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Cheryl1

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Toxic disobedient son
« on: March 05, 2023, 10:50:05 pm »
Hi i am new here and need some help with my 9 year old son’s behaviour
I am divorced because my ex husband was violent and drank every day
My son appears to have picked up some of his fathers toxic male behaviour patterns
My little daughter is 5 years old and had her birthday party on the weekend
And he just ruined the whole thing just abusing my daughter and broke her dolly which I bought for her birthday
He just mocked her all day
Am at my wits end just don’t know what to do anymore about this aggression and male behaviour
Just want to get him to be feminine and beautiful like my daughter Appreciate any suggestions

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« Reply #1 on: March 06, 2023, 07:14:23 am »
Ms. Cheryl, i am so sorry to hear that. One thought is if you have a long break where your son won't be in school for a week (spring break) tell him he's grounded, no friends, and take away all of his toys/games and tell him he needs to experience the full week as a gurl so he behaves better and learns his bad behavior has no place in your household or society. He will object and say horrible things but be strong and after a while without playing his games he will relent. (It's important to know that what you are doing is a gift, it's good, it's positive, it's right. It's not punishment it's helping him be a better person). If you need to be more extreme remove all of his clothes and only have girl clothes to wear  he will relent after a while
 When you show him his panties, skirt etc he will reject it. Ask him why. He'll say it's girls clothes and he's a boy. What's wrong with girls clothes. He'll go on about how girls are weak etc. Well you're a woman does he think you're weak and inferior. He will feel shy and say no because you are his mother. Tell him it's not his fault that he thinks this way but it's wrong and hurtful and you love him and want to help him. Now be a good boy and put these on. As he's getting dressed remove all of his boy clothes. Remind him it's only for a few days. When he's dressed compliment him. Make him feel great feminization should be positive, it shouldn't be humiliating or degrading. Have your daughter be positive towards her new sister as well. Tell him in order to earn back a priveledge he needs to write a one page paper on why women are strong and the unfair treatment they have received for a thousands of years. Have him research the percentage of women graduating med school, law school, to show him female leadership is the future
 Have him read his paper to you and your daughter out loud. I bet you will see his behavior change quite a bit. Have him help you around the house. Call him mommy's little helper, your sweet boy which eventually will become your sweet little princess. Have him next to you as you put on makeup and ask if he would like to try some on and make him admire his pretty look in the mirror. The more caring and positive the experience the more he will crave it. You are a single mom with two kids which means you are amazing, strong, and Powerful. You are doing the right thing for your son, and even for your daughter who will see the result of loving female leadership. I wish you great success and happiness Ms. Cheryl. Thank you 
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« Reply #2 on: March 07, 2023, 04:48:49 am »
Hello Cheryl1,

Welcome to the forum. Sounds like you have your hands full. Recognizing that your son’s behavior is caused by his toxic masculinity is positive step in solving the issue. There are some important things to understand up front that is critical to success. Having a plan and when possible, a good support system is critical to be success. Your son’s behavior is not your fault or his. No doubt your ex’s behavior rubs off on your son, there are probably bad influence from school or sports teams too. Stopping these influences should be part of your plan. It is important to understand that boys are very natural feminine, unfortunately society teaches boys to free femininity and be repulsed by it.   

Please feel free to respond here or reach out to me via DM to discuss more.

Chris
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« Reply #3 on: April 02, 2023, 05:40:06 pm »
As i was 7, i mocked my older sister and also annoyed her. Sometimes she cry too. I made not my homework for school and made a lot nonsens. My mom was very angry about me and i laugh about her talks. As she told me - stopp this or i will treat you in an other way. I thinked she talk only. But she bring me to my grandparents in holiday. I doesn´t know that my granny was a fan of petticoating. Well, also a fan of diaper discipline. To wear dresses and a diaper, that was a true punishment - but as i was at home, i had to wear dresses and diapers for a long time. But it healed me.

As i was in little girls clothings and diapers again - my sister (now my aunt) told me - you know that you belong treat as a very little girl - and that was last week and i know - my new aunt talk about my sissy baby life with my real mom

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« Reply #4 on: April 05, 2023, 03:34:00 pm »
nonsense!

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« Reply #5 on: April 05, 2023, 05:20:56 pm »
Hello and Welcome Cheryl1. Nice to meet you. You definitely seem to have a problematic Son. Did you find suggestions to help correct him and is there any progress you wish to share?

