Marcy, my wife’s take on the subject of having an appendage is that it is there purely to remind me that I am her sissy maid and not a female in any way shape or form. It doesn’t need to have another function whatsoever. I know she is right and never thought of myself in any other terms than just being a sissy, and made for serving her. I do daydream sometimes about what it would be like to really be female but I also am reminded that if I really was, we would not be together and the type of clothing that I love would be quite different and I probably would have no desire to serve. I suppose it’s my wife’s way of reminding me that it was me that began the journey to where we are today. She was originally (like many others) taken by surprise at my desire to become her personal maid although she has known about and shared my interest in crossdressing from the outset. I expect many of us wish for things to be different or for more of something or less of something else. I guess we just have to make the most of what we have and enjoy it as much as possible.