A male who is allowed to view his p e n i s as a tool of pleasure and conquest will view femininity as an asset to be conquered,
Agreed. And unfortunately most males view their "asset" as a tool of conquest. But that's not a fault of the tool but a fault of how it is used. Take a hammer, you can use it to smash someone's skull. But is it therefore a toxic tool that must be banned? After all, you can hammer in nails with a hammer. It is the way how the tool is used that makes the difference.
A male's tool is a tool of pleasure. But it should be viewed as a tool that gives pleasure to women. A male should put the needs of a female over his own needs, so he should use his tool for the pleasure of women.
If the male succeeds in giving pleasure to a woman then, as a side effect and as a reward, he also get pleasure. And not only physical pleasure but also mental pleasure, because nothing is more gratifying for a male than to make a woman happy.
The pursuit of this sort of conquest leads to all sorts of competitive and destructive behaviors that society should not tolerate.
Also agreed. But this is only true if men are in power and if it is men who decide about intercourse, the male choice.
If women would be in power then there would be female choice. The only way for males to have intercourse is to vie for women, to please women. Instead of focusing on each other and trying everything to defeat and destroy the other male, which leads to all kinds of destructive behavior, males would have to focus on women and try everything to gain their favor.