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Further Emasculated
« on: January 22, 2024, 11:26:19 am »
My feminization has been a work in progress,  but Miss Brenda has decided to solidify her authority over me by taking over all financial decisions.  Effective today, I no longer have any control over spending and have been put on an allowance of $30 per week.  No other personal spending may be done without her prior permission.  so, all lunches, gas etc. has to be covered by the $30, and with gas so high, I now have to take my own lunches to work - no more going out with the "guys."   At the end of each week, I now have to account for the cash and turn in any remainder - no carryover. 

In addition, whenever we are together, she will do all of the driving because men are such terrible drivers. 

All vacation trips will be made completely dressed as her sissy - no more male clothes period.  That includes the travel from and back home.  Bras are mandatory regardless of the situation. 

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« Reply #1 on: January 22, 2024, 11:53:04 am »
I love her!  We think much alike!  One of the hardest things for my sissy to accept was financial control!  I have him on an allowance too! I drive the Benz him th subaru.  I order and pay at restaurants etc.,
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« Reply #2 on: January 22, 2024, 01:08:11 pm »
   Sissyswife,  Also for me, one of the hardest things to accept would be financial control.  It feels
  very emasculating.   Although we are not in an FLM, she has said she is ready to take over the
  financial side any time.  Then today she poured coffee in a mug that says "Mom's Mug" for me.
  Sissyswife you are probably preparing a note that basically says I better shape up.   I have
  always feared that level of control.
  How did it go when you told Kadee about his new controls.  You must know now that you are
  a goddess among us sissy hopefuls.

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« Reply #3 on: January 22, 2024, 01:21:25 pm »
Hi Marcy, you are such a lucky gurl.  i assume as soon as your owner gave her command you immediately got on your silk covered knees and thanked her for taking away what was never yours in the first place.
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« Reply #4 on: January 22, 2024, 01:43:59 pm »
     One of this sissy’s most memorable experiences was when the Woman Who took me out ordered the wine then did the tasting and approval when the waiter brought it to O/our table. She then proceeded to order for us both. The submissive feminine feelings that elicited in me were so overwhelming and lovely!! Such a simple act, to order dinner, yet so very powerful!! By treating me as Her girl i became a Her girl. i know my voice softened and i listened more, hanging on Her every word, rarely talking myself just gazing adoringly at a Her throughout dinner knowing She was expecting i would “put out” when She took me back to Her place!
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Re: Further Emasculated
« Reply #5 on: January 22, 2024, 02:21:25 pm »
Hi Marcy, you are such a lucky gurl.  i assume as soon as your owner gave her command you immediately got on your silk covered knees and thanked her for taking away what was never yours in the first place.

My first reaction was male - to argue-but she shut that down very quickly with just a look.  I realized my error and told her that it was her right to do as she pleased. 
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« Reply #6 on: January 22, 2024, 02:25:40 pm »
I love her!  We think much alike!  One of the hardest things for my sissy to accept was financial control!  I have him on an allowance too! I drive the Benz him th subaru.  I order and pay at restaurants etc.,

Whenever I drive alone, I get the old clunker while she always drives the new car.  While
I have been made to surrender financial control, I am required to continue doing things like balance the checkbook and make deposits after she has first reviewed the bank statements and approved the deposit amounts.
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« Reply #7 on: January 22, 2024, 02:58:10 pm »
Financial control is just something you get used to after a period of time. In our household my wife pays all the bills and looks after the  finances and although I have access to the accounts in case of emergencies, I must ask permission to log on to banking etc.
When we dine out, my wife always orders for us and she pays the bill. Wine is not on my menu as I am always the designated driver which means no alcohol and she will often sit in the back of the car so that she is chauffeured. We have never been out as mistress and maid but I imagine it is fairly easy to spot the type of relationship we are in although my wife is never rude, nor belittles me in public spaces. We recently went on a group visit to the wine area a few hours away and visited 4 wineries for tasting. I drove and accompanied the group and sat at the table with a glass of water and something to read. I was only invited along on that basis - kind of there but not there. Naturally, i carried the bottles that were purchased and carefully packed them in the bus. It was a very pleasant day out although I was more tired than most after delivering everyone home safely. Then it was time t prepare the evening meal for my wife and friends and pour a glass of the newly purchased wine from the vineyards.
That is the lot of a sissy maid I suppose, irrespective of whether I in actual maid mode or just there to serve.
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« Reply #8 on: January 22, 2024, 03:43:26 pm »
What an excellent did you have become!  What do you find most rewarding?   Most embarassing?

