Couple points, yes all males have a deep inner sissy that lusts after pretty things. Most males learn at a young age to build a wall of fragile masculinity to hide behind. It should not be surprising that more openly sissy boys are often picked on by others. This is because male's fear two things their own femininity and powerful women. As you seen with your own petticoated pansy pretty things like panties and petticoats lead to humiliation. The fact that a woman is putting him into such things only adds to his level of humiliation. This fear of femininity is very much a learn trait that can easily be broken and crush a masculine ego into pieces.
The whole Japan pantie fetish thing and up skirting is a fetish because males compensate for their own failures by trying to control things. Deep down they lust after panties because their inner sissy wants to escape. The power trip is how they compensate and hide their deep levels of humiliation. Caution if you want to understand more about the Japan pantie thing watch Japanese Anime.
Speaking of up skirting, men have designed office buildings and malls to fulfill their fetish fantasies.
https://www.newsflare.com/video/608468/shopping-mall-bosses-close-new-glass-floor-installation-amid-upskirt-fears