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This is another GREAT Example of how a Woman can take Control from an arrogant husband, that cheated on her, and make the Relationship into a FLR and have Total Control over her man!   Yet another Role Model for Women to Seek Female Empowerment and male emasculation!

For Crossdresers. Did you ever get what you want then regret it later? I wanted my wife to force crossdress me and now a week later I don't want it any more. I am permanently locked into sissy outfits and maids outfits and lingerie and heels.

I did not ask my wife to feminize me but she went ahead and did it anyways. She changed out vanilla marriage into a female-led relationship after I had an affair.

It was a condition of remaining married and due to the financial implications I felt as if I had no choice. She removed all of my male clothing from the house and locked me in female sissy clothing and high heels.

When I say “locked” I do mean locked. My heels (always five inches or higher) are chained to my feet and my outfits are usually locked on. While I could possibly cut the clothing off I’m still stuck. Where will I go naked or dressed en femme (I’m not passable as a female) with no money or credit cards?

My wife has taken full control and uses her newfound power liberally. She has no problems punitively punishing me for any misbehavior. She has me doing all of the daily household tasks (as she makes more than enough money, my job was not required and thus eliminated).

I am also her personal servant. In addition to all of the daily chores, I have to tend to all of her needs as well. My needs are secondary if they are even considered at all. I am locked in chastity and my wife often reminds me that it’s her **** to do with as she pleases.

I know there are many out there who would consider this a dream lifestyle but like the individual that asked the question said it is a lot of work with little to no gratification.

While my wife took her time adding outfits and all sorts of bondage gear, she was clearly planning this for some time and (sadly) I have to give her credit because she executed her plan flawlessly. Now she has a maid, a cook, or a gimp depending on her mood.

Have circumstances ever forced you guys to dress in girl's clothes?

They certainly have and I’ve told my story many times throughout my answers, but a combination of being caught committing adultery and an overall **** made my wife snap one day.

She decided to forcefully change our marriage from a typical one to a female-led relationship. This new relationship required me to be subjected to her whims, which include heavy female domination, bondage and of course feminization.

As it pertains to the question, my **** was locked in chastity and became the absolute property of my wife. All of my male clothing was removed from the house and I was (and am currently) forced to dress as a female.

Since that time I have not had a choice in what to wear. I wear pantyhose or stockings, panties, high heels (stilettos, minimum five inches high) along with a dress or skirt / blouse daily.

Have you ever put a pair of your pantyhose on a boyfriend?

I have not personally, as despite my username I am male. I have been feminized by my wife who has ensured that I wear pantyhose (or stockings) daily.

I would self-define myself as somewhat of a pantyhose fetishist. I enjoy a pair of quality hosiery on a female simply because they look good on a woman’s legs but that look also turns me on.

Prior to my wife taking control of our relationship (and please feel free to read my other answers for that story), I never really had any cause or desire to put on a pair of nylons.

When my wife feminized me pantyhose became part of the basic outfit she had me wear. I had to learn not only how to put them on without running them, but also how to launder them and make sure that I do not rip them while doing so. I also had to learn why they can be such a pain in the ass while wearing them as they are easily the most delicate piece of lingerie (?). If your leg brushes against something the wrong way you can snag or run them. If your toenails are not properly manicured, you could put a hole in them. How irritating!

That being said you can cheat a little bit as thicker hosiery (30 denier or 40 denier) will be a bit more durable than anything super sheer (5 denier to 20 denier). You still have to be careful though!

I have to admit that that wearing hosiery feels pretty good. I find the effect of rubbing my legs together erotic and I enjoy the compression and look on my legs. Not that I have much of a choice.

Is your husband’s **** your toy?

My wife has locked my **** up with a chastity device. It absolutely belongs to her 100%. There is no way for me to remove the device or masturbate. My wife considers the **** attached to me her personal property and it is only there for her amusement and pleasure.

How many husbands or boyfriends out there get spanked by the wife or girlfriend?

I am spanked by my wife, and have been for over five years.

