New Age Lifestyle

Hi. Well we travelled again for Thanksgiving, and this time I only packed panties and the cute sleep shorts. Jockey had been having some crazy sales, so I ordered a few more sets of the cotton bikinis but in pink/lavender and patterns and included those. Like some of the women here have said, it’s important to give a (budding) sissy choices, as long as all the choices lead deeper into feminization! Danni chose the whites to start but after some encouragement was wearing the new pastels by the end of the trip. Lovely. S.he admitted one day that s.he liked the way the undies felt and because they are less bulky than boxers, some of h.er tighter jeans actually fit better and are more comfortable. Can’t make this up! Also got h.er into the habit of changing into the sleep shorts before bed, to start ingraining the desire to change into something different (cuter of course) before lights out. Danni’s body hair is now a real hindrance, so I think this is an instance where I just may have to put my foot down. Any shared thoughts on how your sissies were eased (or accelerated) along this path would be appreciated. Thanks again for all the notes and encouragement!

Keeping body completely hair free is essential!  I also find making him use all feminine soaps and lotions and deodorants important!  He also follows my night time skin beauty routine!

Well, I thought I had uploaded a few posts and messages, but they seemed to have vanished somehow, so I'll try to provide some updates here. Danni is now wearing h.er cotton panties 24/7, and I did come up with a (mostly) non-threatening way to deal with the body hair issue. Basically I just asked h.er to trim all h.er body hair with my electric shaver (attachment trims down to a few mm) because I told h.er that the longish body hair was unsightly and tended to chafe me; importantly, I added that I had a wonderful surprise in store for h.er if s.he did a good job. This first step was completed over a few days with really no push back, because Danni didn't perceive it as "hair-removal". A few days later after I got home from work, I invited Danni into the shower, and pulled out a few cans of spray-on Veet (I pretty much hate that stuff because of the way it smells...but carried on in the interest of science!). Danni was taken aback at first, but once I started spraying my legs, s.he took the other can and followed my lead. We both helped each other with hard to reach places like backs of legs. Danni had to be instructed not to spray in the "bikini area" because as you all know it hurts like hell on sensitive skin. Anyway, after scraping and rinsing, it was pretty obvious that Danni was "excited" about the whole procedure.  As a result, I decided it was time to up the femme ante, and have purchased a set of very cute satin and lacy panties from Katie & Laura's for Christmas presents (they were also having a fantastic sale on a frilly pink satin robe, so had to get that as well). Once Danni experiences the feel of these with h.er new silky smooth skin, I firmly believe they'll be no going back. BTW, Danni is now included in my routine of applying scented lotion on legs and body after a shower; I've told h.er it's necessary to keep her skin supple and smooth and smelling nice. Danni did push back a bit and say s.he really didn't think a floral scent was appropriate for h.er, but s.he relented when I offered her "plain vanilla" (which smells just as pretty)! As others have often said, it's important that the little dears be provided with choices, as long as all of the choices lead more fully into submission and feminization! Oh, and Sissyswife - just love your suggestion about oral. I do have some tidbits to share in that regard, but have to run so will need to be on a later post (after the holidays)! XXXOOO everyone!

Finally have a little time to catch up on things, so I thought I’d post an update on Danni’s progress. I think I mentioned I had purchased some very pretty and frilly satin panties for Danni as Christmas presents along with a cute satin robe. I made sure to wait until late Christmas Eve after we’d both had a few glasses of wine and were nice and loosened up. I started with a few “normal” gifts for Danni (well the new normal), which included some light tanning cream (for h.er legs), body moisturizers, facial cream and a few blouses (not really that girly), and a few pairs of cute shorts and some tight jeans from Spanx (couldn’t resist a recent sale). Anyway, Danni had gotten me a nice perfume sampler, a few nighties, a pair of cute black strappy sandals, and a really beautiful necklace and earring set. Danni’s last present from me was of course the panties and robe. S.he was pretty embarrassed, blushing all over, but said they were lovely. Honestly, h.er reaction got me so hot, I told h.er she needed to change right away and I’d join h.er in a minute (I changed into one of my new nighties; just a cute cream-colored chemise really). Danni couldn’t stop running h.er hands over the silky robe and panties; s.he had really not felt anything like this since our hair removal session. I scooted right on top of h.er and started sliding and grinding, asking h.er if just loved h.er new presents. Danni just moaned and cooed, it was so cute. I should add that during lovemaking, I am always on top; it’s just so empowering for me to watch Danni’s face and body language as s.he totally submits to me, especially when I reward h.er by riding h.er little stiffy. This was the first time I was able to say “sweetie can you please pull down your panties for me?”; can’t explain it but I got just such a buzz of pleasure at that moment, and was really dripping wet. Danni tends to moan a little like a girl, which I like to encourage with my own, and tend to pitch up so s.he will follow. So satisfying and lovely to hear! Usually after men lose their load, they tend to lose interest and think it’s ok to turn away. I don’t stand for that behavior, and since I’m on top, I just slide forward and have Danni lick and suck away all h.er cummies; so pleasurable and cleansing. Afterwards, I can say that Danni is now much more interested in cuddling since h.er new outfit feels so wonderful on h.er smooth skin! Needless to say, since that evening, Danni has been wearing nothing but pretty satin panties. As it turns out, we are both the same size (7), and I’ve now told h.er it is ok to pick some of my undies after s.he finishes the laundry to see if s.he likes the different styles. Need to keep up experimentation and encouragement! I think someone had posted that they require their sissy to orally clean her panties before washing. Seemed a little extreme to me earlier, but might be a good way to encourage more submission as well as **** and panty love. I’m on it!

Is he orally cleaning your and his panties now?

I too only allow sis inside me if he is on the bottom and fully sissified!  If he “makes sissy “ before I am completely satisfied I just scoot right up and straddle his sweet lips so he can finish what he started…. 😀❤️

Thanks for your confirmation dear!

That’s so awesome!