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« on: December 17, 2023, 05:48:46 am »
Hello to all of you
I am a new member and would like to introduce myself. My name is Suzanne and I am in the process of establishing a regime of strict petticoat discipline. Some short time ago I discovered that my husband had been unfaithful and also had what I then thought was a minor crossdressing fetish. Over time it became obvious that  he was a natural submissive, and as I began to implement the new regime I realised that I found the process of dominating him both fascinating and exciting. I have learned a great deal to date, but I am aware that I am still a relative novice. I would love to hear from any other petticoat discipline enthusiasts in a similar situation who may have guidance to offer.

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« Reply #1 on: December 17, 2023, 06:32:27 am »
Welcome SusieP

Lots of Superiors here to assist. Also loads of silly femme sissy types too.

Enjoy.  :-*
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« Reply #2 on: December 17, 2023, 09:11:45 am »
Curtsy. Hello Susie. Nice to meet you, welcome. Petticoating is very suitable discipline for husbands like yours. I’m sure you’ll get lots of inspiration from the superiors here. In time please write about how you deal with him.
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« Reply #3 on: December 17, 2023, 10:11:59 am »
I find the FLR lifestyle and feminizing my husband Is the best possible world!  How can I help?
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« Reply #4 on: December 17, 2023, 10:54:13 am »
Hello and welcome Suzanne, to this website and what could be one of the best decisions you could have made regarding your relationship. You've come to the right place. You'll find lots of information and others to help you as you evolve, navigate, and progress along your desired path.

Maybe if you gave us more information about your current regime, progress, and what you hope to establish, we can be more helpful. I'm betting you've now learned (or will soon learn) with your submissive, there really isn't a "minor" crossdressing fetish. The more you explore, the deeper and more intense I bet you will find his fetish. This also applies to his submissive nature. Leverage them both. Keep it up, as you explore and enjoy the pleasure and benefits of dominating him. It is fascinating, exciting and very empowering, at least it was in my experience.
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« Reply #5 on: December 17, 2023, 11:33:52 am »
Welcome SuzieP,

You have found a great place to discuss the journey you and your misbehaved husband are on.

What steps are you taking to address his unfortunate infidelity to prevent future violations?  Have you looked at the selection of male chastity locks available?

I am in a metal cage under the authority of my Wife.  While I have not been unfaithfully engaging with other women, we both agree that we do not want any risk of it happening ever.  Honestly my biggest misbehavior has been frequently playing with myself and wearing the cage prevents me from this kind of naughtyness also.

My recommendation would be to begin by forever denying him access to his own male equipment that was at the center of the trust violation.  Control absolutely that one little bit of him and then you will discover that you also got control over the rest of him.
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« Reply #6 on: December 17, 2023, 12:39:07 pm »
<curtsey> Ms. Suzanne, Welcome! It's always wonderful to hear directly from Superior Women here. I think these links were posted a while back by Patti re: old issues of Petticoat Discipline Quarterly.

Respectfully, sissy gina
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https://web.archive.org/web/20071023055032/http://www.petticoated.com/contentsW05.html

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https://web.archive.org/web/20071027123715/http://www.petticoated.com/PDQ.hogmanay.06.html

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https://web.archive.org/web/20071009213133/http://www.petticoated.com/
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« Reply #7 on: December 17, 2023, 12:54:58 pm »
Welcome from me also, Suzanne Ma’am. Your plan to “punish” your husband for his infidelity is totally justified, but as he has crossdressing and submissive tendencies, maybe he may  see your scheme to apply strict petticoat discipline as more of pleasure than punishment. I’m no expert in this at all, and fortunately you will receive plenty of excellent advice from more experienced contributors to this site. What I can say is that crossdressing pleasures are one thing: permanent feminisation with long time responsibilities for all housework and other “wifely” duties are likely to be far less desirable.

Anyway, good luck Suzanne, however it works out with your wayward husband.
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« Reply #8 on: December 17, 2023, 04:35:51 pm »
Thank you all so much for your initial welcome. For a relatively young wife to decide to implement a regime of strict petticoat discipline is a hard decision to make. Deteriorating marriage, being taken for granted by a husband who increasingly embarrassed me by his flirtatious behaviour with my female friends. It was intolerable, and when I discovered his infidelity and cross dressing fetish I had to either walk away or take control. I knew next to nothing about female led marriage but read extensively. Via the excellent blog of Mistress Scarlet I found the archives of petticoated.com and knew exactly how I would take control. Supported by my husband's stepmother I confronted him with two choices. He could accept a regime of very strict petticoat discipline or be exposed to his friends as a crossdressing fetishist. I did not enjoy making this threat and had no intention of carrying it out, but the result was most satisfactory. He broke down in tears and I took no notice whatsoever. From this starting point and with endless support from Marion (his stepmother) the regime is slowly being established. I will happily provide details of what we have done, and of what we propose to do though I. am uncertain about which section of the site to post the account in - please advise me. My husband's crossdressing fetish was not a minor issue. It slowly became apparent that he was naturally a total submissive and to my surprise I found myself thrilled to be exercising a dominant role. It is possible that from the disaster of our marriage a new and more exciting relationship will be forged. I will read and seriously consider any useful advice and intend to provide regular updates of our progress. I claim no particular expertise but I am determined to exercise total control of my husband . I thank you all again in anticipation.
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« Reply #9 on: December 17, 2023, 07:03:55 pm »
Really proud of you and your determination!   Everyone involved will be better for it!
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« Reply #10 on: December 17, 2023, 08:15:00 pm »
Many women would not have put up with infidelity like your husband's. Maybe taking advantage of your husband's fetish for feminine clothing, you can feminize him with the discipline of petticoats and turn him into a person who respects you as a woman and you become the one who takes control. I am very happy for your decision.
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« Reply #11 on: December 19, 2023, 06:14:01 am »
Hello and welcome Suzanne,

My name is Sue, I’m sure that you can find very useful information here and many people who can support you during your journey.
I can totally understand your feeling about enjoying playing the dominant role. When my bf told me about submissive fetish and I started taking control I was so excited and I knew that this’s exactly what I am looking for and the type of relationship I want to be in. Always remember that FLR is two way road you need to control and weaken him but at the same time free and strength yourself.

If you have any questions I am here to offer my support.
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« Reply #12 on: December 21, 2023, 07:25:23 am »
Hi Suzanne,

I am also relatively new and not so experienced like the other members here, but maybe I can give a little hint. As far as I have learned up to know in case of unfaithful husbands or boyfriends chastity is very useful, if not absolutely necessary.

Chastity effectively prevents him from being unfaithful in the future. And you have a good argument that he cannot deny. He was unfaithful in the past, so he will probably unfaithful in the future. This is impossible for you to accept so there is no other choice than him being put in chastity.

And chastity has a lot of other beneficial effects on males.

So my humble suggestion would be to put him in panties and then in chastity. And then you can train him to become a faithful and good husband.

Btw: It's always great to see that women are no longer putting up with inappropriate male behavior but take the lead and starting a FLR. 
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« Reply #13 on: December 21, 2023, 11:03:24 am »
I agree entirely!!
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« Reply #14 on: December 21, 2023, 04:40:27 pm »
Welcome MS. Suzanne   Just an observation from an observer.   Humiliation by petticoat discipline and exposure to other women beside you and Ms Marion are indispensable     thanks    sandy
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