I am in a female led femdom relationship and spanking (as well as other forms or corporal punishment) is used by my wife as a tool to correct and modify any misbehavior on my part.

That being said, my wife also enjoys spanking me, or using a paddle. If I try to resist, I am punished further. My wife is in full control, and she knows it and loves it.

As for me, I find spankings humiliating and the fact that I can do nothing about it makes it even more enjoyable for my wife.

Why do girlfriends/wives like to torture their boyfriends/husbands by having them wear a chastity cage?

My wife has locked me in chastity because I was unfaithful. She did a great many other things as well, including feminizing me and transitioning our marriage into a full fledged Female-Led Relationship.

I had initially agreed to this in order to save the marriage but also because I was very naive and thought that it would not be for the long-term. I thought that she would extract some revenge, have some fun, and then things would eventually go back to what I knew was normal.

That did not happen. I was locked in chastity, my male clothing was disposed of, and through various punitive techniques I was feminized and given all of the domestic tasks of the household.

I am not allowed to masturbate and my wife considers the genitals attached to me “Her” property. Orgasm is only given out at her discretion, and that is rare pleasure indeed.

My wife enjoys my situation, it turns her on immensely.

This seems less about FLR although it certainly ends up that way, and more about 'Don't do the crime if you can't do the time'. They got a harsh lesson which they well deserved.

I did not ask my wife to feminize me but she went ahead and did it anyways. She changed out vanilla marriage into a female-led.
It was a condition of remaining married and due to the financial implications

Great example of the future we are building. Couple great points from the post. These are both keys to women taking charge and building a true female empowered future. The female took control and the male had no choice. The key to this was controlling the money. He could always leave penniless, but no he is helpless and has no choice accept to comply with his wife demands. He is no longer the man of the house, no now he is the sissy of the house.

I have no pity for men who say they are "forced". But in reality, go along with being feminized. Every adult has a choice. If he was truly forced via blackmail or other means. There are Courts/Lawyers/Police he can go to. Giving up control to another person is not being "forced". It is giving up control. If you no longer want to be in that type of relationship. Don't whine about it. Get out of it!

newAgeMaleBallerina

I agree 100%. Forced is a fantasy. I for one, love reading about the fantasy. For any Adult, in any relationship, consent is key. What disturbs me is forcing kids. Short term Petticoat Punishment is one thing. Boy Beauty Pageants and temporarily switching roles can also be fun and enlightening. Forcing them to dress fulltime and turn them into a girl is quite another. Until they reach 18, they should stay as they are. I realize here too. Great majority of feminized boy stories are all fantasy. I would hope if someone witnessed this in reality. They would report it.

Great discussion you generated Patti.  Gotta give this board credit for allowing all sides to be heard in a respectful manner.  Bravo!

newAgeMaleBallerina

I agree 100%. Forced is a fantasy. I for one, love reading about the fantasy. For any Adult, in any relationship, consent is key. What disturbs me is forcing kids. Short term Petticoat Punishment is one thing. Boy Beauty Pageants and temporarily switching roles can also be fun and enlightening. Forcing them to dress fulltime and turn them into a girl is quite another. Until they reach 18, they should stay as they are. I realize here too. Great majority of feminized boy stories are all fantasy. I would hope if someone witnessed this in reality. They would report it.

I think 95% fantasy as there are a very few cases where it is real, just as there are males who force women into subjugation but nobody mentions that the law makes the latter easy. But this is about a guy having an affair maybe more than one and we don't know how long. It takes a particular mindset to offer this lifestyle as an alternative to divorce, drastic drop in income, and access issues to any children. He was a selfish b*****d who didn't care who he hurt as long as he was OK. Well guess what payback and karma are ****.
Personally I see his sniveling and self-pity as pathetic and making him a good candidate for politics. What he didn't want was to find himself in a flat above a shop somewhere terrified of his car being damaged and unable to carry on at the golf club.
The problem is that people link people like him with trans people and those where the wife runs the household to the mutual benefit of all. I've worked with no end of guys who can't even boil an egg or sort a washing load out. Pathetic.