New Age Lifestyle

Love it!  Keep me posted!

Looking forward to the day when this becomes a reality.

It is embarrassing to be married to a sissy.  I know I’ve caused us issues by my feminine aspects. I wish the world was different.   Our marriage is strong because we communicate well and look out for each other, we also want the best for each other and know authentic is always best.

You make an excellent point Sissy Tink. Many of our wives are shocked and embarrassed by our sissy tendencies and ultimately are ashamed of us as we do not fit the traditional picture of what a male is and should be about.
I have recently read the latest Janice C Parker book and she covers the subject quite well, affirming her shock and surprise when her husband first announced he wanted to be her maid and to serve her. She is one of a small group who has managed to adapt and take things to the level that is needed for it to be an accepted or acceptable way of living although by her own admission, she has not shared her changed circumstances and lifestyle with her mother and I expect  that is the ultimate standard. In our relationship, my wife prefers to keep things totally private. She enjoys the attention, the pampering, the cooking and the cleaning and how obedient and gentle I become when serving as her housemaid but I daresay that if I ask her she would admit that she would love to be served in the same way but by her partner in male mode and I daresay she finds it very difficult to really comprehend how and why her maid gains so much pleasure from serving her “en femme”. Relationships are varied and for some, the FLR as a package is shared with an overt sexual element. That is not the case in our relationship. My wife is not attracted sexually to her sissy maid, nor does she have any lesbian tendencies so even when role playing, that would be totally off limits. There is decorum at all times, maintaining the traditional and historical relationship between the lady of the house and her housemaid.
Our mistress and maid days are usually morning to noon affairs but yesterday the hours altered and I was on duty late afternoon and through the evening.That included cooking and serving dinner to my wife and she was a little taken aback when the table was laid and the whole meal was served just for her. She would have been happy to share the dinner table with her maid but I explained that my training forbade such a practice and that I would arrange for my evening meal later in the evening after I had completed my duties and been dismissed. It was a delight to see her enjoying her meal and having the kitchen totally cleaned afterwards etc so that she could just sit in the armchair and wait for the maid to provide a foot treatment after making up the fire. The difficult part is sharing what it is that the maid gets out of the whole scenario. I guess that is something that is only understood by like minded individuals or someone well versed in psychology 

Maybe it's because we love, adore and admire women and their beauty and femininity so much that we want to be so close to them and be a part of their world and enjoy the emotional and sartorial freedom they have which we males are denied and our desire to serve her represents our deepest love and dedication.

Well after female liberation from patriarchal control it might be that it's now males that need freedom from it too.

Petula, you mentioned in your June posting that your “Mistress/maid” relationship had extended into the evening the day before you posted, and that your wife enjoyed being pampered for the evening meal. Has this now become the norm or was just a one-off?

Priscilla,
I can’t say it is the norm as such but we make room for mistress and maid time when and where we can fit it in to our activities. We have builders in at the moment and they are here early in the morning until late afternoon. Only in fantasy land would I be made to dress and serve them meals and generally look after their welfare; therefore no mistress & maid time during the day right now. Earlier in the week though my wife was going to her regular ballroom dancing evening and just before she went, she kind of joked that when she arrives home at around 10-00 pm as well as her usual cup of tea and a snack, I should be there to greet her and standing to attention. That could only mean one thing really and so instead of spending the evening idling my time away, I dressed accordingly, completed some household chores and was the dutiful maid when she arrived home. It was a very pleasant couple of hours before bedtime and as well as a foot massage, I helped with her nighttime bathroom rituals and dressed her ready for bed. Before she retired for the night, I was rewarded with 12 of the best from her wooden clothes brush and had to repeat back my mistakes and misdemeanours that had occurred during the time spent serving her. I was then dismissed for the night and after attending to my own ablutions, I spent the night in the spare room as it did not seem right to be sharing the bed with my mistress although that was not her wish although I’m sure she appreciated the relative peace and quiet without any snoring next to her.
Next on duty time will be Sunday morning when she will expect something special for breakfast…I love cooking, so that is no problem although sometime a challenge to come up with something that tickles her fancy.

Petula, you are a gleaming role model to all sissies on how to serve their Mistress.