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Amandabull

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How my husband becomes my maid
« on: January 02, 2024, 09:28:12 am »
I am Amanda 28 years old girl 6.3 foot and 190lbs, athlete girl with some visible muscles and wide shoulders from years of professional swimming.

Background
About 4 years ago I met a very nice, cute, handsome guy who is younger than me 5.8 foot and 155lbs in a party. We had drinks and exchanged numbers. He kept calling me and asking me out, I wasnít really interested as heís younger than me and smaller than me. I was looking for something serious and didnít want to be in a meaningless relationship. I told him that but he kept chasing me confirming that heís looking for something serious. We went out couple of times and I started had feelings for him but then I decided that I donít want continue as I donít see this relationship going anywhere real. I explained to him my opinion and ended things with him. Couple of weeks later he called me and begged me to meet for one last time. He came to my apartment and proposed asking me to marry him. I was so surprised but happy at the same time as I really like him. I was really reluctant as this guy was so different from me, heís so nice, quite, classic, shy, not athletic he has different hobbies like reading, watching romance movies with a glass of wine, always dress up very nicely and you can smell his cologne miles away, use creams regularly to keep his skin clear while I have been always very sporty person not shy (some people consider me rude) outgoing, donít spend a lot of time on the mirror, never used creams on my skin, always dressing very casual, like to play and watch sports or action movies hate to drink wine and always have a beer instead. So, initially I told him that we arenít good fit for each other but he kept insisting that I am all what he wants. It was so hard for me to say no to him as I have feelings for him and heís kind of perfect so we got engaged.

The beginning of our marriage
I always had feeling that heís so good for me. I used to have low self esteem with my look since I was a teenager since I am not very feminine and I always used my tomboy look and attitude to avoid comparing with other girls. Anyway, during our engagement many people indicated that we arenít good fit for each other, and many friends advised me not to continue with this marriage, people used always to compliment his look but very few complaints my look despite being the bride, or people where making jokes about our size differences. This created more pressure on me to enhance myself to be acceptable wife for him. I put myself on very strict diet but didnít loose much of weight, while he was loosing weight if miss one meal. Anyway three years ago we got married. The first few months of our marriage was quite nice everything is going well and everything is normal. Sometimes he made complaints about my size and my muscles but I always thought that heís being polite to me. I was trying really hard to hide my physical strength from him and not letting him feel how much stronger I am. I was still trying to loose weight but not with much success. However, after the first year things were getting colder between us and I can feel that heís no longer interested in me. We rarely had any sexual activities, and he was travelling a lot for his new job. I tried really hard to become more appealing to him, taking care of myself more than before but it didnít work and I wasnít feeling comfortable as this was never who I am. Suddenly I felt that I made a huge mistake and all the people around us were right that we shouldnít be together.

Introduction to change
I was getting really depressed and stressed from everything going on and we were quite short on money. Of course due to my depression I was gaining more weight than before so I had to go back to the gym. One day I was at my local hairdresser when he told me that he increased his prices I didnít have enough money with me to pay him, I was really stressed and he noticed and told me that I can pay him some other day. But couldnít hold myself anymore and I started crying infornt of him and told him all the struggles I am going through. After he calmed me down he said itís really weird for a girl like me to be short on the money, he said I can have a side job easily. I wasnít sure what heís talking about when he told me that a lady he knows is looking for a big strong girls who can do wrestling. Apparently, many people pay a lot of money to wrestle women or just to watch women wrestling. I told him thisís sound suspicious, but he confirmed to me that itís legitimate and none sexual. I promised him to pay the money later that month. This night my husband came back from work he was frustrated as his job isnít going well and he told me that he will be leaving again tomorrow. I asked him in a funny way do you care if I wrestle other men for money? He replied who is going to pay money to wrestle you, but I am sure you can destroy him look how big your arm is. I was devastated after spending all this money to look pretty for him he completely ignored me. At this moment I decided that I will stop trying be the good wife for him and live as I wish. So, I went to my hairdresser again and told him I want to try it. He introduced me to the lady, sheís old in her 50s but big and muscular in unbelievable way. She wanted to try me and asked me to wrestle her and wrestle another girl smaller than me I lost to both ladies. But luckily she said you arenít good wrestler but you have a potential and I can accept you as intern.

