New Age Lifestyle

Practice makes perfect. I require all my sissies to wear heels. Start with a small block heel and work your way up.

Heels for me are a must. They reinforce a sissy's position and act as a constant reminder of who they serve.

Oh absolutly !,
 my go to every day working shoes ( cooking ,cleaning,hoovering etc etc ) are a pair of four inch stilleto heels, in fact I have just received a new pair as my others are getting a little wonky on one of the heels, I find that ankle straps really help, mainly because I seem to be between sizes and walk out of some of them . If your shoes are with out straps they are quite freely available on Ebay for very little money ( the straps not the shoes ) and they do work wonders

I too found difficulty in trying to put it on properly, it seems that I am not loose enough, therefore, I stayed with a flat tuck and camel toe shaper pad in my panties and this works for me so this might be the best option for some of us.

As you know both my wife and I we have other sexual partners.
I have noticed something funny, my wife is on girls, none of the times she has told me to join or serve there was man, but not only that most of the times those were woman (my wife is in the lesbian/bi-curious spectrum, it happened she married when bi-curious) she chooses ladies that are usually slim, skinny , but on the contrary she says that my main attractive is my body full of generous curves. She says that fat and curves makes men attractive.
Does any of you have a wife with similar likings? Somehow I find it funny.

I certainly have….even for whole body

Hi Jane
I rather feel that your wife is going to be far more upset by the fact that you visit a Mistress than by your need to crossdress and be feminin . How ever you wrap it up it is cheating even if it has no physical sexual contact . You have to be honest with your wife . It is a sit down and have an honest conversation and whilst admittting your needs you have to remember your wifes needs and feelings as well. I fully appreciate your situation as it is very similar to mine with my first wife who sounds very much like your wife. It ended with a very painful and costly divorce but with hindsight I just wish I had done it sooner . For your own happiness you have to be true to your self ,They say that you regret the things you didn't do far more than those you did and from my experience I have to agree, I spent too much of my life being what society and other people expected me to be and now regret every one of those wasted days , I believe that in todays world your chosen life style will be easier for you to achieve than say thirty yeas ago. Above all remember that life passes very quickly an whilst adventure can be dangerous ,routine is fatal