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Hello, I'm Susan
« on: January 12, 2024, 11:38:05 pm »
Hello,

My name is susan, given to me by my wife. I am new to this but, I told my wife after much deliberation on my part, that i use to dress before we married and i asked her if she minded if i started again to dress.  She thought about it and told me that i could but, there would be conditions. 1. No sex; 2. she would choose my clothes; 3. we would be in a FLR; 4. Separate rooms; 5. She will have her needs met.

There are others but, I'm having 2nd thoughts.

Regards

Susan

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Re: Hello, I'm Susan
« Reply #1 on: January 13, 2024, 01:13:52 am »
Just run with it for now and find your feet
She’s giving you what you want so it’s only fair she has her needs met
Lots of sissies here have partners with lovers and it can greatly add to the dynamics of FLR

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« Reply #2 on: January 13, 2024, 08:13:47 am »
Susan,
It has to work for both of you but you also have to accept that she “holds all the aces” or at least you are in a vulnerable position or don’t have much bargaining power. If you badly want to dress, you will agree. If there are conditions only whilst you are in feminine mode that would be much better. In our household there is no question of sex when in mistress and maid mode. I am often tasked with helping my wife dry herself after showering and helping her dress (as a ladies maid should) but if I was to touch her in an inappropriate way or show any sign of excitement there would be a heavy price to pay.
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« Reply #3 on: January 13, 2024, 11:50:41 am »
Hello Susan, welcome here. Nice to meet you. Sounds like your relationship with your wife is going to be interesting.
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« Reply #4 on: January 18, 2024, 01:02:09 pm »
Hello Susan- Having second thoughts this quickly is not an uplifting sign. But I would urge you to give this an honest try.
Look, your wife could have said 'No way, or 'Get out'. She didn't, so giving this a fair trial seems to me to be something you should certainly consider.
If you don't, you may very well have a long time to regret what might have been.
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Re: Hello, I'm Susan
« Reply #5 on: January 20, 2024, 02:13:10 am »
Hello, thank you for your replies, just a quick update'

My wife and i talked and we have agreed to go ahead with my dressing etc.  I will give more details soon.

Susan
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« Reply #6 on: January 20, 2024, 08:55:35 am »
Lucky lucky boi! When are you going shopping for your new wardrobe and after you're properly realigned when will you help her? All I want to convey is that she's helping you with your needs perhaps you could meet her halfway and help her with hers as one would do in any relationship. It's normal to be anxious... take baby steps. Talk to her about your fears. Tell her you'll do your very best to support and help her meet her needs. Be honest and heartfelt... Keep your attention on her, on making her happy and in the end you'll both be happier and living an authentic life that many only dream of
In the end all you really need to do is obey...
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Re: Hello, I'm Susan
« Reply #7 on: January 21, 2024, 04:16:47 am »
Hello Susan I'm Stephanie like you my wife well husband now gave me name my tomboy husband love our role change.Maybe you could try to convince her to try the male role to your feminine persona.If she's not happy to do that become your husband then just become her bestie enjoying girly time together help choose her date outfits a shoulder to cry on when men let her down.
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« Reply #8 on: January 21, 2024, 07:54:52 am »
Update.

Yesterday we went shopping for Susan's (my) clothes, tho some were bought online by my wife. While out she told me that she has invited Barry round in the evening. Barry is my friend from school.

i didnt think for one minute that he was to be the first one to see me dressed. When we got home she told me to dress as Barry will be here soon. I said but he'll see me dressed. 'So' she said, you wanted to dress now do as your told.  After much back chat and a slap to my face she told me to dress.

At 6 he arrived, i had to let him in. his first words were 'Hello Susan how are you?'   'Take my coat' he said, when i hesitated he said he said now come on be a good girl'

Usually when we have visitors i sit next to my wife but, he went straight to her  gave her a hug and a peck on the cheek and they both sat next to each other.   They chatted and made comments about me to each other saying i look sweet, and she'll make a good housewife.

I was also told of my role and Barry's.

Sorry I was late with the update.

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« Reply #9 on: January 21, 2024, 09:28:17 am »
So he already knew. What were you wearing
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« Reply #10 on: January 21, 2024, 10:37:00 am »
They had spoken about a week ago. I was dressed in a short skirted dress, my wife liked the bordering on sissy type
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Re: Hello, I'm Susan
« Reply #11 on: January 21, 2024, 11:13:47 am »
Has Barry been a close friend all this time?

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« Reply #12 on: January 21, 2024, 11:46:46 am »
Oooh Susan Hun it might be good you know her sutor maybe she's flirted with him before just enjoy your girly time maybe do a meal for you all be the happy housewife wear something pretty do your hair and makeup a nice perfume embrace your feminity enjoy the time
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Re: Hello, I'm Susan
« Reply #13 on: January 21, 2024, 11:48:22 am »
We’re you also in heels and/or tights?

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« Reply #14 on: January 21, 2024, 04:16:41 pm »
Oooh Susan Hun how much an old friend is Barry or his he a snake ready to pounce
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