Starting my wrestling sessions
I was permitted to attend the matches at the beginning just to watch and learn. It looked pretty straightforward all what I have to do is to put on a swimming suit and wrestle with another man. I was under training for the first two weeks, but I have achieved the best results and soon I was ready to go into my first match. Later, the ball started rolling and I was making a lot of money. Not only that I was feeling better about myself, I was no longer focusing on loosing weight or look more beautiful I was actually focusing on getting bigger and stronger which is something I am good at. In addition I was surrounded by many men who adore and admire me.

Facing my husband
Meanwhile things between me and my husband were getting worse he was spending a lot of time outside the house and completely ignoring me it was like we were separated. He was in a bad position as his company redundant him. Nevertheless, I tried to help him I told him he doesnít need to stress as I can take care of our mortgage and other expenses right now. When he left his job he finally noticed that I have another work every night. He wanted to know where I go every night but he couldnít since we were practically separated. One night I was about to leave the house to go for my wrestling session when he came home drunk, he asked where I am going I told him to work, he started shouting saying what is this job? I donít like it? I forbid you from going out. I asked him and how youíre planning to do so. He grabbed me from my hand and said by force if I have to. I couldnít stop myself from laughing he was way weaker than me when I was thinner and not practicing any sport. So, I removed his hand and told him to go to bed because he doesnít know what he is talking about. But he jumped on my back and tried to push me down, I immediately grabbed him from his neck, and threw him on the ground and then locked him arm between my thighs and choked him with my calves. He was shocked so I just left while he was breathing heavily. When I came back home this night he was still awake and waiting for me, he started criticising me by saying what kind of wife hit her husband? What kind of wife go to a secret work and come back after midnight without telling her husband where was she? I grabbed him from his neck and lifted him looked at him directly in the eyes, and told him itís better for you to shut up youíre saying that youíre my husband but you havenít touched me for more than a year, the job I am doing right now has been my job for more than 6 months and you didnít even notice because you spend all night drunk in the bar. You are unemployed I have been paying for the our house since I started this job, the only reason why I am not divorcing you because I feel sorry for you. So, if you want to leave leave or you better behave if you donít want me to beat you again.
He was shocked, he didnít leave the house. He was so silent. So, I went to him and said I will not leave you until you get your self another job but in the meantime you should be doing something like house chores.

From the next day he started doing the chores around the house, and prepare meals for me. He stopped asking about my work, and all was good. Until one day he asked another stupid question he asked why you stopped taking care of your self or trying to loose donít you want to impress me anymore. I was so furious with him that I donít remember all the details but I know that I beat him badly. I couldnít believe that after all these years of neglect and only when I started doing what I like and other men paying money to see me or wrestle me heís saying that. So, the next day I ordered him to leave the house, he collapsed and begged me not to kick him out. He went down into my feet and asked him to keep him as a maid and not a husband.

I agreed and weíve been like this for few months now.

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Re: How my husband becomes my maid
« Reply #1 on: January 02, 2024, 01:09:58 pm »
Hello Amandabull- a most intriguing story, with much left to be decided it looks like. 
You will find many strong women here, strong in many ways, to help you and give guidance as you ask for it, so feel free to talk with us about almost anything.
In meantime, I suggest you put in thought on whether you even feel your marriage is worth saving, and if so, on what terms .
It certainly sounds as if you need to take charge, which will require thought, effort, and patience among other things to make this work.
You can certainly accomplish all thus, and I wish you the best of luck here.
Miss ATT

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« Reply #2 on: January 02, 2024, 01:37:02 pm »
Thank you for your detailled report. Your husband can really be lucky to have such a wonderful, strong and caring wife. It so often happens that men start to neglect their wifes and start drinking, with all terrible consequences that stem from alcohol or drub abuse. In most cases the women leave because they can no longer bear the terrible behavior from drunken men. But the result is that the women are lonely afterwards and the men, without having any guidance or a shoulder to lean on, spiral deeper and deeper into the abyss until their life is totally ruined.

