that month. That way every month I have to go down that isle and pick the pads I like or want to wear. I love the thicker ones and I will usually add lotion, Vaseline and lube of some sort to the pad to make it feel wet and slippery. Often times I will go to Target, purchase my pads and ask where the restroom is. I have a Home Depot near me and I will walk over a few days and go into the restroom and change my pad there. No denying that sound of opening and removing a pad either.
I will try and drink lots of water and wear my girdle to get that uncomfortable feeling, I will also add Tiger Balm to my nipples and wear a scoring pad in my bra to get my nipples very sensitive.
Good luck sissies

@inhershoes, that sounds like a pretty comprehensive monthly period routine. How long have you had to follow that routine, and who defined it for you? Have you ever had to download and use a period tracker app on your phone? That adds to the mental training of it too.

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Women ONLY! / Re: The most feminine garment
« on: July 26, 2025, 09:41:44 pm »
Hi. This is Karen. I think I know where you're going with this, but please let me offer my opinion.

Instead of focusing on what you feel is the most feminine, I suggest you find out and leverage what your pansy finds most feminine. I think that will have the greatest influence on her and be most effective in her training. I initially began with satin panties, when I discovered her fetish for them, and the effect they had on her. The initial impact was huge, but as you know panties are easy to conceal, integrate into a sissy's lifestyle, and therefore soon enough their influence lessens. I also began adding other lingerie and feminine items and protocols. As you do this, it should be easy for you to judge each item's impact and then use them accordingly.

I have to say that bras had the greatest impact on her training and submission. It is unlike anything they are familiar with, unquestionably feminine, and harder to hide or dismiss as anything but sissy training. Adding forms increases its power. I was also a proponent of requiring she address everything as "her" or "my", just as you are doing. This works on the mental conditioning, while the clothing are for the physical.

Since you seem to have a leaning toward slips, a camisole or short slip can be worn by a sissy in male mode. Just have her tuck it like she would the tails of a men's dress shirt. You can ask my steffie. LOL

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New & Existing Member Introductions / Re: Hello
« on: July 26, 2025, 07:57:08 am »
Quote from: Reticentgirl on July 26, 2025, 04:53:14 am
Quote from: ccponyboy on July 25, 2025, 07:14:36 am
Oh Ms Reticentgirl, the cami slip is a must. B cup for a pansy is quite large. Yes I love wearing a bra but your pansy seems to hate it. Here's a link to my favourite company for stylish underwear.
https://www.bluebella.com/pages/delivery-details
Please enjoy the teasing.

Mx

Thanks for the link to Bluebella. The petticoated pansy wears lingerie chosen by me. I insist that it is either extremely feminine or extremely embarrassing, ideally both. I love the teasing but ‘she’ does not. I still remember the occasion some time ago when I made her sit down beside me and ‘choose' one or two items from the Birch Place Shop. Until then she had no idea that her training might involve such short dresses or extravagantly frilly panties. In the end I insisted amongst other things on the pink plastic popper panties which I still use occasionally when ‘she’ is put to bed.

At home ‘she’ is being trained to wear a full range of extremely pretty conventional lingerie and also to wear it well as I mentioned in my post about bras. ‘She’ derives no excitement from wearing feminine garments (I know because the body cannot lie). I on the other hand derive enormous pleasure from requiring her to do so and constantly teasing her.

You mention cup size. Bear in mind that my pansy is tall and slim with no noticeable pectoral muscle mass. After experimentation I found that the B cup forms worked best, giving her a natural and by no means excessive boost. This also means that I can select appropriate dresses such as the short princess line dress with puff sleeves and sweetheart neckline that she will be wearing today.

All my lingerie and feminine things are also chosen by my Wife, and i never know what outfits She will have me wearing on any particular day. Aside from Your comments of "exteremely feminine or extremely embarrassing", i was instructed to also suggest extremely uncomfortable or cumbersome. She likes this for me so that i am constantly reminded of my feminized state. Aside from the BirchPlace, Mistress Karen also recommends TheSissyStore, but it looks like the two sites are very similar.

i bet Your Pansy  looks adorable, and so humbled and embarrassed in her short princess line dress today. I hope You also have her in a complete set of very feminine lingerie underneath.

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New & Existing Member Introductions / Re: Hello
« on: July 25, 2025, 10:37:40 am »
Ms Reticentgirl. What a great video for proper bra training and wearing. Do You have your sissy watch similar videos regularly as part of her other training?

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