New Age Lifestyle

Jan found this site and participated before I did. Now that I have discussed Jan's small size and **** problems she is reluctant to engage.  My friend Carl is very kind to Jan and always treats her as a lady. Jan has had some trouble offering Carl a place in the master bedroom.

Jan has a thing for women's shoes and feet. I and a few select friends enjoy foot service from him. Jan is blessed with very pretty and feminine feet himself. Sometime ago I decided that his pretty feet should be seen. Jan must keep his feet and toes done at all times. In addition to that Jan has a marvelous shoe collection. I do happen to prefer a more comfortable and practical shoe for myself. My tastes run to a more masculine style. I do spend a great deal of money on my shoes and Jan keeps them looking smart for me. The result is Jan is often The on in the girly shoes. This results in Jan often being drawn into shoe conversations with women. I am often in conversation with the men. Some of the time when Jans's shoes are noticed he becomes very flustered and embarrassed. I have heard a woman say from across the room your shoes are adorable. I purchased for Jan a darling air of the cutest red flats. Jan loves these shoes but is reluctant to wear them because they will be noticed.

It's a pleasure pain thing with Jan. Yesterday I sent Jan out to run some errands. She was in her masculine attire consisting of skinny jeans, a pink tee and her penny loafers of course she carried her purse. Even in these boy clothes she is embarrassed and is aware of the sniggers and comments. She told me a woman at the store admired her shoes.
I think the poor thing has a difficult time being a sissy.

My sissy Jan was trained in giving foot rubs by his late wife. She did a wonderful job and Jan gives me daily foot rubs and is eager to preform on command. It helps that Jan is attracted to feet and caring for a woman's foot excites him. Much to Jan's dismay some of my men friends have expressed a desire for a nice foot rub from the sissy. A foot rub includes service like the licking between toes and a long gentle lick of the length of the foot. (Oh my God it's heaven).  Jan particularly enjoys the sucking of my big toes. One of my friends has asked where and how did Jan ever learn to suck like that. Jan blushes at the obvious implications in this questions. Jan is humiliated by being shown to men in his panties, bra and any other items he happens to have on. The foot rubs and the toe sucking are almost over the top. Jan's late wife also trained him in giving a yoni massage. Now this is really heaven. Every woman should experience this. Well one of my guys really wants Jan to preform one on him. Even though he doesn't have a yoni he has the corresponding area. Jan stomps his pretty little feet at the idea of doing the yoni on this guy. I have decided to spare Jan this new humiliation but have any of you been asked to preform intimate service on your Mistresses friends and how do you feel about it. A couple of my girlfriends think since he is doing their feet he should other parts of their bodies too.

He makes his own political choices. I am not a fascist.

This is a wonderful article. But may I add? Sometimes it is inconvenient to have a sissy. They cause a stir at times. Of course proper under garments are a must. And light discreet makeup is always nice women's trouser or jeans are good on most occasions. I allow Jan to incorporate ankle boots, loafers and oxfords into his attire. Jan must carry a purse and use a panty liner. He carries spare liners in his purse. The sissy must know he is a sissy even when disguised as a man.

I have been reading some of the posts about chastity. Some are by my sissy Jan. Males, in my opinion are driven by their **** and as soon as a male has experienced the feel of a **** they want to do it again. That want and need drives them and can be used to control them. Once a male is in chastity he will want to get out and use his ****. A simple conversation with him is often all that is needed to point him hi the right direction. If you explain to him that other males all have a **** and his is locked away he will begin to understand his predicament. A male must learn that oral sex is still sex and that his giving of oral sex is a reward. Now Jan has learned that his days of penetrating me are over and his only hope of ever getting his much desired temporary release is if I am satisfied with his oral work. Several men have told me I give a great blow job. Jan has had a few of them and is just crazy about them. The promise of time out of chastity and the hint of a blow job insures a compliant sissy. Jan would rather not wear a dress when I have guests over but he will and he will be a lovely hostess when the need arises. Jan is able to sit with my women friends and have a feminine conversation like any lady.