How much better if the wives take total control over their hubbies, guiding them back towards a decent life and preventing their ruin.

I think your example clearly shows that the New Age Lifestyle is not only beneficial for women, but for men, too. 
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« Reply #3 on: January 02, 2024, 03:02:26 pm »
Hello Amanda, nice to meet you, welcome to the forum. Brilliant introduction.
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« Reply #4 on: January 03, 2024, 04:03:41 am »
Hello Amandabull- a most intriguing story, with much left to be decided it looks like. 
You will find many strong women here, strong in many ways, to help you and give guidance as you ask for it, so feel free to talk with us about almost anything.
In meantime, I suggest you put in thought on whether you even feel your marriage is worth saving, and if so, on what terms .
It certainly sounds as if you need to take charge, which will require thought, effort, and patience among other things to make this work.
You can certainly accomplish all thus, and I wish you the best of luck here.
Miss ATT

[Thanks MissATT,
Yes, I still have to decide lots of things in my marriage, it is one of the reasons I posted here that I would like to discuss with other strong women but since everyone here has female names I donít know whoís the woman and whoís a sissy man.

About your question I want to keep him, I like the idea of having submissive husband in the house but I am not really into feminising him or at least not yet.]
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Re: How my husband becomes my maid
« Reply #5 on: January 03, 2024, 04:04:50 am »
Hello Amanda, nice to meet you, welcome to the forum. Brilliant introduction.
[Thanks Adeline]
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« Reply #6 on: January 03, 2024, 04:08:15 am »
Thank you for your detailled report. Your husband can really be lucky to have such a wonderful, strong and caring wife. It so often happens that men start to neglect their wifes and start drinking, with all terrible consequences that stem from alcohol or drub abuse. In most cases the women leave because they can no longer bear the terrible behavior from drunken men. But the result is that the women are lonely afterwards and the men, without having any guidance or a shoulder to lean on, spiral deeper and deeper into the abyss until their life is totally ruined.

How much better if the wives take total control over their hubbies, guiding them back towards a decent life and preventing their ruin.

I think your example clearly shows that the New Age Lifestyle is not only beneficial for women, but for men, too.
[Thanks. Right now with my new job and back to my old self I donít need him actually he is the one whoís relying on me completely]
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« Reply #7 on: January 03, 2024, 07:04:13 am »
Welcome to the forum!

It seems to me that your husband was attracted to you when you were sporty, and the attraction disappeared when you tried to be a more conventional wife. Maybe he was always submissive by nature, but couldnít bring himself to tell you.
Now is the time to take firm control. Stop his drinking. Perhaps instead of going to the pub he should come to watch you wrestle. Then he will come understand your power, and I bet it reinvigorates his attraction to you.

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« Reply #8 on: January 03, 2024, 08:30:17 am »
I think youíre right bonzodou. You just put on words what I have been thinking about. I think because heís a shy person he couldnít tell me that.

Honestly I hope this is the case and hopefully it will work so it will be win win situation for both of us. Heís interested in my new work and asking a lot of questions about it I know for sure that heís happy with money Iím making but maybe with other things as well. I am taking him with me today
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« Reply #9 on: January 03, 2024, 09:29:45 am »
Hello Amandabull. Thank you for the insights into your FLR. Are you thinking of sissified maid. Diet and only femme clothes. Throwing away ALL the male clothes. That would restrict going out and being a drunk.

