New Age Lifestyle

OOOOOOOOOO so Brave of you ,Did I read that right you ended up in North Wales ?. After the first three dry days in South Wales ,I think I'm going to wait until it gets a little warmer ,fortunatly my beach is only ten minutes away lol

I think it was Mistress Melissa who said in one of her comments that " sissys should not be allowed black underwear as it was too Dom" and in reply to my pretty in Pink Post, herberthowhow commented that my pink undies would be too embarressing for him ( which is a different question ) or words to that effect, both of which started my chain of thought. Whilst I do own several basque,panties and suspender sets ( undies should always match !) in prime colours and of course my lovely white bridal set ( a gurl can dream) they are ( or were) reserved for special occaisions but excluding those, most of my undies are black. When dressed in black, bra,panties ,suspenders shift etc I do feel sexy but to be honest it is a sort of stereotypical, programmed response , My new pink set makes me feel much more sexy but in an oh so much more enticing way ,they make me feel so subserviant, open, available and  vulnerable almost as if I have no control over my reactions and I much prefer that form of "sexy" I think that may be why I loved my black maids uniforms but disliked the pink satin uniform , a position I am now re evaluating .
My Mistress has recently added pantigirdles to my wardrobe, and I just love feeling of being so constricted and showing a smooth flat front even when out in trousers, ladies with side zips obviously. The girdles are in black , flesh and white and Mistress has added panties, and a shapewear body and some lovely new bras all in white . Curiously though when in dressed in the new white undies I do not feel at all sexy, yes they feel feminin but in no way sexy ,sort of the womans equivalent of mens Y fronts ..yeuck!
Which leads to my question , is this just a quirk of my own or does the colour of their undies affect other sissys and if I may be so bold ,Have Mistress's noticed a change in their sissys attitude when dressed in certain colours ?

Quote from: Sally gurl on October 27, 2025, 05:13:48 pm

I think that mostly we sissies are afraid of being caught but deep down in our psyche we want to be discovered by a Superior Woman and put under Her authority.

exactly!! To beat her, but in a way that he knows exactly where the sissy is weakest. to beat her with one move and finally get her. Not tolerating backtalk! The truth is, after I lost my mistress and later my master, and I was left completely alone, people don't understand what I'm looking for. Women don't want a useful sissy. I had a candidate, I told her it doesn't matter what you look like, you'll still be beautiful to me if you kidnap my body and soul... she didn't understand what I wanted... maybe I'm the weird one....

Nope you are definantly not the weird one , you ,like a lot of us I suspect, are caught in the tengled web of an era that is dyeing. Unfortunatly the remaining social norms and for that matter our ages and the age of those that are left over from that time still have a tenacious grip. I often think just how different my life would have been had the internet been created ,say thirty or forty years earlier  or perhaps if i was 30 years younger . Where it is more acceptable for a pretty young thing to live ( and dress ) in the way he or she wishes with little push back from her peers today , the world is a lot more harsh and judgemental of those of us who are more mature . Still there is always the chance of a big lottery win and in which case society can go %*%* itself , One can't help noticing that personal wealth on a large scale appears to ease lifes passing. A rich man is simply eccentric a poor man is just crazy

When hanging out the washing you realize you have an unintentional colour scheme appearing

I  use breast suction pumps ,once a week or so and I do think that they are helping my boobies to grow ,but the Fengugeek herb has definantly had the most beneficial effect along with the reishe mushroom extract. I was going to post a pic but the cameras playing up again,so will try again if of interest to any one . My secret delight after using the brest pump is to apply a pair of nipple suction cups ,they are definantly making my nipples larger and more pronounced  and to be honest I just love the feeling . I just cant wait for the summer when we can put aside top coats to see if any one else notices when out and about

Patti,
I think that images of children are unacceptable and run the risk of criminal prosecution by the authorities for those who post, view and host them.

I have to agree with both sally gurl and SissyPriscilla , these images and conversations of young children have been bothering me for quite a while

Quote from: shemyezza on January 28, 2026, 05:37:01 am

Quote from: shemyezza on October 31, 2025, 08:50:57 pm

Funny , I always rememberd that hellfire club outfit as shiney black leather , just shows how the memory plays tricks

Purely out of interest I noticed that Emmas original black corset worn on set is coming up for auction shortly ,just for those of you who are size ten and have a spare £2000+  knocking around

do you have a link for that dear?

Sorry the auction ended on Jan 30, final hammer price £3000 + commision
https://app.dukes-auctions.com/en/auction/1141-modern-art/716-a-corset-worn-by-diana-rigg-1938-2020-in-the-avengers-episode-a-touch-of-brimstone