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Marcy Little

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The Need for Discipline
« on: August 04, 2023, 12:14:40 pm »
I'm sure that some of you remember my beginnings as a petticoated sissy-boy under my mother's discipline. Once I became an obedient teen, Mom stopped the discipline, but upon entering college, I fell in with a macho crowd and regressed badly into a chauvinist who treated women badly.  Miss Brenda saw the Beta male hiding in me and has corrected corrected most of that.  Although I am well trained and mostly docile under her control,  there are still times that I need a reminder of who is the BOSS.  I still have a bad male habit of opening my mouth without thinking and speaking without being spoken to.  These moments are my "little rebellions" that bubble out from that still rebellious male that thinks he should be in charge.

The other day,  I got upset at her for ordering me to fold her towel properly during her shower, that instead of obeying her  like normal, I threw a tantrum and dropped it on the floor in front of her before thinking of the consequences! Instant regret.  Another time, we were in a restaurant, she ordered for both of us, and I attempted to change my order.  Punished.  She always drives when we are together, instead, I thoughtlessly got into the driver's seat before being ordered out.     

Sissies like me need constant discipline to remind us of our place and keep that tiny mach man from showing himself!  I know that I do! 
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Re: The Need for Discipline
« Reply #1 on: August 04, 2023, 04:39:21 pm »
Agree, even the best trained sissies make mistakes. It is not your fault the male brain is flawed. The best approach is to have regular discipline given often and more serve discipline when a mistake happens.
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Re: The Need for Discipline
« Reply #2 on: August 04, 2023, 05:07:32 pm »
I find that when our household is in mistress and maid mode my manners are very good and if there is to be any punishments it will usually be for forgetting something or not reaching the high standards my wife insists upon.
However, when in male mode I have quite regular lapses and that upsets my wife and she doesnít understand why there is such a contrast in behaviour. I always apologise later for upsetting her and she reminds me that the maid would never act in that way. Just lately she has suggested that when in male mode, if I am not more polite and courteous, she will further restrict the amount of time we spend as mistress and maid. I havenít quite grasped whether that is a good or bad idea. she knows I receive a great deal of pleasure from serving her and she enjoys it too so by restricting it, I am likely to become more frustrated and possibly less courteous, or perhaps not if I wish to spend more time as her faithful maid. Hopefully I will remember before I open my mouth and things will work out fine.
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Re: The Need for Discipline
« Reply #3 on: August 04, 2023, 05:15:02 pm »
I tried spanking my sissy hubby but just cannot bear to hurt him that way!  I have learned that orgasm denial and public embarrassments are more fun for me and more effective!!
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Re: The Need for Discipline
« Reply #4 on: August 04, 2023, 05:21:10 pm »
I myself would like to be spanked not hard or with a belt. Reminds me of a episode of The Big Bang Theory where Sheldon spanks Amy. It was a funny clip
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Re: The Need for Discipline
« Reply #5 on: August 04, 2023, 05:43:06 pm »
I tried spanking my sissy hubby but just cannot bear to hurt him that way!  I have learned that orgasm denial and public embarrassments are more fun for me and more effective!!

Discipline comes in many forms orgasm denial and public embarrassments are just as effective if not more than spanking.
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Re: The Need for Discipline
« Reply #6 on: August 04, 2023, 05:45:04 pm »
However, when in male mode I have quite regular lapses and that upsets my wife and she doesnít understand why there is such a contrast in behaviour.

Pants give males to much freedom and then get cocky. Perhaps what you really need is to be fitted for a nice tightly lace corset that can be worn at all times. Even in male mode you work forget you are a sissy.

Chris
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Re: The Need for Discipline
« Reply #7 on: August 05, 2023, 11:04:46 am »
Marcy wrote: Sissies like me need constant discipline to remind us of our place and keep that tiny mach man from showing himself!  I know that I do!

I actually crave the discipline I donít receive. I have a reluctant Mistress (Sissyswife please take note). She has childhood memories of an abusive father that makes spanking difficult for her. So that is not part of our routine.

On the other hand I do need correction in order to be the best I can be. The temptation to put my own will first, rather than deferring to Herís is all too common.

There are different kinds of spanking. Playful, sexual, maintenance, punishment etc.

For me I would love it if I got a one time walloping to cover past transgressions and to firmly establish her role as the dominant person in charge.

Iím talking about a thorough retribution for years of mistakes and omissions, macho attitudes and ignorance on my part.

I would love to be taken over her knee, skirt up, panties down and paddled for real.

I want to be spanked hard to cover these sins. I want to cry in repentance. I want the real learning to begin when I donít think I can take anymore.

After that a time out in the corner holding my skirt up and not allowed to rub my bum. Just to emphasize her power and control.

Then a time of coming back together to say itís over. Itís ok. We still love each other. Lesson learned

This could be followed up with regular maintenance spankings. Not so much because I needed it, but to reinforce her powerful position in the relationship.

Is that too much to ask? 🥴💕👗💄
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Re: The Need for Discipline
« Reply #8 on: August 07, 2023, 11:43:15 am »
I tried spanking my sissy hubby but just cannot bear to hurt him that way!  I have learned that orgasm denial and public embarrassments are more fun for me and more effective!!

Miss Brenda learned early on that I needed a good whipping as a reminder of my place.  She also favors orgasm denial and some discrete public humiliation, but the belt is necessary to maintain discipline.
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Re: The Need for Discipline
« Reply #9 on: August 08, 2023, 11:34:50 am »
I agree although my sissy is very submissive and obedient but he needs a reminder between times so I put him on my knees and give him a good spank with my bare hand or slipper
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Re: The Need for Discipline
« Reply #10 on: August 08, 2023, 02:55:54 pm »
Miss Brenda learned early on that I needed a good whipping as a reminder of my place.  She also favors orgasm denial and some discrete public humiliation, but the belt is necessary to maintain discipline.

All sissies still have male brains so a good belt, hair brush or paddle for discipline goes a long way. Of course there are many other options. I know women who give their sissies a timeout sending them to the corner or kneeling for 45 mins to an hour can be quite effective in keeping sissies in line.
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Re: The Need for Discipline
« Reply #11 on: August 29, 2023, 10:01:21 am »
Even though we sissies suffer the discipline, it is also important to remember that it is an important tool to remind the Goddess of her position in the dynamic.   As the boss, she has to be constantly on guard to keep things her authority in tact. 
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Re: The Need for Discipline
« Reply #12 on: August 29, 2023, 04:43:20 pm »
I have found orgasm denial and public embarrassments are the best and most enjoyable (for me)!
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Re: The Need for Discipline
« Reply #13 on: August 29, 2023, 05:32:58 pm »
I never been public humiliated but have been orgasm denied which I loved
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Re: The Need for Discipline
« Reply #14 on: September 11, 2023, 01:11:04 pm »
However, when in male mode I have quite regular lapses and that upsets my wife and she doesnít understand why there is such a contrast in behaviour.

Pants give males to much freedom and then get cocky. Perhaps what you really need is to be fitted for a nice tightly lace corset that can be worn at all times. Even in male mode you work forget you are a sissy.

Chris

Yes ,the corset is all powerful and totally changes us. The fact that men invented and designed them to control women is particularly appropriate [in Her view]. I am laced daily and it can be very difficult - one just has to learn to endure it -as did ladies in olden times.
No way is it something that you can forget you are wearing.
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