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The question being, "Do you think you would make him more feminine. As part of the controlling of him?"

As stated he is so scared he will be open to any suggestions. It doesn't matter if you want just a weak and compliant male. But we sissies get curious.

As a Superior member of society, you are allowed control. Male wife is a spectrum. From a general house cleaner, cook and bottle washer. To completely feminised maid. Chucked as Superiors have needs

Apologies if this may overstep any marks

 

I want to control him and I want him submissive but I don’t want to feminise him

Very nice situation that you have.  My beloved wife (of 50 plus yrs.) made me her sissy maid shortly after we met.  She is a tall, big boned lady who is a country girl in her raising and her heart.  I was a skinny 5' 8" 160lb. guy who played flute and loved to read a lot.  Before we were married, she and I  played a little bit in D/S with bondage.  I was always the "female" and she loved to dress me up and put me in bondage.  I found that I loved this!  We got married with the understanding that I was submissive to her and we developed it into me being her "sissy slave".
We think that men should worry about pleasing their women and being supportive in letting women work, while men stay home and be the "wife".

I think a humbler is a wonderful invention.  Properly applied a man can be rendered powerless but useful (there is no point in keeping a man who cant be made useful0  While he cant do general housework you will always know where he is and his hands are free to do things like preparing vegitables,  cleaning and polishing things such as boots and shoes.   Orally pleasing visitors.  If your boy friend is feeling randy but you are not ready to use him then your husband can be put in the bathroom in his humbler and he can be made to pleasure a visitor. If you are out with friends for a meal you can just step out and lock the door knowing knowing your enslaved husband is quite safe and secure   

Hi Miss Amanda, how are things progressing with your attempt to make your husband more submissive? I am sure tharpt we would all love to have a progress report, and even, if it suits you both maybe “the story so far” from his POV.

I for one love to hear how a man travels the road to submissiveness and sissidom.