Thank you Ms Patti
It is a very big step. When first suggested to me, I cringed. I then said of course I would serve lunch and be in serving mode, but asked if I could do so in my male clothes. My wife’s friend already knows I am an excellent cook and very attentive with guests. I was told NO. I asked if one of my housekeeping uniforms was ok to wear. It’s black flats, black tights, black hotel style housekeeping dress with a full white cotton bib apron. I was told NO. Then: “I want her to see you as you really are, in your pink frilly dress, petticoats, pink tights and heals, she needs to see you as a true sissy not some plain Jane. You will be impeccably well behaved and a perfect princess dressed like that”. Conversation over. Lunch to be arranged and I will be forever known as a sissy to her. Jokes have already been exchanged between them about whether her home might need an extra pair of hands to help with chores. All true.