Hello Ms. Elisabeth:
Welcome to the forum. As always, I would suggest several sources for inspiration and information.
1. Ms. Viola Voltairine has a vast array of products, including books and podcasts (on youtube) that are at the cutting edge of gynarchic thought. Everything she does is amazing, she is well worth researching and becoming acquainted with.
2. Lady Fumika Misato once had a website called "Real Women Don't Do Housework" that had wonderful observations on how the male mind works, and how to grow power within a relationship. That seems gone, but some info remains here:
https://www.scribd.com/document/506108986/rwddh3. Ms. Elise Sutton was the leader of gynarchic thought some years back. Her website is gone, but her books are available on Amazon, and are good reads.
4. I would also recommend Dr. June Stephenson's "Men Are Not Cost Effective", a great book that makes the case for male femininity against the backdrop of social chaos that male aggression causes.
Good luck and I look forward to your future posts.