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VanessaR

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Newly Committed to FLR
« on: September 28, 2023, 05:02:54 pm »
Hi:
I just started to post a few days ago about how excited I was to find this site, and how I intended to start moving ahead with feminization of my SO (I'll refer to h.er here as Danni). Patti and sandy were so sweet and encouraging in their messages to me right after I joined! Anyway, I just decided its time to get rid of all disgusting male stuff and remake the home environment into something pretty and pleasing to me. Panties and hair removal are the first important steps of course, but (in my case anyway) I have to move slowly at this stage with continued encouragement, so Danni comes to feel like the look and feel of panties and smooth skin are just totally natural, and more importantly, what I want.  I've starting some online shopping to get the ball rolling and thought I'd share some selections; remember, these are the first baby steps, so nothing wildly girly. I did decide to include some cute sleep shorts as well, because I want h.er to get into the habit of changing before bedtime (deliciously thinking of babydolls in the future, but one step at a time...). Jockey SuperSoft cotton bikinis are my everyday panties, so I have a few pics of those (simple white and some cute blues); I also love shopping on HerRoom, and have attached pics of some cute sleep shorts (I'll be wearing the pink ones initially and encouraging Danni to try the others; after all they look just like "boxers" LOL).
So...not much really to report yet about "Successes", but hope to do so soon!
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Re: Newly Committed to FLR
« Reply #1 on: September 28, 2023, 06:46:59 pm »
Good starts!
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Re: Newly Committed to FLR
« Reply #2 on: September 29, 2023, 03:20:34 pm »
Dear Vanessa, please consider the joy and added humiliation of In store shopping. Taking your sissy shopping and having her\him try on and model for you is a pleasure for you as well as a lesson in humiliation for her.
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Re: Newly Committed to FLR
« Reply #3 on: September 29, 2023, 04:18:15 pm »
@VanessaR Curtsey, and wanted to say congrats on Your decision, You will not regret it! So happy for You and Your future sissy and look forward to all the updates on the progress.

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« Reply #4 on: September 29, 2023, 05:10:08 pm »
Lady V     So proud of your authoritative beginning    Dani is such a lucky ,um , guy     sandy
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« Reply #5 on: September 30, 2023, 07:14:19 pm »
Vanessa, you are off to a good start for sure. I might suggest going at your pace, but also do not be afraid to go faster as Danni becomes more used to things.
Good luck!
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Re: Newly Committed to FLR
« Reply #6 on: October 02, 2023, 08:58:32 am »
Hello!
Just another voice in the choir wishing you well!
I believe the encouragement side is better than the humiliation side.
Your positive comments about how happy you are about his looks.

For a next step, you may want to consider soaps, shampoo and deodorant that you are honestly enjoy.

I would think his clean shaven face is something you enjoy kissing.  Shaving his chest may mean that you enjoy kissing that area also.  Depending on his age, ear hair and nose hair will need to be plucked.  A few stray eyebrow hairs may need some attention.


Good look and please keep us informed on your progress and decisions.

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Re: Newly Committed to FLR
« Reply #7 on: October 02, 2023, 10:45:53 am »
Those shorts are so cute! Iím sure he will Ďloveí wearing those!
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Re: Newly Committed to FLR
« Reply #8 on: October 06, 2023, 08:52:00 am »
I applaud your decision to fem Danni and believe that he will be much happier once he realizes that it is inevitable.  Impose your will slowly, and like the lobster boiled in a pot,  he will be femmed before he even realizes what happened!  Once you get him into the bra, you will have won.
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« Reply #9 on: October 06, 2023, 10:21:49 am »
Thatís how I proceeded.  Slow and steady!  Giving him options and choices !  But the choices are between two degrees of feminist!  Once a hurdle was crossed then that is the new norm..
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« Reply #10 on: October 12, 2023, 04:09:08 pm »
Thanks ladies for all your encouragement! Lots of wonderful ideas; I'm already on top of a few of them. For example, for some time I have only allowed girly items in the shower/bath; these include lovely scented soaps, women's shampoo and conditioner, and billie (subscription) shaver and shave gel. Oh, also love Lume deodorant; lasts forever and has such pretty scents (peony rose and lavender sage); developed for women as a whole body deodorant by a gynecologist (...haven't mentioned that part to Danni...). On the rare occasions Danni makes a comment about how flowery or perfumey the scents are I just go: "Oh please just grow up, there's nothing wrong with smelling nice!"  I've decided that Danni now has to take care of all the laundry in the house (s.he has been trained to take care of h.er own clothes for quite some time); since I need to prevent f*ckups with my clothes, additional training has been necessary (temperatures, separating fabrics/colors, delicate cycle, softener, etc.). We have already started and this will become a good training opportunity for Danni to spend lots more time on domestic chores in the laundry room, especially handling and folding of blouses, tights, panties, bras, nighties, etc. Will move on to ironing soon as well! I like my undies folded in specific ways; for example, panties rolled and folded so they fit neatly in my drawer, bras clipped and straps and bands folded in so they can be tucked neatly together. I think keeping h.er mind focused on handing and folding a dozen pairs of panties and bras a few times a week will work wonders softening h.er up! I can add lots of encouragement there. I've also been making a point of parading around the house in just a t-shirt and panties (it's hot where we live, so always an excuse to dress lightly); just trying reinforce how cute and practical panties are. I've also "mixed up" a few pairs of white panties with Danni's boxers and briefs, so we'll see where that leads. Looking forward to the day when s.he is a sweet little doll: fully shaved, tucked, pantied, perfumed and filling out a pretty bra! Ha; well that's a long road ahead. Anyway, fun to post my progress here, and thanks again for all your sweet posts!
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« Reply #11 on: October 13, 2023, 10:26:54 am »
<curtsey> Ms. VanessaR, It sounds like You are going with "total immersion" 'therapy' approach. As per: "I think keeping h.er mind focused on handing and folding a dozen pairs of panties and bras a few times a week will work wonders softening h.er up!" Imagine how much more time danni will spend if required to hand wash all the delicates in the house, both his and Yours. Thank-You for your posts here, they are valuable.
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Re: Newly Committed to FLR
« Reply #12 on: October 13, 2023, 10:43:12 am »
My sweetie has to orally soak all of our panties before hand washing!
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Re: Newly Committed to FLR
« Reply #13 on: October 15, 2023, 11:56:21 am »
I do love the hand washing idea. And orally soaking, oh my  :o
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« Reply #14 on: October 15, 2023, 12:14:31 pm »
Ooh I now love my wash days separating the colours hand washing my delicates doing hubbies work clothes her boxers and work socks hubby likes to play with my bottom as I'm standing at the ironing board she say's I use to hate washing and ironing but she loves me doing her clothes now and teasing me as I iron
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