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I have a question about the new age lifestyle
« on: April 17, 2024, 02:08:20 pm »
Hi everyone.

I know I have been posting a fair bit in the last few days.  I really just want to be a bit more active in the forum and I think I have been a bit over excites to be able to get back online.

I will make this the last post for a little bit.

But I just wanted to say I really love that there is a dedicated place for women to post that men arenít allowed. 

My first thought was we should have a vote or something to make our sissies do something.  purely so that they can watch us discuss their fates but knowing they are not allowed a vote or say in whatever we choose to do to them.  I mean i know we are in control either way.  But part of me just likes the idea of making them watch and read knowing that they canít influence in anyway. 

I have posted in other places on the forum so wont explain again here.  But I absolutely love of forcing my will on my sissy partner.    Although sometimes I do feel a little guilty that maybe I take too much pleasure from doing things like setting near impossible tasks that we both know he will never complete so that I will get to punish him and watch him tremble and beg for mercy. 

Does anyone else feel like this? or even do this? 

Maybe it is my mind set around this stuff.  Or maybe my experiences over the years have made me enjoy a little bit of pay back?  Now itís my turn to talk over the boys and pull their bra straps and tell them to settle down because they are on their period. 

Are these things normal?

I am still very new to all of this.  and I am restarting my journey. 

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« Reply #1 on: April 18, 2024, 08:15:47 am »
Yes, there is soemthing about being able to just watch them as we make decisions that they have no say or control over - sounds delightful.

For now, I love deciding what sissies are going to wear for the day. It's my decision and knowing they have to agonisingly wait is delightful.

It also forces them to start having a favourite pair of heels or a favourite dress. Yes it may be because they feel it's less humiliating or painful but the fact that they now have gone from strong male to having a favourite pair of strappy heels is PROGRESS and so adorable.
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« Reply #2 on: April 18, 2024, 09:23:05 am »
Yes, there is soemthing about being able to just watch them as we make decisions that they have no say or control over - sounds delightful.

For now, I love deciding what sissies are going to wear for the day. It's my decision and knowing they have to agonisingly wait is delightful.

It also forces them to start having a favourite pair of heels or a favourite dress. Yes it may be because they feel it's less humiliating or painful but the fact that they now have gone from strong male to having a favourite pair of strappy heels is PROGRESS and so adorable.

thank you. I think i needed to hear it. 

part of me always feels like I am bullying my sissy. But at the end of the day I suppose he was the one who signed up for it.  and I did make it crystal clear what was going to happen.   

I know not all sissys are given this foreshadowing of their future.
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« Reply #3 on: April 18, 2024, 09:25:29 am »
Entirely agree with and practice this philosophy!   Making them choose and them overruling..   what they eat and wear and do and seeÖ. Etc.
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« Reply #4 on: April 29, 2024, 10:44:20 am »
Hmm interesting take and idea.
Iím sure I could give Marcus some chores/tasks that I know he will fuss over and most likely not complete. He is due for a reminder of his place in my household.
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« Reply #5 on: April 29, 2024, 10:47:15 am »
I feel it is necessary to keep them off balance so they do not get complacent with the routine!
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« Reply #6 on: April 29, 2024, 11:00:26 am »
Off balance, how so? By giving a different set of chores every day?
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« Reply #7 on: April 29, 2024, 11:09:17 am »
Different tasks ,  different outfits,  different standards,  not everyday but regularly ! 
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« Reply #8 on: April 29, 2024, 12:06:07 pm »
Maybe it is my mind set around this stuff.  Or maybe my experiences over the years have made me enjoy a little bit of pay back?  Now itís my turn to talk over the boys and pull their bra straps and tell them to settle down because they are on their period. 

There is nothing wrong with your enjoying your power and given males the well deserve payback they have earned. It has been over 30 years for me and I still enjoy seeing males put into their places. Personally, I think it mentally healthy for women to enjoy the experience of feminization. We are the ones putting in the wrong to correct the flaws of masculinity. We should enjoy the spoils.
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« Reply #9 on: April 29, 2024, 12:07:29 pm »
Hmm interesting take and idea.
Iím sure I could give Marcus some chores/tasks that I know he will fuss over and most likely not complete. He is due for a reminder of his place in my household.

While it takes time and effort on your part is is necessary for sissies to have a firm reminder of their place. The male brain needs proper guidance and discipline or their old masculine ways will resurface.
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