New Age Lifestyle

Hi Jane
I rather feel that your wife is going to be far more upset by the fact that you visit a Mistress than by your need to crossdress and be feminin . How ever you wrap it up it is cheating even if it has no physical sexual contact . You have to be honest with your wife . It is a sit down and have an honest conversation and whilst admittting your needs you have to remember your wifes needs and feelings as well. I fully appreciate your situation as it is very similar to mine with my first wife who sounds very much like your wife. It ended with a very painful and costly divorce but with hindsight I just wish I had done it sooner . For your own happiness you have to be true to your self ,They say that you regret the things you didn't do far more than those you did and from my experience I have to agree, I spent too much of my life being what society and other people expected me to be and now regret every one of those wasted days , I believe that in todays world your chosen life style will be easier for you to achieve than say thirty yeas ago. Above all remember that life passes very quickly an whilst adventure can be dangerous ,routine is fatal

I have seen that some clips have a little dome with a small hole, I assume that this is to allow urination without having to undo everything which   seems like a very good idea. Has anyone tried wearing one?

if you are referring to this type of item
https://ibb.co/FqJxMvXs, then yes to both your questions , it does shove the offending mail part up into the body and keeps it there and does split the genitals to give the camel toe effect ( note effect not  appearance) ,I suppose its faitly comfortable but you have all the messing around with the straps and doesn't look feminine ,better to persevere with a proper fru fru clip
Now hands up all those who thought I was going to post a link to it being worn ...shame on you lol

I have to agree Meg, finding the right pink suspender set ( not the cheap tarty sort ) is a bit of a problem , to get around this I have just orderd a couple of meters of pink elastic and as I have the spare clips I intend to make a set that will clip onto my pink corset , problem solved. I have already made them in red and black so that I can clip them to a waist cincher. As for the large pink stockings , have you tried temu / extra large pink was no problem there ,plenty of choice lol and very cheap compared to other online sites

Wow lucky gurl Hun
My hubby she treated me to a gorgeous baby doll set to wear Christmas night then more practical things a sexy new cordless iron and a divine stunning dishwasher she wants to have me over in the new year ooh gurls I can't wait hugs Steph

I must confess to being surprised ,my birthady present last year was a super new Vacumn cleaner but then Mistress attends to my wardrobe through out the year ,so many purely femine items was wonderful though.

Panties are like heels , a gurl can never have too many , My new Christmas out fit was supplied with a lovely new pair of scarlet panties to complete the out fit , my Mistress thinks of every thing

My Mistress was very generous and positively spoiled me this Christmas ! Amongst my gifts was a super soft fluffy pink hooded robe , a red flemenco style dress, three lacy bras including a super cute pink lacy one with ribbon straps which I just adore , another "everyday" maids dress with contrast peter pan collar and bow motiff and a set of slinky pink nightwear with a bamboo blossom design incorporating a robe ,knee length nightie and a half slip with french panties which I'm not too sure about as the panties look like bloomers ( well I think they do)  It was so nice to be able to serve her Christmass dinner in my new undies and maid dress
So what did Mistress Christmas bring to other deserving sissies ?

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To paraphrase an old advertising campaign in the U.K.:

“A maid is for life, not just for Christmas”

A true maid will expect nothing different on Christmas, she will serve and be glad. Wannabes will have a tantrums and feel entitled. A maid on the other hand lives their life through serving others, and is happy to do so!
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So very pleased to see this comment , I was beginning to think it was just me, Christmas for me is just another day with extra work, to give  you some  idea , as I write this is 12.30pm Christmass eve. My alarm went off this morning at 6.00 am, a quick cappachino and then I had to take Mistress's dog down to the park for his run, on return I cleaned the yard . Then into the bathroom for a full "de furrying " shave and hair removing cream every wear, shower , exfoliate scrub, moisturize . Then more moisturizer on my legs and butt, application of breast enhancement cream, scented spray and deoderant . Into todays working maid outfit, black stockings and suspenders ( six strap) ,matching bra, frufru clip and matching black thong, thong back black body, waist cincher ,short sleeve black mini dress and finally my floral pink/white apron with just a spritz of perfume. Then onto the seasonal  baking by the time I had finished we had 30 cocktail sausage rolls ,12 jam tarts and 18 sweet shortcrust mince pies , all made from scratch I may add. At 1.30 pm I took mistress a cup of tea and woke her up , promptly told off for not waking her up sooner . Next it was onto preparing the vegatables for tomorows dinner , gather the fresh Brussles from the garden ,put the Brochali, carrots and sweed into their respective pans ready for tomorows switch on, prepare the stuffing mix and finally peel and parboil the potatoes , fluffy them up and then into the fridge ready for roasting tomorrow.
Next job was to take Mistress to the doctors for her apointment, once home feed the dog and then cook mistress's dinner and  prepare and cook the turkey for tomorrows dinner . Finally I found time to run the hoover over the ground floor finishing at around 8.00pm
Obviously this was only the major jobs as I missed out all the numerous tea making and other odds and ends that make up my day . I was very pleased when the new Mrs Christmass out fit that my Mistress had ordered arrived this morning all though the old guy delivering got a suprise when I opened the door in full maids out fit , I usually slip on a robe when I have to answer the door but with all the backing etc ,this morning I forgot !  I think the guy was a christmass temp as ten minutes later he was back with another parcel which as it happened wasn't for us and he took a long time to understand my directions but I eventually managed to make him understand it should have gone to the next street over .
Tomorrow , christmass day will be more of the same but with extra washing up !