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« Reply #9 on: January 23, 2024, 09:50:12 am »
Financial control is just something you get used to after a period of time. In our household my wife pays all the bills and looks after the  finances and although I have access to the accounts in case of emergencies, I must ask permission to log on to banking etc.
When we dine out, my wife always orders for us and she pays the bill. Wine is not on my menu as I am always the designated driver which means no alcohol and she will often sit in the back of the car so that she is chauffeured. We have never been out as mistress and maid but I imagine it is fairly easy to spot the type of relationship we are in although my wife is never rude, nor belittles me in public spaces. We recently went on a group visit to the wine area a few hours away and visited 4 wineries for tasting. I drove and accompanied the group and sat at the table with a glass of water and something to read. I was only invited along on that basis - kind of there but not there. Naturally, i carried the bottles that were purchased and carefully packed them in the bus. It was a very pleasant day out although I was more tired than most after delivering everyone home safely. Then it was time t prepare the evening meal for my wife and friends and pour a glass of the newly purchased wine from the vineyards.
That is the lot of a sissy maid I suppose, irrespective of whether I in actual maid mode or just there to serve.

It was really hard to give the finances up because I have always seen that as a man's job,  but, as she tells me, I am no longer a man, so accept it.  That is not saying that she won't ask for my opinion or concerns, but once she has made a decision, there is no more discussion, her word is law.  Another thing that I still have to get used to is being obedient in public as you have described without calling undue attention to ourselves while close to home.  Miss B finds it fun to let little things slip like when ordering in a restaurant, she may tell the waitress something like, "Give me the check, he has already used up the weekly allowance I gave him."
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« Reply #10 on: January 23, 2024, 09:55:03 am »
I love doing that too!  Or saying he is too irresponsible etc..
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« Reply #11 on: January 23, 2024, 11:02:23 am »
I did want to comment on this topic. In some ways I am quite strict with financial control and in some ways I am not. I don't have an interest in dominating Jemima financially. Like any other married couple we have to manage our household finances somehow. As we are a FLR household it makes sense to use the FLR way as a template.

As the head of the household I look after all the finances. In real terms, Jemima has access to all the accounts and he knows where all the paperwork is kept. If there were a crisis or he really did have to know our financial status then he can find out. But, in general terms, we agree that as a sissy in a FLR household it's not his place to have any say in how the finances are managed.

Jemima receives a weekly allowance. There is no link between his behavior and this allowance. I'll always pay this - I have other ways of maintaining discipline at home. We use a bank account that is aimed at children. Jemima has a plastic card to use for spending this allowance but it's controlled by a app that is installed on my phone. Whenever he uses the card I get a message with the amount spent and location. To be honest, I have no interest on how he spends his allowance, but the extra control and viability is nice. If I did see a transaction I was not happy with then he would be in trouble when he gets home! In practical terms, I can transfer money instantly to him if there were any problems and he needed some extra. If he wants money for anything else he can ask and I'd expect him to curtsy and ask properly. In theory, I'd punish him if he asked for anything silly or over extravagant but I am not looking to deny him anything. Although we do things in a FLR way, it's really just about managing our money and not about controlling Jemima.

As he takes the role of wife, it's down to him to make sure we have all the groceries we need. When he goes shopping I'll give him a bank card and he has a budget to work within. The budget is just a guide really, so long as he doesn't go really mad with it, I am not really bothered. I'd rather he got all the groceries we needed to be honest.

