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I have femmed him to my liking and am in a great place now. I love him more than ever!  He is hair free but for a sexy teardrop of pubic hair and is always in lingerie, even when in male mode.  His manners, behavior, and focus on me and my wants and needs I is exemplary!  My mom and some of my trusted friends know and see what I am doing!  This year I introduced chastity and find that has added a new level of control and excitement!

I am about four years in, we started around August 2018.

I'm pretty much where I would like to be. I've still to get to a place where I have a consistent policy surrounding chastity which bothers me, but other than that I control all aspects of our finances and household. Within my home my sissy is well feminized and trained. He takes all the duties of a traditional housewife.

I've learnt a lot about myself and my sissy over the course of moving to FLR. For the both of us, the results are overwhelmingly positive. I must admit to enjoy being in control and running the household and my sissy seems content and happy.

- Claire.

I guess part of my problem is that my end goals needed to change as I was trying to work out my approach. Let me get my thoughts together and explain where I am with this, it would be good to get the advice of other empowered women on this site. I'll repost as a new thread so I am not taking this one off topic.

- Claire.

Really is a total win for us and a win for our sissies. They get to evolve and leave behind societal pressures, focussing instead on being pretty.

In our case, I have a series of house rules regarding his dress and conduct at home which re-enforce his position. For example, male clothing is forbidden at home, he is responsible for all the housework, and he must always have a docile attitude. I monitor these to ensure he remains appropriately feminine and submissive.

I found that when Jemima got into a good routines of behavior was easy to for me to take it all for granted. The trick is to always acknowledge good behavior in your sissy and use lots of possessive enforcement. It will keep your sissy focused on being well behaved and obedient to you. Be sure to notice when they have made an extra effort. Sissies should always know their place, but that does not mean that you need to be threatening them with punishment all the time. I use a system of rewards and punishments to keep my sissy motivated to be the best wife he can be.

To keep him involved, I'll sometimes change or add rules so that our FLR changes slightly over time. Another technique is to spend a short period of time focusing on one aspect of his behavior. For instance, have a weekend where you are extra strict with him, not even allowing a sloppy curtsy. Then reward or punish as you see fit.

I see FLR more as an ongoing then rather than a one off change. Our relationship has evolved over the time we have been doing it. Take charge, but always communicate with your sissy - find out what makes it fun for him and use that. Experiment a little and see what works for you.   

- Claire.

The voting is closed sadly.

But we are in the stage with my 10 years old son, that we trained for 1,5 years that is is beeing a very natural girl wright now, he is all feminine not fulltime yet, but close to.
At this moment we forced him so in the feminine role that we can put him on stage and mad a all girl pageant out of him and he can now compete to natural born girls.
But we aren't there we want to reach the point with him that he say i'm a girl in a mens body en he lives longer as a girl than he lived as a boy and that his masculine part is complete fade away so far that is can't come back.

Love this.

Emasculation is so important to get sissies mentally prepared. The poor dolls can sometimes forget their place, so it's important to consistently remind them through what they wear and experience.

Like yes, you must do the dishes and clean the house but I also inspect you to look extremely sexy whilst doing it.