Hi, following on from what Ms Sissyswife is advising, just be careful to find a balance between showing that you wish to serve her, be obedient and subservient and smothering her with the subject. My experience here is that this is a difficult path to navigate when your partner is interested but only to a limited extent and if you push things too far it will all fall down and you will be very sorry or mournful. The most important part is ensuring that you do not appear to demand or try to be in control. On the one hand we say we want to serve but then appear to be driving the agenda and it has to be driven by your wife/partner at the pace and to the extent that she is comfortable and happy with or it will not work.