Running the household finances is important to me. I've run my own business in the past and was used to controlling these things myself. I was clear with Jemima right from the start of our FLR that I wanted to run the finances. I wanted to take the responsibility off him so he didn't need to worry about it. Whilst I like to be in control of the finances, it's not about controlling him. It did take him a while to get used to it and I did give him time to adjust. I've got him to the point how where he knows that asking silly questions about the day-to-day stuff is disobedient and he will be punished. For the larger things, like when I applied for a house extension loan or if I make other big changes, I'll go through the details with him to be sure he understands the plan. Also, if anything were to happen to me, I don't want him worrying about the money side of things.

- Claire. 
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« Reply #12 on: January 23, 2024, 02:36:21 pm »
Dear Lady Claire,
May I say that your financial set up sounds just about perfect with the right balance between control and supervision. Our household is quite similar as my wife leaves me to manage groceries etc when I do the weekly shop. However, I know that if I mis-spend, there will be words spoken or other consequences and I will have to compensate at some point. I love the idea that you can see exactly what your partner is transacting at any point. In our household, my wife just inspects the accounts daily and questions any irregular or unusual activity. nothing gets past her which is the way it should be I believe.
Respectfully yours - Petula P
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« Reply #13 on: January 24, 2024, 09:58:18 am »
I did want to comment on this topic. In some ways I am quite strict with financial control and in some ways I am not. I don't have an interest in dominating Jemima financially. Like any other married couple we have to manage our household finances somehow. As we are a FLR household it makes sense to use the FLR way as a template.

As the head of the household I look after all the finances. In real terms, Jemima has access to all the accounts and he knows where all the paperwork is kept. If there were a crisis or he really did have to know our financial status then he can find out. But, in general terms, we agree that as a sissy in a FLR household it's not his place to have any say in how the finances are managed.

Jemima receives a weekly allowance. There is no link between his behavior and this allowance. I'll always pay this - I have other ways of maintaining discipline at home. We use a bank account that is aimed at children. Jemima has a plastic card to use for spending this allowance but it's controlled by a app that is installed on my phone. Whenever he uses the card I get a message with the amount spent and location. To be honest, I have no interest on how he spends his allowance, but the extra control and viability is nice. If I did see a transaction I was not happy with then he would be in trouble when he gets home! In practical terms, I can transfer money instantly to him if there were any problems and he needed some extra. If he wants money for anything else he can ask and I'd expect him to curtsy and ask properly. In theory, I'd punish him if he asked for anything silly or over extravagant but I am not looking to deny him anything. Although we do things in a FLR way, it's really just about managing our money and not about controlling Jemima.

As he takes the role of wife, it's down to him to make sure we have all the groceries we need. When he goes shopping I'll give him a bank card and he has a budget to work within. The budget is just a guide really, so long as he doesn't go really mad with it, I am not really bothered. I'd rather he got all the groceries we needed to be honest.

Running the household finances is important to me. I've run my own business in the past and was used to controlling these things myself. I was clear with Jemima right from the start of our FLR that I wanted to run the finances. I wanted to take the responsibility off him so he didn't need to worry about it. Whilst I like to be in control of the finances, it's not about controlling him. It did take him a while to get used to it and I did give him time to adjust. I've got him to the point how where he knows that asking silly questions about the day-to-day stuff is disobedient and he will be punished. For the larger things, like when I applied for a house extension loan or if I make other big changes, I'll go through the details with him to be sure he understands the plan. Also, if anything were to happen to me, I don't want him worrying about the money side of things.

- Claire.

Lady Claire,

I shared your post with Miss Brenda, and she felt that perhaps she was being a little harsh where it concerned my allowance.  However, she feels that otherwise both of your thinking coincide.  The emergency plan is taken care of because I see and work with the bank statements, so I am aware of all accounts, and the broker has dealt with me in the past.  She will also give me the bankcard for grocery and other approved shopping trips when by myself.  Otherwise when we are together, she takes care of all payments, cash, check or card. 
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« Reply #14 on: January 26, 2024, 07:58:40 am »
Marcy, is your broker a Woman?  If not may i humbly suggest you recommend switching to a Female broker to help promote and advance Women across our society?
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