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Women being Empowered / Re: Girls Beating boys!
« on: January 05, 2026, 06:54:44 pm »
This is why boys should be Cheerleaders!!!   So AWESOME to see Female Power like tghius!

Patti

Go girls! Put his face in its place! You're amazing!

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Female knees and wooden clogs

I doubt any one of them has ever had that kind of discipline - there would be rivers of tears!

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Maybe frightening for others?

Society has always feared the unknown. Especially radical ideas that challenge the status quo.

I'm more worried for my younger cousins and nephews - they're probably not just going to get in line. With girls becoming stronger and bolder I fear they are on a collision course with a female fist.

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Yes it's so exciting for my kids.

Maybe frightening for others?

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Women being Empowered / Re: Girls Beating boys!
« on: August 10, 2025, 06:20:27 am »
A real beating! The boy looks very young. Do you think it's possible that a similar beating of the girl would also happen to older boys, for example high school seniors, and in higher weight classes?

There are many boys who get a real beating by girls several years their junior.

Both on the mat, and off it!

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Women being Empowered / Re: Girls Beating boys!
« on: July 29, 2025, 10:09:40 pm »
Another boy gets Pinned by a Strong Girl!   This is so Awesome and becoming more Common!

You're right, Patti, and it's humbling for me because that boy looks stronger than I ever was in school - and here he is, defeated rather easily.

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It is mostly the boys who pick up fights with girls to establish a pecking order, wrongly believing that they are the stronger sex and girls have to obey.

I think I erred in my wording previously which seemed to suggest I thought girls should be encouraged to attack without provocation.  Thank you and H.H. for balancing that out.

I think your observation here is completely correct.  A boy challenges a girl, and approaches it from the angle of establishing the hierarchy but - as you pointed out previously, "for girls It is not enough to defeat, but to crush." The result is a boy who, as H.H. puts it, gets "his tender ass kicked by stronger and more skilled Females." He ends up on the lower end of the playground pecking order, but only incidentally to his sound defeat.

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Predictably, he lost ,both that match, and the ensuing consy match to said girl. Both by fall.

How embarrassing for him to find that a self-fulfilling prophecy!

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I think you are right, H.H. And, as you observed before, more and more the prospect of fighting a girl - with the chance of defeat at her hands - reduces a boy to a nervous wreck.

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To answer the question in the thread's title, I think girls learning martial arts is very important! If a mother wants her daughter to be confident and deferred to, there is no more effective way than to encourage her to beat up a boy.

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To Lesson Learned,
                           If it's not too traumatic, what were some of the "call and response things you were compelled to say? Did she make you tell them out as loud as you could?

Thank you for your concern, but you bet she made me yell as loud as I could! I didn't realize until later that her accomplishment - beating up a normal, healthy boy in front of his schoolmates - meant more to her even than it did to me. Humiliating me in a fight was a chance to celebrate girlhood, and she wanted to make it known. It was also an effective corrective measure that shattered my belief in boyish strength and made me pay for my privilege.

As for what she made me say, it's in my signature! Plus the call-and-response "who won the fight?" "You won the fight!" "Who lost the fight?" "I lost the fight!"

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                    I must admit that I once lost a scuffle to a girl one year my senior, which I found terribly humbling. My friend forced her onto her back and held her hands,so I could slap her face, but that seemed very wrong, so I couldn't.
                                   -H.H.
                                                                                     

At least it saved you from further humiliation.

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I think it's understandable that many are hesitant. Many years after the event, I still tremble inside,

When boys fight they usually want to establish a hierarchy, see who is stronger. When the defeated one gives up everything is fine.

But when girls fight they want to destroy their opponent.

That does correspond with my experience.  Long after she'd won the fight, she was still hitting my body and tearing my clothes, pleas for mercy ignored, while pounding in female primacy through call-and-response - I remember a few of the things I was forced to say clear as day.

I should also mention that, before the beating, I was by no means considered a weak boy - I was the tallest boy in the class and quite active. Then she put me in my place and made me a posterboy for girl power.

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Usually males are reluctant to talk about their defeats at the hands of females.

You're welcome, Haraldje.  I think it's understandable that many are hesitant. Many years after the event, I still tremble inside, and all of a sudden I feel like I'm twelve again, lying face-down in front of the girl who beat me up with dozens of my schoolmates looking on.  I probably deserved it, but it's still so embarrassing.

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Women being Empowered / Re: Girls Beating boys!
« on: July 21, 2025, 09:50:18 am »
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QzJaG6tQ_YE - CtC

One... Two... Three down they go!

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You only have to look at the situation in many schools where girls not only outperform boys in academic achievements but have already taken control in the classrooms and on the playgrounds. Girls already use their physical superiority until puberty to exert total dominance and control over boys.
 

You are right, Harldje.  As a young boy, I was pounded into the dirt by girls - who were much stronger than me - and this behaviour was fully approved of by the girls' mothers.

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But is this really the behavior of ladies or is it not only a faulty characteristic that has been impressed on females by the patriarchy?

The latter option makes a lot of sense.  I was much, much weaker in school then the girls - in previous decades I'd have been protected by assumptions that the girls are not strong enough to fight boys.  That assumption no longer exists, so I got crushed on a regular basis by the girls.

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