Good luck with your wonderful new life  :-*
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« Reply #10 on: January 03, 2024, 10:04:20 am »
Love the progress and direction she is taking her sissy!
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« Reply #11 on: January 03, 2024, 12:04:22 pm »
Thank you all for your nice welcoming. Like I posted earlier today here I took my husband or ex husband to the session today. Today I had two matches both are competitive matches. Usually we have two types of matches either fancy match where the opponent doesnít attack only try to avoid us, or competitive matches where the opponent can attack and the fight is competitive and real. However, my boss always try to assign me to the competitive ones to use my size and strength. So, he was helping me putting my clothes on, I looked at him and said I want you to put on your clothes quickly now because I am taking you with me. He dropped his jaws asked me why I have to go? I told him donít worry you will not fight, anyway youíre too weak to do so, but I want you there as my assistant.
Anyway when we arrived I introduced him to my boss and the other ladies, all of them were happy to see him and kind of making fun of his size and body because they know that weíre not on good terms. He was really shocked from seeing my body and how big my muscles become when I put oil on my body.

I stepped on the mat and he did as I instructed him came from my behind and took off my robe. My opponent was a man quite old in his late 50s, although heís a big guy my size but he wasnít so strong. So, it was kind of an easy match for me as the guy tapped out after 25 minutes and it was match from one side only. However, I lifted him many times which left my husband stunned.
During my break he told me that he is in shock from my strength I laughed and told him you havenít seen half of my strength yet. It was the time for my other match, but this time it was against a young man 25 years old 6.2 and around 200lbs. He was quite muscular as well. When my husband saw him he approached me and asked are you really gonna fight him or this is a fancy wrestling I told him no thisís a competitive he said youíre not scared? I laughed and told him I am not scared and thisís my job. So, similar to the previous he followed me into the mat took off my rob and shoes, since my opponent this time didnít have any custom preferences. It was so obvious that my opponent is coming to prove that no woman can take him because his friends were watching. Unlucky to me my husband was watching so I had to win, I have no other option I want to show my husband my real power and need to demonstrate it on who ever is against me. The match started and I was bit nervous and stressed, so at the beginning of the match my opponent had the upper hand, then I looked at my husband and I remembered how he used to neglect me and what I have gone through, I remembered that many important things is on the stick right now, I wanted to show him how strong I am I wanted him to fear and to know that I can take on men way way stronger than him. So, after terrible 15 minutes, I gained my focus again and felt a power in my body and muscles that have never felt like it before. I lifted and threw this 200lbs guy like a small kid no one could believe what happened. No one believed his eyes how I was able to control this guy and how he couldnít get out from my holds. My husband look were absolutely priceless. The match continued for one hour. My opponent didnít tab so we had to go on point basis which I had the advantage on by far.

My boss was a little upset because I was so aggressive towards my opponent. Anyway my husband all the way back he was just looking at my biceps while driving and saying youíre unbelievable.
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« Reply #12 on: January 03, 2024, 05:47:04 pm »
This is just so great!
Now is the time to press home your advantage.
If you hug him close, letting feel a little of your strength, and tell him that you love him, but you want to take control in the marriage, he will not be able to resist, and you will have crossed an important bridge.
Itís then up to you take whatever steps you wish to make him the husband (or male wife!) you wish him to be.
He may offer token resistance, but he doesnít really mean it. This is what he wants.

Great to have you on the forum, and please keep us all current with developments!
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« Reply #13 on: January 04, 2024, 05:40:15 am »
Thanks. He is so scared of me right now. I can do whatever I want with him especially that I control him financially also. Anyway what do you mean by man wife?
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« Reply #14 on: January 04, 2024, 06:57:22 am »
Oh just that he starts to fill the role that a wife did in a historic conventional marriage. Household chores, cooking, cleaning, laundry. Making himself pretty, sweet and supportive to the breadwinner of the houseÖ
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