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« Reply #6 on: April 13, 2023, 11:44:35 am »
You may find a change of diet for your son helpful.

Substitute soy milk for dairy, and soya for meat.
Give him berries and seeds for snacks as an alternative to sugar.

Eliminating meat from his diet will reduce his harmful testosterone intake, while soy, seeds and berries will improve his estrogen levels.

This should result in less aggressive 'masculine' type behaviour.

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« Reply #7 on: April 13, 2023, 11:55:25 am »
If you apply the 'carrot and stick' approach that will also help modify his behaviour.

If you are disapproving and cold when he acts in a masculine manner, and loving and approving when he is sweet and obedient, he will quickly learn to behave in the way you want.

It would also be helpful to encourage your daughter to follow your lead. When it is clear that in your household girls take precedence over boys, he will start to become more feminine. Boys all secretly want their mother's approval, and if he comes to realize that this is forthcoming when he does the housework, defers to his sister and is sweet and obedient with you, that is how he will be!

One method is to give him choices, for example in what he wears. If you give him a choice of blue baggy shorts or tight pink ones, appear upset and disappointed if he opts for the masculine shorts, and affectionate and supportive of the pink choice. He will soon learn, even without you dictating, that the way to your heart is by embracing a more feminine approach.
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« Reply #8 on: April 13, 2023, 12:23:39 pm »
The critical thing is to remove masculine influences from his life. Sign him up for classes where the teacher is a Woman, preferably a feminist, misandrist or a Lesbian. Ensure that his extra curricular activities are ones where girls predominate - ballet, yoga, Pilates -  while forbidding activities such as football, basketball or baseball. Allow your daughter to have girl friends round to your house often, while never allowing him to have boys, only girls. Encourage all of these girls to adopt a dismissive attitude towards males, referencing their smell, hairiness and how they only want to do disgusting things to girls.

Enlist the assistance of other Women - family or friends, especially those that didn’t like your ex. Sign him up to do holiday jobs at their houses. In general he will find it harder to resist becoming obedient to them.

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« Reply #9 on: April 13, 2023, 01:27:43 pm »
Hi Cheryl,

Is your son circumcised?  If not then it might be the perfect time to clean him up down there and make it clear that he’s in a woman’s world.  If he already is then most likely there is still some loose skin and the procedure can be repeated to tighten up.  Let him know that this needs to be done routinely for males due to their birth defect.  The wrinkles and folds in the skin trap bacteria which can infect a future female partner.

Girls, being superior of course need no such modification.

It's very good idea. Showing him that a woman can control and "modify" his private parts at any time will teach him to respect and fear women. Males are very proud of their genitals, they need to be shown that women have the right to decide about them
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« Reply #10 on: April 13, 2023, 01:53:02 pm »
Toriana is quite right that males are absurdly proud of their male defect, whereas they should be feeling shame. Home schooled extra Gynobiology lessons should educate your boy about the inherent superiority of the perfect XX, and the genetic error that is XY; the toxic impact of the poison testosterone; and the natural disgust most Women feel for the male's 'pride'. In particular when his defect becomes erect, he must immediately report it to the senior Woman present, with an explanation of what he was thinking at the time, and an apology for such aberrant behaviour.
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« Reply #11 on: April 13, 2023, 02:24:49 pm »
Toriana is quite right that males are absurdly proud of their male defect, whereas they should be feeling shame. Home schooled extra Gynobiology lessons should educate your boy about the inherent superiority of the perfect XX, and the genetic error that is XY; the toxic impact of the poison testosterone; and the natural disgust most Women feel for the male's 'pride'. In particular when his defect becomes erect, he must immediately report it to the senior Woman present, with an explanation of what he was thinking at the time, and an apology for such aberrant behaviour.

I totally agree. I never understood how a piece of meat hanging between your legs and two eggs in a leather bag covered in nasty hair could be a symbol of pride.
An **** is a disgusting phenomenon. When this thing starts to swell and stick out, it's even grosser and grotesque. When this happens to a young male in the presence of an older and mature female, he should explain himself and apologize
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« Reply #12 on: April 13, 2023, 02:32:10 pm »
One of the key tenets of the New Age Lifestyle is turning male pride into shame.
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« Reply #13 on: April 13, 2023, 02:33:01 pm »
One of the key tenets of the New Age Lifestyle is turning male pride into shame.

beautiful words

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« Reply #14 on: April 13, 2023, 02:51:20 pm »
Thanks!
Sorry about misspelling your name earlier. Spellcheck!
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