New Age Lifestyle

Not sure where to post this,
A girlfriend, my sissy Jan and I were enjoying food truck tacos and girl fun. Jan wore a lavender summer dress with white flats. We were laughing and joking like girls do. My friend mentioned something her boyfriend does in their intimate moments. And I mentioned something my friend Carl does. Then I noticed Jan was holding back tears.
We can't forget our sissies love us and really want to do men things with us. Jan is a person with feelings and she was a man. She remembers she used to get hard. I hurt her feelings by reminding her of things men do and that I enjoy those things. Before Jan was in chastity she used to get hard. She can no longer achieve a full **** and that embarrasses her. To sit and listen to two women talk about men in intimate moments is humiliating to a sissy. I do love my sissy Jan and want her to be a happy sissy.
I just wanted to remind New age Women that our sissies need our love and respect.

My sissy Jan was trained in giving foot rubs by his late wife. She did a wonderful job and Jan gives me daily foot rubs and is eager to preform on command. It helps that Jan is attracted to feet and caring for a woman's foot excites him. Much to Jan's dismay some of my men friends have expressed a desire for a nice foot rub from the sissy. A foot rub includes service like the licking between toes and a long gentle lick of the length of the foot. (Oh my God it's heaven).  Jan particularly enjoys the sucking of my big toes. One of my friends has asked where and how did Jan ever learn to suck like that. Jan blushes at the obvious implications in this questions. Jan is humiliated by being shown to men in his panties, bra and any other items he happens to have on. The foot rubs and the toe sucking are almost over the top. Jan's late wife also trained him in giving a yoni massage. Now this is really heaven. Every woman should experience this. Well one of my guys really wants Jan to preform one on him. Even though he doesn't have a yoni he has the corresponding area. Jan stomps his pretty little feet at the idea of doing the yoni on this guy. I have decided to spare Jan this new humiliation but have any of you been asked to preform intimate service on your Mistresses friends and how do you feel about it. A couple of my girlfriends think since he is doing their feet he should other parts of their bodies too.

As a normal healthy woman I have wants and needs that can only be filled by a man. I have attempted to explain to my sissy, Jan that from time to time a woman needs a man. Be it on her arm, on the dance floor or in bed it just requires a full size man.
Jan has been shown to my women friends and they seem to approve of the progress Jan has made. However almost all of them will at some point ask, what about sex?
I am certainly not drop dead beautiful but more than one man has been interested. Jan of course is quite jealous and worried. Jan knows he has a tiny organ. Before we married I had to explain to him he was just too small, too soft and too quick. Jan agreed he would be a better licker than a doer. He has turned into a marvelous licker. But as I said I am a normal healthy woman with a woman's appetites.
How have you women trained your sissy to accept you as a strong sexual being with strong sexual needs?

As a lurker and the Wife of a fairly new but regular reader and poster here I thought I would join and post a hello.
My little one is Jan C he has shortened is name to Jan and that is cute of him.
Jan introduced chastity to me. I wasn't impressed but as he seems to be driven by his **** I said go for it.. He got this steel device that he swam in. He is very tiny. I suggested a smaller one. I found a tiny pink one that is very cute and petite like his ****. I just love it and told my friends he got upset about that and refused to wear it.
Well things changed. He wears the device and anything else I chose for him.