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1fedupmom

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Son Is Acting Out
« on: September 24, 2024, 02:11:33 pm »
Hi! I have been a guest reader for quite sometime. I recently just posted but got cold feet and deleted but I really need to take action so I am putting back up. My son lost his father a little over a year ago and has since acted out towards women and girls. At home I don't know if he is trying to be the "man" of the house, if he is picking up toxic masculinity from friends Dads, but his disrespect needs to stop. I have tried grounding, taking away his phone and electronics and nothing. I have contemplated feminizing him but do not know where or how to start and also I am concerned if he rejects it and I get a call from the Dr or the school. But I do really want to move forward with his feminization. Thank you fellow Moms and ladies. I look forward in doing my part to push this lifestyle forward.
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« Reply #1 on: September 25, 2024, 12:32:42 am »
Welcome, first deep breath there sounds like a lot is going on at home. Ever situation is different and it is important to develop a plan that works for you. The first step would be start restricting the bad outside influence from other boys, teachers and male role model. Then starting introducing femininity into son's life and removing the masculine bad things such as access to video games, online groups, sports club etc.

Once the bad male influence is reduce start thinking about how you would treat your son if he was a girl. Then slowly start treating him like a daughter. Introduce more feminine clothes, gear his interests towards girlish hobbies and behaviors.

Makes sense?
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« Reply #2 on: September 26, 2024, 06:58:40 am »
Welcome, first deep breath there sounds like a lot is going on at home. Ever situation is different and it is important to develop a plan that works for you. The first step would be start restricting the bad outside influence from other boys, teachers and male role model. Then starting introducing femininity into son's life and removing the masculine bad things such as access to video games, online groups, sports club etc.

Once the bad male influence is reduce start thinking about how you would treat your son if he was a girl. Then slowly start treating him like a daughter. Introduce more feminine clothes, gear his interests towards girlish hobbies and behaviors.

Makes sense?

Yes! Thank you so much. I have had so many wonderful people reach out to me in my Inbox. Yesterday I called and pulled him from his hockey league that will be starting in a few weeks. This weekend is their last football game of the year, so no more after that. I have some ideas of when I go shopping this weekend.

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« Reply #3 on: September 26, 2024, 12:51:30 pm »
What an excellent start!
If he continues to make a fuss about sport, you have two routes ahead (which aren’t mutually exclusive).
1. If he wants to watch sports, take him to see women's sports. Wrestling and weightlifting in particular, so that he starts to understand that Women are powerful and strong.
2. If he wants to participate in sports, sign him up for yoga or ballet. This trains him to understand that he needs to be supple, graceful and thin; it also gives you the opportunity to clad him in more effeminate clothing.

A second point is to make surely that he is constantly surrounded by forceful, dominant girls and Women. Perhaps by doing household chores for you and your girlfriends, and also by seeking out the most bossy girls in his school (preferably ones he has a crush on), and co-opting them into your plan. You will not find yourself short of takers!

Thank you so much! The support on here has been overwhelming. Yes, since we are near a major college and do not have main pro sports we will change from attending the men's sports to the women's sports. There is also a women's tackle football team here which Im already looking to buy a more girl suited tshirt for support of the team. Talking with ya'll I really hope to do my part and to raise a proper a New Age Boy into society.
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« Reply #4 on: September 26, 2024, 01:02:20 pm »
Perhaps you could talk to the team about letting your son be their water boy.This would give him almost constant exposure to women who are probably more fir and even stronger than he is.
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OMG what a great idea! I'll look to inquire  I do not know their age limit but cannot hurt to ask.

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« Reply #5 on: September 26, 2024, 03:57:57 pm »
I can see that everything started with the passing of his dad which indicates he might  be sufferinh kind of trauma, and forcing him to do something against his will may lead to undesirable outcome.
Plus he's still a minor.

I appreciate your concern. He had what we would call toxic male traits prior but his father would normally address. We as a family went through therapy after his father passed, but I believe friends who have less than ideal role models have played a part as well are influencing him to act poorly to women and girls. Ive done the talking, Ive done the grounding now its time to try other influences to put a better person in society. But thank you again for your concern. I will take it in mind
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« Reply #6 on: September 27, 2024, 09:13:27 am »
Thank you so much! The support on here has been overwhelming. Yes, since we are near a major college and do not have main pro sports we will change from attending the men's sports to the women's sports. There is also a women's tackle football team here which Im already looking to buy a more girl suited tshirt for support of the team. Talking with ya'll I really hope to do my part and to raise a proper a New Age Boy into society.

We are happy to help and mentor new mothers. Love the idea about buying her a shirt supporting the local women's team. Attending games and cheering them on is good starting point. Someone suggested Halloween ideas, so if you are ready maybe have him be a cheerleader for the women's team or other fun feminine costume.

I have mentored many mothers over the year. Please message me if you want to talk more.
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