The following is meant to be constructive and not a repudiation of others' views on this site, which has proven to be an excellent environment for thoughtful discussion. It is important to note the concept of
encouragement (see title of prior contribution by Patti) versus
forced is more than nuance. Outside the world of fantasy, forced has no real place in a relationship. In the real world, no male goes into an FLR or takes on the submissive role to a woman's dominant role except by his own free will. Even when the sub is subjected to apparently intense physical and mental punishment and appears to be acting against his will, there is always a choice available. Otherwise, laws and people get broken and relationships dissolve.
Lady Alexa addresses this in a very well thought out article, "Should Feminisation and FLR be Forced?"(
https://www.ladyalexauk.com/should-feminisation-and-flr-be-forced/), where she concludes, "Feminisation and a loving FLR Should be Encouraged not Forced". Further elaborating, she states,
"The message then is that women do need to persuade, cajole, threaten and push things along. I never push anything that Alice doesn’t want and she does have real red lines. As soon as she tells me it’s a red line it goes no further. There are things she would never do and to be honest, they are understandable even though I might like to do them…
However, I know that I am really fighting social conditioning not Alice when I make deepen her feminisation and our FLR. The results are a loving FLR for us both. And a very pretty husband."
It's well worth a read!