Hello Marci, for me it was the same. I was also visiting this forum for a while, reading some messages and saw that this is a very interesting forum with very nice people and good discussions. So I also signed up.
I am not sure how correct the stated number of 25% is. Imho, but this is only guessing, the number might be quite higher, maybe even up to 75-80 %.
Males are designated by nature to serve women. That's because women give birth, which is a great physical burden. Males are designed to support women, otherwise the babies could not have survived in the age of the hunter & gatherers. Thus nature has seen to it that males have a natural, submissive tendency and want to serve women.
It's only that the patriarchaical system has brainwashed males so that they thought that males are superior and women have to serve men. So I bet that most males out there do not know what they really want, and even if they do, most of them are afraid of openly admit it.
But the patriarchaic system has lasted only some thousand years, whereas human evolution has lasted millions of years. So deep inside, i guess, there is this submissive tendency lingering in any male. It's only about accepting it.