Thanks ladies for all your encouragement! Lots of wonderful ideas; I'm already on top of a few of them. For example, for some time I have only allowed girly items in the shower/bath; these include lovely scented soaps, women's shampoo and conditioner, and billie (subscription) shaver and shave gel. Oh, also love Lume deodorant; lasts forever and has such pretty scents (peony rose and lavender sage); developed for women as a whole body deodorant by a gynecologist (...haven't mentioned that part to Danni...). On the rare occasions Danni makes a comment about how flowery or perfumey the scents are I just go: "Oh please just grow up, there's nothing wrong with smelling nice!" I've decided that Danni now has to take care of all the laundry in the house (s.he has been trained to take care of h.er own clothes for quite some time); since I need to prevent f*ckups with my clothes, additional training has been necessary (temperatures, separating fabrics/colors, delicate cycle, softener, etc.). We have already started and this will become a good training opportunity for Danni to spend lots more time on domestic chores in the laundry room, especially handling and folding of blouses, tights, panties, bras, nighties, etc. Will move on to ironing soon as well! I like my undies folded in specific ways; for example, panties rolled and folded so they fit neatly in my drawer, bras clipped and straps and bands folded in so they can be tucked neatly together. I think keeping h.er mind focused on handing and folding a dozen pairs of panties and bras a few times a week will work wonders softening h.er up! I can add lots of encouragement there. I've also been making a point of parading around the house in just a t-shirt and panties (it's hot where we live, so always an excuse to dress lightly); just trying reinforce how cute and practical panties are. I've also "mixed up" a few pairs of white panties with Danni's boxers and briefs, so we'll see where that leads. Looking forward to the day when s.he is a sweet little doll: fully shaved, tucked, pantied, perfumed and filling out a pretty bra! Ha; well that's a long road ahead. Anyway, fun to post my progress here, and thanks again for all your sweet posts!