Here is some advice from a married Woman named Lisa, from the Quora Site:
Should I ask my husband to shave his legs and wear stockings and pantyhose for me?Yes why not, but I would first ask him to wear panties and then explain how it would excite you greatly and I think he would do that for you to make you happy, once you have that organised and he is getting used to wearing panties at night in bed with you give it a week or two and then suggest he wears stockings or pantyhose.
But I suggest you let him see in stockings suspenders often, make him see how sexy they are on you and if he says anything just say “Jealous” I will get you some also so you don't have to be “Jealous”
So do not mention shaving yet get him to wear them first and then suggests just how sexy for you it would be if his legs were clean-shaven and would make the feeling that you love to feel on him more exciting and desirable, and if he wants to please you and to make you happy then you want to shave his legs.
Remember don't mention shaving in the beginning, that will come later just get him used to panties then as I say move onto stockings in no time you get him used to wearing them make it a game as part of your love making in bed in the beginning and then gradually get rid of his boxers and replace them with nice comfortable panties not thongs as they not suit men so comfortable satin silky lacy panties make sure they have that little bow or flower on the front.
After you make him a sissy you I'll find him a much calmer nicer person… the world is your oyster and you can go on and on don't rush it take your time and get him to like them. Get him to enjoy them but you have to reward him so you will have to make it more exciting for him, get him to do it because it makes you happy and you love him so much and he feels so silky.
So if he does as you ask all the best I'd like to know how you get on
Lisa
If you have a sissy husband/boyfriend, how is your home life? Also, what are your best and worst experiences?Well I have a sissy husband, and a full sissy in that I mean feminized submissive.
Our home life is almost perfect, we are really girlfriends and his name is Susan his choice, as soon as Susan comes home from work he changes immediately into his female attire he is a woman from then on in the home, we are like two girls not lesbians but girls living together,
So in dressing I help him to choose his clothes I have everything laid out in his own bedroom for him he has a beautiful bedroom it's a very feminine design and feminine touches nice fluffy cushions in pink he loves pink most girls associate pink, and he has a large selection of beautiful lingerie and some lovely skirts knee length and mini and nice dresses he has some wigs and all the attire to change from male into his real self a female.
Our few very close friends know and are comfortable coming to visit to the house and they are just happy to blend in with Susan and he doesn't mind and sometimes he just gets on with what he's doing while we have a chat and coffee sometimes he will join in like a girl talk girly stuff.
There was one embarrassing moment when he was fully dressed and I was talking at the front door to somebody and he passed behind, and have the person I was talking to at the door say I know you got visitors is that your sister and I said no I said just a friend come to stay for a few days it was just a little bit embarrassing for Susan more so than for me and that I assured him that there's no problem which there wasn't
We enjoy each other's company and I love him some nights while we're watching TV I will paint his nails and his toenails whatever color he chooses while we're watching the TV he would lie back and put his feet up on my lap and I will paint his nails for him and compliment him on how feminine he looks and that he's my best gurlfriend and such a good gurl.
Occasionally I will when in the mood go to his bedroom at night to tuck him in and kiss him goodnight and if I feel that he's a little bit
**** and I can guess that by what he's wearing in bed and I will then put my hand down to check, I will make sure that he is comfortable and I would help him to have a climax I will just help him by kissing him and telling him what a good gurl he is …. In no time he would have a lovely cum and that's it, and it's something we both enjoy as for me well I have Cuckolded him.
I have the occasional lover but nothing permanent I am not getting involved with other men but when I feel like I need to be f***** I will and he knows and I would hide nothing from him. So very occasionally I'll have a friend to stay overnight. He will hear my visitor make me orgasm loud which I know he enjoys because he wants me to be happy, I know it excites him he fully supports me and my love affairs not really affairs as I don't let them go on that long it's just to get some pleasure from now and then… so basically we enjoy life very much and he is such a sissy, we enjoy the cuckolding and he accepts to been a be sissy male almost fully feminized