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« on: January 06, 2021, 05:56:46 pm »
     Hello everyone!
      I figured I would start this Board off with a brief description of who I am, and why I created this Forum!
      First of all, I have been a crossdresser for almost all my life, at least that was what I wanted to be.  As a young boy, I was a bed wetter, and as a Punishment to get me to stop wetting the bed, my parents decided to put me into Panties, it was apparently suggested to them.  Well, I was exposed to some aunts and uncles, and the humiliation of it all apparently set off a "trigger" in me.  Really from that point on, and that was in the '60's, I was fascinated with nylon underwear and had this burning desire to wear Girl's clothes. 
     As this was a burning desire for me, as a boy I was quite athletic, playing football and basketball and throwing the Discus, but down deep inside, while I was competing on the football field and such, I would look over at the cute cheerleaders, and actually wanted to be one of them!  This was then the early to mid '70's.  Girls were just getting the opportunity to play "Regular" Sports, instead of the "watered down" versions they had for Girls in those days.  At that point, I fell in LOVE with Tomboys!    I just LOVED that these Girls were competing like boys, and many had short cropped hair, they NEVER wore skirts or dresses, and never carried purses.....I was in LOVE!!!   I dreamt of me being the pretty cheerleader in my mini skirt and pantyhose (all the Girls wore pantyhose with their cheer outfits in those days), shaking my pompoms, and jumping up and down so the Girls (tomboys) would see my pretty panties!
     Then I met my tomboy, and she and I got married.  She bought me my first dress, and all kinds of feminine things, and she enjoyed my femininity, but she had no real desire to wear feminine clothes herself.  We had kids, I did the "manly" things and everyone just thought of us as a "regular" couple, which we were.  We would have our "playtime" and had a Great life.  Along the line, she became an alcoholic, and got in with a Group of "Friends" that just drove her away from me.  After 30 years of married life, she left and we divorced.  This Woman that once Loved me so much then totally turned on me, and just Hated me.  She would not even talk to me to try to "work things out".  It was just one of Life's bitter "truths".  So she has not talked to me in almost 10 years!
     I started exploring Gender Role Reversal and the Empowerment of Women and Girls in the '80's, and over the years have had several Forums, Blogs and have contributed to others Forums and Blogs, as well as Polls.  I know that there are good men out there, but there are so many arrogant males that I just despise macho men and boys, and would LOVE to see All of them Feminized!   I Want so much to see Women and Girls excel!  I like seeing Women in charge!
     The Blog and Forum themselves are to Educate people on Female Empowerment and male Feminization.  I want to have a place where people could go to and learn.  A place where people that think "Am I the only man that wants to wear dresses and skirts and have a Strong Women in my life" know that they are Not alone!  A place where Women can go to know that they are Not the only ones that think a guy in a dress and heels is sexy?   I want young Girls to know that playing football or wrestling is Fine.  I also want little boys to know if they want to do ballet and wear pretty dresses that there is nothing wrong with that!  I want couples to know that it is alright for the Women to be the Strong Breadwinner, and the man to be the sweet housewife!
      So, in "Cliff Notes" this is Patti!   For anyone that would want to PM to know more, feel free to contact me!
Strong Women are the future!

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« Reply #1 on: January 07, 2021, 02:00:18 am »
Thank you Patti for showing me your evolution in life.  I've only known you for a short time, thanks to the "New Age Lifestyle" blog.  I would have liked to know your previous blogs, but unfortunately I was "late".  You already know that you have in me a faithful feminized companion to push towards the GRR.  An affectionate kiss, Patti.
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« Reply #2 on: January 07, 2021, 01:00:32 pm »
Thank-you sooo much, Patti, not only for Patti's "Cliff Notes" but for all you do. Have enjoyed your newsletter for quite some time now and seeing this Forum was yet another way to advance your cause. Thank-you again, and again.

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« Reply #3 on: January 10, 2021, 07:45:59 am »
Patti - Such beautiful exposition of your journey...

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« Reply #4 on: January 10, 2021, 10:55:34 am »
First of all Patti it was wonderful to read that at one time your wife gave you all the necessary support to encourage your feminine side, our greatest inspiration comes from women and it was sad to read that it did not last. All the more reason why your blog and forum are helpful and needed for this lifestyle to flourish.
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