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Jessica

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Introduction to me, Sissy Jessica
« on: July 25, 2023, 05:44:40 pm »
I have always been submissive but at around age of fifteen I became extremely drawn to being a sissy for several reasons. One is that I crave the humiliation of wearing feminine things. I am outwardly quite masculine but my true nature is that of a sissy. I am married, and my wife tolerates my sissy identity— is the one who named me “Jessica”—but she has a hard time with me being a true sissy. I asked her yo please “out” me to her female friends and her sister but she won’t because she doesn’t want them to know the kind of “man” she married, she feels doing so would humiliate her more than it would humiliate me. I’ve tried to explain to her the powerful position it would put her in, and how she was able to demonize me and make me a gentle, servile, serving sissy but she just doesn’t understand how badly I want and need this, I know her friends would laugh at me, especially at first, but I think they would come to understand the situation pretty quickly and accept my status as that of a pretty, diminutive sissy whom they could humiliate and have do their bidding. I have a small ****, and am caged for much of the time, so my wife does understand that area of domination. She has said that my tiny **** does nothing for her, so that would help her feminize me.

The second reason I need to be feminized is that I suffer from terrible anxiety, and being humiliated, being feminized and having a woman control me is both extremely exciting and relaxing for me—having a strong woman hold me after I’ve done my household chores, or even the chores at the homes of my wife’s friends would help tremendously to quell my anxiety. The humiliation of getting in touch with my feminine side, my “Jessica” side whether by being humiliated alone or while my wife’s friends enjoyed that humiliation would be a form of therapy that would go directly to my soul but, again, my wife doesn’t feel indulging my sissy side to the level I so desperately need.

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Re: Introduction to me, Sissy Jessica
« Reply #1 on: July 25, 2023, 05:52:42 pm »
Hello Jessica, nice to meet you. Welcome to the forum. It is great your wife tollerates your sissy side even though you need more indulgence. Maybe in time it will happen, if you both read through Patti's blog postings at https://httpwordpressnewagelifestyle.wordpress.com/
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Re: Introduction to me, Sissy Jessica
« Reply #2 on: July 26, 2023, 06:42:14 am »
Hi Jessica,
welcome along to the forum. I am certain there are many members here who have similar cravings or longings similar to your own and sometimes those feelings totally envelope you and it is hard to see the cold reality that sits below the mists of your imagination.
Despite your feelings, it is likely your wife does not wish to reveal your true nature to anyone else as she is wrestling with the whole subject and probably finds it uncomfortable. She may well feel that she would be more humiliated than you - especially as you actually desire to be humiliated. Many women think of men in their traditional roles despite the changes we are seeing in society. She may prefer to have a masculine man, athletic and perhaps a dominant or at least an equal. She may tolerate your sissy desires but has no interest in sharing you with anyone else or suffering indignities through a reveal.
There is a huge difference between the way we dream and wish our submissive lives to be and the way our partners want things to be played out. For many, the relationship is nowhere near being how they want it and for others we have gone part of the journey and the temptation will always be to hurry it along or to try and force an ultimatum - terrible mistake to make and it could well set your relationship back many months or even do permanent damage. The key is to learn to cope and manage with how your partner wants things to be and to be grateful for the opportunity and maybe overtime if you are really good, the relationship may alter to suit your needs.

Keep working away and be subtle!

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Petula sissy maid,
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Re: Introduction to me, Sissy Jessica
« Reply #3 on: July 26, 2023, 12:49:14 pm »
This is a common theme here. What always springs to my mind is "topping from the bottom" or "how can I convince my Wife to do what I want Her to do?" That is certainly an oversimplification, but trying to bend someone's preferences to one's own seems like a mission doomed to failure.
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Re: Introduction to me, Sissy Jessica
« Reply #4 on: July 26, 2023, 06:30:44 pm »
Good discussion!