hi.
as the title of my post says I have a confession i would like to make. My confession is that i enjoy watching my son squirm powerlessly knowing there is nothing he can do about.
I was a new member to pdq forms before they unfortunately ceased to be.
Last year, in july, my son had lost a bet. he allowed us to come up with a fitting punishment for him. it was around this time that i found pdq as we had originally only teased him about dressing him up as a girl.
anyway he lost and we had a lot of fun at his expense. i will tell that story in another post if you would like to hear it. anyway after that experiance i had began to look for any other excuses to force my boy into skirts again. its not because i particularly enjoy him being dressed as a girl or because his behaviour needs correcting. i think i enjoy seeing him feel powerless, due to his circumstances he currently lives at home and i have a decent income so i dont really ask for much in return which has by pure chance given me a lot of barganing power, because he cant really afford to fend for himself right now. also watching him stumble about in heels was quite enjoyable to watch and tease him over.
since that experiance we have been looking for any excuse to dress him up again or force feminine procedures on him. one such rule we now have in our house is that if his legs are too far apart, which men are most likely to do, we will force him to wear a low cut mini skirt and heels. we tell him its for his own good and to " help correct the issue" but honestly we have just began to enjoy playing dress up with him.
he of course does not need to do these things but i have made it crystal clear that as long as he lives under my roof for free he will abide by any rules i choose to put in place.
sorry i should mention that it is myself, my son who lives with me, his girl friend and my daughter who now has a flat of her own. my son moved back in during the pandemic when thngs fell apart at school. we do put all girly rules to a vote but as you can imagine the results are pretty much the same. 3 for 1 against.
anyway if you have read this far thank you for taking the time to read my post.