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Women being Empowered / Re: HR in the Gynarchy
« on: November 03, 2024, 05:30:02 am »
Quote from: huberthowhow on August 14, 2024, 05:16:01 pm
  OK, here comes the wet blanket. I do not believe that today's informed and empowered woman has her sights set on revenge based on role , a-la- 1950's America. She does, however, want to call the shots, and make the best decisions possible. If that means listening to a man who has experience and knowledge, then she will. No man will have rubber stamp status, understand, but there will still be competent and informed men who can be of service to the organization. There seems to be a mindset that once the New Age sets in that all males will become empty headed bimbos, only good for making coffee and taking dictation. I think we have to be realistic here. Women in power deserve our respect that they are not about to make the same mistakes men before them have made.

Hi huberthowhow, from my own very little experience I feel your comment relatable and realistic. I was reading an article much on the same lines, I share it below for anyone interested.
From a personal perspective, as much as my Wife and I are embarking on our FLR journey that includes a degree of feminisation, my (gradual) loss of control, chastity, neither of us is seeking my total obliteration as a person. My Wife is clear that this needs to be a positive experience as a couple and both should become more fulfilled individuals; and we both believe she is much better able to develop this vision and deliver it than I am. Of course I imagine a lot of our kinks will be weaved into our new dynamics as they develop, but the important thing for me is I can fully trust her that if I will end up more feminised as a result, it will not be for her to make me generally miserable- on the contrary. I can’t wait for her to blossom into her leading role as I know I will then be a submissive sissy to a wonderful trusted leader.

https://buymeacoffee.com/matriarchytimes/exploring-gynarchy-dr-kirti-patel-on-creating-future-beyond-patriarchy

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General Discussion / Re: Halloween Plans?
« on: October 31, 2024, 12:12:45 pm »
Quote from: Cabin Crew Tracy on October 30, 2024, 03:28:22 pm
What are everyone's plans for Halloween?

I'm taking my maid out in a very sexy costume with her old friends for a night out. It's going to be delightfully embarassing for her!

How are you ladies spending your Halloween's? Any fun plans with your sissy hubbys?

I wish!! Or maybe I wish it in my dreams but given the option to go out dressed as a sexy maid I’d probably chicken out…

It’s true that Halloween is the perfect excuse… still a bit too early for me but it could be a good goal for next year, maybe in a place not too close to home…

Have fun tonight!! Xx

iAna

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New & Existing Member Introductions / Re: Hello from iAna!
« on: October 31, 2024, 07:06:52 am »
Thanks so much for the warm welcome @Adeline and @Michelle, it sure feels nice being here!!

xx iAna

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New & Existing Member Introductions / Hello from iAna!
« on: October 30, 2024, 09:03:53 pm »
Hi all!

I am iAna and I have been reading on this forum for a few months, without ever the courage or conviction to post.

During this time however I was lucky enough to exchange with two wonderful people who are also on this forum, and they have been so supportive and available to help me - they really helped a lot, and still are kind of mentoring me in a wonderful way!!! Their advice has been so precious and got me through many recent ups and downs, and seeing how they spread their positive energy in the forum inspired me to put myself out there as well.

I might not have much to offer as you are all so far ahead than we are, but it still feels the right thing to do to embrace life with openness and transparency and try a less concealed and shy journey, and I hope you will be patient with me and my inevitable mood changes and insecurities.

The last few months have been hugely impactful for me, as I have finally been able to tell my wonderful wife that I would like to try an FLR, that I like chastity and at the same time I took the opportunity to reiterate things already discussed in the past but almost repressed for many years, like my submissiveness, my fondness for crossdressing and many related kinks.

We are on a journey, it is not easy as it has many ups and downs. My wife has always been very vanilla and it’s not that obvious for her to adopt such a radical change. So it is some steps forwards and some backwards to find a better path… but she is so supportive and my absolute rock!

Right now we just had a “down” but I hope through our trials and errors and with the support of this forum we might be able to develop the right balance for us.

I was almost forgetting - the other day in one of the exchanges I was addressed as sissy - it will probably seem strange to anyone here, but for me it was monumental, nobody ever called me sissy before!

It knocked me sideways as I knew that I had to finally reckon with it, and take a stance if I didn’t like it. Instead, one reason for me to post this, is to introduce myself as sissy iAna.
Maybe I don’t feel like that all day every day but acknowledging that I often do is a first step to learn and embrace who I am.

Sorry for the very long post!!
Hugs to all xx
Sissy iAna

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