I would suggest that only the most radical should be isolated, while the wiser should be referred to live in enclaves, first and foremost to be shown to our daughters, as described above, but also to give the girls, who are born into these families, a chance to see how their lives could be if they broke with their family and moved to the better world.
I like the idea of researching chromosome technology to strengthen different characteristics of both girls and boyettes, but I don't like the idea of weakening the boyettes, we should rather reinforce the feminine characteristics of them so that we can get the best possible material to work with when we develop the mallettes, and a mallette need strength so they can perform their chores in the most efficient way.